Problem with being a man over 30 in the west is you're socially isolated with no escape.

[mylifeistrash]

Your peers are all working themselves to death just to afford to stay alive.

The married men are cucked beyond belief and have massive problems to deal with.

All you could possibly do is hang out with college kids but that doesn't work out well unless you're playing sports with them. This isn't that bad of an idea but your body can only take so much abuse and having to play a shitty sport just to talk to people is honestly pretty fucked up.

Socialization at work? MeToo and that sort of bullshit killed it all.

So what's left?

No, seriously. What can you possibly do?

 

[Cuyen]

The best thing you'd do in the west as a ugly man is LDAR till die

 

[BitterCel]

Hobbies and escapism. Or just becoming religious if you can

 

[mylifeistrash]

The best thing you'd do in the west as a ugly man is LDAR till die

Why are finding men over 30 on the internet in games like DOTA or even on boards so fucking rare? Do all men over 30 just go to the woods and die?

 

[Mainländer]

Go back to your parents house and try to get some sort of NEETbux for mental illness or something, then you'll have time.

 

[Smallondick]

Hobbies and escapism. Or just becoming religious if you can

 

[LastGerman]

Socialization at work? MeToo and that sort of bullshit killed it all.

That won't happen, because most men are tired because of their work. Most men work in a physical environment.

 

[Grotesque]

I can take the social isolation as long as I don't have to wageslave.

 

[mylifeistrash]

I can take the social isolation as long as I don't have to wageslave.

Why does it seem like men over 30 or 40 just disappear from society? Do they all just hide from people?

 

[Teutonic Knight]

So what's left?

No, seriously. What can you possibly do?

Religion. Convert to Catholicism.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Why are finding men over 30 on the internet in games like DOTA or even on boards so fucking rare?

Most incels get burnt out on entertainment/escapism long before they turn 30. Also when you have to work a stressful job for 8 or more hours a day, you just don't have the energy to even play video games when you get home, especially when you're 30. When you're 30, your energy levels are much lower than they were when you were in your late teens or early 20s.

Back when I was 19 I was working 40-50+ hours a week, playing video games, watching lots of anime, going to like 6-8 conventions a year, going out to clubs almost every weekend, doing lots of approaches, and shitposting on /b/.

Now at age 32, I barely have the energy to work, shitpost on here, and watch a few youtube videos.

 

[Grotesque]

Why does it seem like men over 30 or 40 just disappear from society? Do they all just hide from people?

I don't know since I'm not friends with any, but I assume they just wageslave and go back home to their nagging wives that hate them.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Most incels get burnt out on entertainment/escapism long before they turn 30. Also when you have to work a stressful job for 8 or more hours a day, you just don't have the energy to even play video games when you get home, especially when you're 30. When you're 30, your energy levels are much lower than they were when you were in your late teens or early 20s.

Back when I was 19 I was working 40-50+ hours a week, playing video games, watching lots of anime, going to like 6-8 conventions a year, going out to clubs almost every weekend, doing lots of approaches, and shitposting on /b/.

Now at age 32, I barely have the energy to work, shitpost on here, and watch a few youtube videos.

I agree but I don't think it's physical. I see plenty of old guys lift weights and play ball. I mean like 50+.

But socially they all just fucking disappear.

I guess they get burned out, like you said.

 

[lurker45]

I agree but I don't think it's physical. I see plenty of old guys lift weights and play ball. I mean like 50+.

But socially they all just fucking disappear.

I guess they get burned out, like you said.

I've found that if you go on a dating website, or any hookup subreddit you see hordes of them

 

[iKillCucks]

I agree but I don't think it's physical. I see plenty of old guys lift weights and play ball. I mean like 50+.

But socially they all just fucking disappear.

I guess they get burned out, like you said.

