Chingaquedito
she will never be mine
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I was thinking about this, there is a popular belief that people with hunched backs are insecure people
whenever I go out on the street I try to walk straight (It's not my natural posture) I have been doing this for years to look normal, when I do it for extended periods I come home completely aching in my back and legs, and my body screams in agony to lie down in bed to rest (This also happens to me when I work a lot or stand for long periods of time, due to my scoliosis and flat foot, plus some bone asymmetries in other parts of my body)
crossing your arms usually helps to hide any other flaws, this is not necessary if you wear a jacket or sweatshirt (which is also associated with insecurity).
for example, jackets add thickness to your body, if your shoulders are short it makes you look bigger.
resting my back against a wall also helps me hide my posture (also associated with insecurity) sitting in my chair and not getting up helps hide my height (I used to do this when I was in school).
putting your hands in your pockets helps to hide disproportionate limbs, very common in short people, as you can see here:
obviously i'm insecure because i'm ugly as fuck, i feel bad because of my body and i've been bullied many times because of my physical appearance, even strangers as i've said in previous threads
physical language is a fucking lie, associating it with insecurities and self esteem, rather than physical flaws as a source of that insecurity.
ironically, and despite of this thread, i always use those rules about physical language as a guide, because as i said, i don't want to get bullied again. i want to look like a normal guy