It only matters for normie level looking guys. Most guys are on the 4.75-5.25 score, and a good way to distinguish yourself is by having an unironically good personality. And by good I don't mean respecting holes. Being assertive, not autistic, having a spine etc. matters when most people are on your looks level.
Now, here is the thing with personality, the further away you are from average, the less it matters.
Personality is equally irrelevant for a 9/10 chad and a 1/10 truecel: your looks are your personality. But if you are average, you do have to show you have a backbone to compete with other equally unremarkable men.
This is why normands talk about muh personality, they just can't conveice a guy being so undesirable he is done before he opens his mouth.
Now, here is the thing with personality, the further away you are from average, the less it matters.
Personality is equally irrelevant for a 9/10 chad and a 1/10 truecel: your looks are your personality. But if you are average, you do have to show you have a backbone to compete with other equally unremarkable men.
This is why normands talk about muh personality, they just can't conveice a guy being so undesirable he is done before he opens his mouth.