Because they realize there is nothing for them to do in the social aspect of it. What are they gonna do? Go to bars or strip clubs and sit there and get drunk; looking at young hot women who will NEVER talk to them let alone fuck them unless there is serious money involved. JFL @ not ropping after 30 as a man unless youre a gigachad millionaire

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

You're a slave to the people around you.
If your family can't introduce you to anyone, if your friends don't know any girls, and if the atmosphere at your work is tense/asocial, then that's it.
There's no Dragonball Z style inner power you can unleash to be successful in these conditions.

Some will even get multiple degrees if they didn't get anything socially out of college.

I agree but I don't think it's physical. I see plenty of old guys lift weights and play ball. I mean like 50+.

But socially they all just fucking disappear.

I guess they get burned out, like you said.

the very few that I know are buried in shit from all sorts of people like their managers or subordinates at work passing on their responsabilities to them... and family trying to suck away their time and money (doesn't matter if they are married or not, if not their elderly parents or whatever will replace the wife and kids) to the point that they no desire to deal with anyone's shit online or offline and retreat into autistic sedentary hobbies like turntables, electronics and DIY gimmicks.

 

[Michael15651]

The worst is to know you’ll never know what it feels like to talk to someone who’s younger than you.

 

[Cuyen]

Why are finding men over 30 on the internet in games like DOTA or even on boards so fucking rare? Do all men over 30 just go to the woods and die?

it is because they are wagecucking hard

 

[YungCell]

Only way to combat the pain of aging is to drugmaxx tbh

 

[oldcellcopecell]

It's definitely true.

The West is an absolute hellhole for men with no children in their 30s. All my former friends, do nothing but work and change diapers. My other friends who are not family fathers are just rotting or coping hard.

Let me repeat: The west is an absolute vampire that sucks the life force out of you.

GET THE FUCK OUT.

JBW in Asia or South America or just go somewhere outside the West.

 

[Deleted member 14805]

Go back to your parents house and try to get some sort of NEETbux for mental illness or something, then you'll have time.

I'm there minus the neetbux. I guess I should be grateful that my parents are incredibly generous to let me stay and not have to worry about them kicking me out, like some other people.

As for the topic, yeah even so much as mid 20's many people are doing work, school, getting engaged etc. while I'm rotting away in my room. Now at 31 I only have only friend left, while everyone else I knew is working theirselves to death(we're talking 60hour workweeks) then come home to deal with kids and a bitchy wife that can divorce them at any given time, have no time to talk or hang out like in our Teens and early 20's. It's over man, sure it would be nice if I could get neetbux or better become RICH being rich will fix so many of my problems, however I'm always going to have that void in my heart, and what's worse is people like us are destined to die alone. NOTHING is worse than dying alone.

 

[Vorbei]

Relationships, work and eventually children take up time and energy, and lesser commitments such as friends fall by the wayside. Socialising is done as a couple, with other couples. The adult drift claimed all my friendships, as you become a single man in your late 20s/early 30s, it will happen to you too.

 

[The Abyss]

Why are finding men over 30 on the internet in games like DOTA or even on boards so fucking rare? Do all men over 30 just go to the woods and die?

They're too exhausted from work all the time to play & probably get fed up of all the immature young ppl from a different generation that they cannot relate to, admit you are over 25 online & you get ridiculed for being a peado or loser etc... Probably playing single player games as you don't have to maintain a competitive standard then.

 

[acnescarcel]

everyone i know in that age range hangs out with a couple of people they've known since high school. if you have no friends from then its over. maybe hang out with coworkers.

 

[Dionysus]

man the west really turned to shit

 

[mylifeistrash]

admit you are over 25 online & you get ridiculed for being a peado or loser etc...

I've noticed that becoming more common. Men are getting shamed more and more for simply being past X age.

 

[oldcellcopecell]

You can hang out with coworkers for sure, but even so, you're going to get bullied a lot by foids and manginas for being incel. It's probably worth it though, cause you get to go and drink, do sports once or twice a month with coworkers. Just don't work in a place with older women or majority women, that's hell.