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Serious Random thoughts I had related to how I'll raise my son

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Hello guys, despite the title, I do not have a son yet. This is related to my future journey I will be undertaking as a single father via surrogacy in about 10 years (currently 30) or when I finally reach my funding goals.

When I was about 26, I fully embraced the blackpill. I was previously a mgtow (became one around 16 jfl), but I realized I was sent my own way more than it was me leaving voluntarily. I've always wanted a family and children, something that is obviously not possible due to my looks. So I looked for alternatives and eventually came upon surrogacy as an option. I'm now 30 and I have about 10 years or so to save up enough money to afford a surrogate and genetic therapy to have my son along with a solid cushion so I don't have to work for a bit. The whole process is going to be about $250k (including some genetic modifications) if done overseas, which is how I plan on doing it. Hopefully, costs come down as commercial surrogacy and gene editing increases in commonality, but for now, I have that budget.

I plan on getting a dozen eggs or so from a well known egg farm operating in eastern Europe, so hopefully when my DNA and the donor's DNA do their thing in the test tube, I'll be able to select what the embryo will look like when he is an adult (the tech is still early but the field is maturing rapidly). I'll find a good base and modify from there. I know to make my son tall (6'4+ if possible), get rid of any latent genetic diseases or issues, and to select the best looks that I can, with a focus on eye color and whatever facial characteristics I can manipulate using the available technology. I don't want my son to live life as an ugly male, especially in 2040 or 2050 when he is in his teens and 20s.

The questions that I've been grappling with is how am I going to raise my Chad son? What should I teach him early on to help him? I know his looks will carry him far, but I want him to absolutely dominate all the normies, and I want him to do it with an understanding of the blackpill and its tenets. Should I just throwaway any mentioning of religion at all? Raise him as an atheist but with a blackpilled worldview? Tell him early on that humans are not created equal? That he has a tremendous advantage over others just because of his origin, but that he should embrace his high status rather than be ashamed of it like some others might try to make him feel?

I figured that when my son got old enough, around six years old, for social skills to really start forming (along with the social hierarchy we know), I would start giving him blackpill truths, like how manipulation via your gifts/looks is more important than actually being a "good boy" and other such things. That academic performance, while being important, is secondary to being well liked, since nepotism rules the world. Like, if there is a test or something coming up, but his birthday is coming up, I'm going to allow him to throw a huge party for his friends and let him call in sick on the test day. Essentially giving him a dark triad personality on purpose early on, so that he can take advantage of the oblivious normies and foids he'll encounter. At the same time, I want him to show compassion for the trucels, and to understand that their role in the social hierarchy was forced onto them by normies and foids, it was not their fault that they became what they are. In order for some to succeed, others must fail. It is how genetics works. But how the hell would a six or seven year old even react to the blackpill? Would he constantly get into trouble with the feminist school system, or would his looks carry him through it like it would into countless panties?

But it'll be like I'm reading him a book. I haven't lived that life. My life is one of a trucel who was never going to be popular. I've never been popular, so I have no idea what to do when he gets there later in his middle school and high school ages. I mean, his looks should hopefully come in early so he could start getting that coveted 14 and 15 year old pussy right in middle school. I feel like he'll start to realize, especially if he sleeps around, which I would encourage him to, that women are not special, that they are not unique and that they are definitely not to be worshipped or even, heaven forbid, respected. Every Chad I've ever met tells me this, that they came to this realization after the 10th or 12th chick. I don't want him to lose the teachings of the blackpill over some mediocre teen pussy. I'll need to remind him everyday that what he is experiencing is largely a product of his looks, but I'm going to have to explain this to a fucking teenage Chad.

Shit like this keeps me up at night.
 
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The environment he’s raise will either raise or lower his iq by 20.put him in all the extracurricular and classes as soon as he turns 9.he needs to iq mog normies.bonus if you can get him in a top jewversity

As for socials.you don’t need to do anything.he will automatically gain confidence by being worshipped by foids and will become popular on his own
 
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The environment he’s raise will either raise or lower his iq by 20.put him in all the extracurricular and classes as soon as he turns 9.he needs to iq mog normies.bonus if you can get him in a top jewversity

As for socials.you don’t need to do anything.he will automatically gain confidence by being worshipped by foids and will become popular on his own
Yeah. but IQ is not enough in many cases. But he'll be involved in as many things as I could put him in within reason, just so he can make as many connections as possible. Thy key to success is knowing the right people. Competence is a secondary trait in a gynocentric system.
 
