JFL pity friendships are fucking retarded

[Deleted member 126]

So sick of this. "Oh I don't like him at all I just feel bad for him so I hangout with him." so sick of this garbage it's so easy to tell. They act like they give a damn about your opinions, your interests buts it's all bullshit It's so easy to see. They think I'm a literal retard that can't see this.

 

[Hunter]

is this a thing? that happens with male "friends"?

 

[Deleted member 126]

is this a thing? that happens with male "friends"?

Yes.

 

[PotatoTomato]

People that hang out with others out of pity are trash and do that just for validation ("Oh look at me, I'm friends with the loser, I'm such a good person!"). I can't imagine what it would be like to think that you formed a genuine bond with someone only to figure out later that they were just messing with you and never really cared at all.

 

[Hunter]

Yes.

oh shit that could have been the case with me. what are the signs that it is a pity friendship?

 

[builderseed]

People pulled this shit on me in HS. It was obvious as fuck and they were passive-aggressive the entire time. I didn't say anything about it though, I knew if I did they'd do a 180 and begin bullying me harshly.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

I dont have friends. The only "friend" I have I see like 6 times a year at most

 

[Zaetheus]

Never heard of “pity friendships” if someone doesn’t wanna hang out with you their not going to.

 

[Deleted member 126]

oh shit that could have been the case with me. what are the signs that it is a pity friendship?

1. find you annoying and try to avoid you often
2. are way to nice to you in a pitiful kind of way
3.pretending to care about your thoughts/interests even though you can tell they don't give a shit

 

[Deleted member 5861]

oh shit that could have been the case with me. what are the signs that it is a pity friendship?

Did they ever belittle you subtly?

Never heard of “pity friendships” if someone doesn’t wanna hang out with you their not going to.

They exist.

 

[Hunter]

1. find you annoying and try to avoid you often
2. are way to nice to you in a pitiful kind of way
3.pretending to care about your thoughts/interests even though you can tell they don't give a shit

probably not then.

Did they ever belittle you subtly?

They exist.

only in a teasing way that everyone in the social circle got belittled but not as if they were above me.

 

[Maeror]

People that hang out with others out of pity are trash and do that just for validation ("Oh look at me, I'm friends with the loser, I'm such a good person!"). I can't imagine what it would be like to think that you formed a genuine bond with someone only to figure out later that they were just messing with you and never really cared at all.

 

[Izayacel]

Ah when man beginn to use shaming tactics like little clits,

Dont take them for granted it never began in the first place