Yeah. but IQ is not enough in many cases. But he'll be involved in as many things as I could put him in within reason, just so he can make as many connections as possible. Thy key to success is knowing the right people. Competence is a secondary trait in a gynocentric system.
I agree.which is why I also said put him in all the extracurriculars.you can meet a lot of richfags that way.(ik from experience)since he’s gonna be tall put him in sports or something
 
As for socials.you don’t need to do anything.he will automatically gain confidence by being worshipped by foids and will become popular on his own
The socials thing is really more so that he understands why he has what he has. I don't want him to think it was "hard work" or "luck" or other such nonsense. I want him to kind of be a living blackpill example so the other males can take note. I don't want him to be oblivious.
 
Hello guys, despite the title, I do not have a son yet. This is related to my future journey I will be undertaking as a single father via surrogacy in about 10 years (currently 30) or when I finally reach my funding goals.

When I was about 26, I fully embraced the blackpill. I was previously a mgtow (became one around 16 jfl), but I realized I was sent my own way more than it was me leaving voluntarily. I've always wanted a family and children, something that is obviously not possible due to my looks. So I looked for alternatives and eventually came upon surrogacy as an option. I'm now 30 and I have about 10 years or so to save up enough money to afford a surrogate and genetic therapy to have my son along with a solid cushion so I don't have to work for a bit. The whole process is going to be about $250k (including some genetic modifications) if done overseas, which is how I plan on doing it. Hopefully, costs come down as commercial surrogacy and gene editing increases in commonality, but for now, I have that budget.

I plan on getting a dozen eggs or so from a well known egg farm operating in eastern Europe, so hopefully when my DNA and the donor's DNA do their thing in the test tube, I'll be able to select what the embryo will look like when he is an adult (the tech is still early but the field is maturing rapidly). I'll find a good base and modify from there. I know to make my son tall (6'4+ if possible), get rid of any latent genetic diseases or issues, and to select the best looks that I can, with a focus on eye color and whatever facial characteristics I can manipulate using the available technology. I don't want my son to live life as an ugly male, especially in 2040 or 2050 when he is in his teens and 20s.

The questions that I've been grappling with is how am I going to raise my Chad son? What should I teach him early on to help him? I know his looks will carry him far, but I want him to absolutely dominate all the normies, and I want him to do it with an understanding of the blackpill and its tenets. Should I just throwaway any mentioning of religion at all? Raise him as an atheist but with a blackpilled worldview? Tell him early on that humans are not created equal? That he has a tremendous advantage over others just because of his origin, but that he should embrace his high status rather than be ashamed of it like some others might try to make him feel?

I figured that when my son got old enough, around six years old, for social skills to really start forming (along with the social hierarchy we know), I would start giving him blackpill truths, like how manipulation via your gifts/looks is more important than actually being a "good boy" and other such things. That academic performance, while being important, is secondary to being well liked, since nepotism rules the world. Like, if there is a test or something coming up, but his birthday is coming up, I'm going to allow him to throw a huge party for his friends and let him call in sick on the test day. Essentially giving him a dark triad personality on purpose early on, so that he can take advantage of the oblivious normies and foids he'll encounter. At the same time, I want him to show compassion for the trucels, and to understand that their role in the social hierarchy was forced onto them by normies and foids, it was not their fault that they became what they are. In order for some to succeed, others must fail. It is how genetics works. But how the hell would a six or seven year old even react to the blackpill? Would he constantly get into trouble with the feminist school system, or would his looks carry him through it like it would into countless panties?

But it'll be like I'm reading him a book. I haven't lived that life. My life is one of a trucel who was never going to be popular. I've never been popular, so I have no idea what to do when he gets there later in his middle school and high school ages. I mean, his looks should hopefully come in early so he could start getting that coveted 14 and 15 year old pussy right in middle school. I feel like he'll start to realize, especially if he sleeps around, which I would encourage him to, that women are not special, that they are not unique and that they are definitely not to be worshipped or even, heaven forbid, respected. Every Chad I've ever met tells me this, that they came to this realization after the 10th or 12th chick. I don't want him to lose the teachings of the blackpill over some mediocre teen pussy. I'll need to remind him everyday that what he is experiencing is largely a product of his looks, but I'm going to have to explain this to a fucking teenage Chad.

Shit like this keeps me up at night.
It’s kind of weird to raise a kid without a roastie to take care of it. I’d be worried the kid will turn out to be a homo or something.
 
The socials thing is really more so that he understands why he has what he has. I don't want him to think it was "hard work" or "luck" or other such nonsense. I want him to kind of be a living blackpill example so the other males can take note. I don't want him to be oblivious.
tell him your life story of a short and ugly man.tell him to appreciate his privilege and to use it to his full advantage
 
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It’s kind of weird to raise a kid without a roastie to take care of it. I’d be worried the kid will turn out to be a homo or something.
Its more likely that a modern foid would make your son gay or even trans him for internet points. Its actually safer to raise him yourself.
 
Its more likely that a modern foid would make your son gay or even trans him for internet points. Its actually safer to raise him yourself.
I feel like that’s only amongst woke foids who live in big cities. Amongst Hollywood shit lib foids, having a troon child is probably the biggest status symbol. I’d only be able to have kids if I had a very obedient foid to take care of the kids. I really love my mom and it would have been weird not having a mom. Especially going to school and all the other kids have a mom.
 
I’d only be able to have kids if I had a very obedient foid to take care of the kids. I really love my mom and it would have been weird not having a mom. Especially going to school and all the other kids have a mom.
I can see how you could think that? I don't actually believe mothers are necessary to raising boys past age 5 or 6. When I look back on my life, my mom stopped being super important when I was in the school system. The school system did more to raise me than my parents did, in a sense. Whenever I wasn't at school, I was either doing homework or watching TV/playing vidya or playing with friends. My mom did all the domestic work (my father is a betabux who is the sole income), but I remember her sitting around all day after she got done cleaning for a like an hour and a half. I didn't spend too much time with my dad at all since he worked all the time. The lesson I took away was to save lots of money before having kids and to live modestly so that I can spend time with my son.

I've always thought the common foid complaint about "domestic labor" was either an exaggerated problem or a problem that they brought upon themselves by having too much space or too much clutter. I do all of my own domestic labor now as it is. Its not complicated nor is it time consuming. I keep a minimalist space without too much shit to clean. I'm sure adding one child to the equation is not difficult.
 
I can see how you could think that? I don't actually believe mothers are necessary to raising boys past age 5 or 6. When I look back on my life, my mom stopped being super important when I was in the school system. The school system did more to raise me than my parents did, in a sense. Whenever I wasn't at school, I was either doing homework or watching TV/playing vidya or playing with friends. My mom did all the domestic work (my father is a betabux who is the sole income), but I remember her sitting around all day after she got done cleaning for a like an hour and a half. I didn't spend too much time with my dad at all since he worked all the time. The lesson I took away was to save lots of money before having kids and to live modestly so that I can spend time with my son.

I've always thought the common foid complaint about "domestic labor" was either an exaggerated problem or a problem that they brought upon themselves by having too much space or too much clutter. I do all of my own domestic labor now as it is. Its not complicated nor is it time consuming. I keep a minimalist space without too much shit to clean. I'm sure adding one child to the equation is not difficult.
I see what you mean. My mom is kind of a bitch sometimes, but she’s the only foid I’ve ever had a relationship with, and the only one who’s ever been nice to me.
 
The socials thing is really more so that he understands why he has what he has. I don't want him to think it was "hard work" or "luck" or other such nonsense. I want him to kind of be a living blackpill example so the other males can take note. I don't want him to be oblivious.
Don't circumcise him under any circumstances. It removes ~70% of sexual pleasure and inflicts violent sexual trauma on an infant. In the 90s, feminists pushed to make female circumcision illegal, but not male, and most feminists support circumcision and do it to their sons...you want to know why? Because anything that hurts men and/or diminishes us sexually makes them happy. They are sick.
 
Don't circumcise him under any circumstances. It removes ~70% of sexual pleasure and inflicts violent sexual trauma on an infant. In the 90s, feminists pushed to make female circumcision illegal, but not male, and most feminists support circumcision and do it to their sons...you want to know why? Because anything that hurts men and/or diminishes us sexually makes them happy. They are sick.
Absolutely. Circumcision is retarded. Just practice proper hygiene.
 
Absolutely. Circumcision is retarded. Just practice proper hygiene.
Cunts are a lot harder to keep clean than intact penises, anyway. Dirty flaps.
 
Hello guys, despite the title, I do not have a son yet. This is related to my future journey I will be undertaking as a single father via surrogacy in about 10 years (currently 30) or when I finally reach my funding goals.

When I was about 26, I fully embraced the blackpill. I was previously a mgtow (became one around 16 jfl), but I realized I was sent my own way more than it was me leaving voluntarily. I've always wanted a family and children, something that is obviously not possible due to my looks. So I looked for alternatives and eventually came upon surrogacy as an option. I'm now 30 and I have about 10 years or so to save up enough money to afford a surrogate and genetic therapy to have my son along with a solid cushion so I don't have to work for a bit. The whole process is going to be about $250k (including some genetic modifications) if done overseas, which is how I plan on doing it. Hopefully, costs come down as commercial surrogacy and gene editing increases in commonality, but for now, I have that budget.

I plan on getting a dozen eggs or so from a well known egg farm operating in eastern Europe, so hopefully when my DNA and the donor's DNA do their thing in the test tube, I'll be able to select what the embryo will look like when he is an adult (the tech is still early but the field is maturing rapidly). I'll find a good base and modify from there. I know to make my son tall (6'4+ if possible), get rid of any latent genetic diseases or issues, and to select the best looks that I can, with a focus on eye color and whatever facial characteristics I can manipulate using the available technology. I don't want my son to live life as an ugly male, especially in 2040 or 2050 when he is in his teens and 20s.

The questions that I've been grappling with is how am I going to raise my Chad son? What should I teach him early on to help him? I know his looks will carry him far, but I want him to absolutely dominate all the normies, and I want him to do it with an understanding of the blackpill and its tenets. Should I just throwaway any mentioning of religion at all? Raise him as an atheist but with a blackpilled worldview? Tell him early on that humans are not created equal? That he has a tremendous advantage over others just because of his origin, but that he should embrace his high status rather than be ashamed of it like some others might try to make him feel?

I figured that when my son got old enough, around six years old, for social skills to really start forming (along with the social hierarchy we know), I would start giving him blackpill truths, like how manipulation via your gifts/looks is more important than actually being a "good boy" and other such things. That academic performance, while being important, is secondary to being well liked, since nepotism rules the world. Like, if there is a test or something coming up, but his birthday is coming up, I'm going to allow him to throw a huge party for his friends and let him call in sick on the test day. Essentially giving him a dark triad personality on purpose early on, so that he can take advantage of the oblivious normies and foids he'll encounter. At the same time, I want him to show compassion for the trucels, and to understand that their role in the social hierarchy was forced onto them by normies and foids, it was not their fault that they became what they are. In order for some to succeed, others must fail. It is how genetics works. But how the hell would a six or seven year old even react to the blackpill? Would he constantly get into trouble with the feminist school system, or would his looks carry him through it like it would into countless panties?

But it'll be like I'm reading him a book. I haven't lived that life. My life is one of a trucel who was never going to be popular. I've never been popular, so I have no idea what to do when he gets there later in his middle school and high school ages. I mean, his looks should hopefully come in early so he could start getting that coveted 14 and 15 year old pussy right in middle school. I feel like he'll start to realize, especially if he sleeps around, which I would encourage him to, that women are not special, that they are not unique and that they are definitely not to be worshipped or even, heaven forbid, respected. Every Chad I've ever met tells me this, that they came to this realization after the 10th or 12th chick. I don't want him to lose the teachings of the blackpill over some mediocre teen pussy. I'll need to remind him everyday that what he is experiencing is largely a product of his looks, but I'm going to have to explain this to a fucking teenage Chad.

Shit like this keeps me up at night.
Ok saar
 
If I were to raise a son I would tell him its over and give him whatever he wants to the best of my ability for the sin of procreating with my shitty genes
 
I'll find a good base and modify from there. I know to make my son tall (6'4+ if possible), get rid of any latent genetic diseases or issues, and to select the best looks that I can, with a focus on eye color and whatever facial characteristics I can manipulate using the available technology.

Also focus on penis size. It has to be at least 8 inches.
 
I want him to do it with an understanding of the blackpill and its tenets. Should I just throwaway any mentioning of religion at all? Raise him as an atheist but with a blackpilled worldview? Tell him early on that humans are not created equal? That he has a tremendous advantage over others just because of his origin, but that he should embrace his high status rather than be ashamed of it like some others might try to make him feel?
You should teach him all of that.

The core tenets of lookism and genetic determinism are of course the foundations of the blackpill so I would start there. You seem as though you have a solid understanding of reality when it comes to both romantic and platonic relationships and how sexual attraction works as a whole. I suspect that your son will be in good hands.

I’m curious about this surrogacy, epigenetics, and gene editing process myself. Are there any books/articles/studies etc. that you would recommend so I can get a better understanding of it?

Best wishes for the decade ahead.
 
Mirin your plans, im going for the same thing once i have enough money
 
Its more likely that a modern foid would make your son gay or even trans him for internet points. Its actually safer to raise him yourself.
Based idea, us incels should escortmaxx and surrogatemaxx, moneymaxxing is the closest thing to decent ascension. Fuck the jewish economy man I can't even cope anymore I need shekels man god dammit.
 

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