Discussion Person vents to me about someone I care about and I can’t do anything about what they say to me, any advice for realising that the person they are…

[JimMilton]

…venting about is in the wrong and not the person venting to me so I don’t feel upset or angry about what they say. I do try but inside sometimes it gets me emotional, it’s not the person venting fault but yeah, who’s to blame, the person who keeps making this dynamic happen again, or the person who feels the need to vent to me annoyedly or angrily, or despondently or whatever or in a way to tell me what should be done right depending on what has happened. Thanks. I don’t want to be part of the problem for either of them.

 

[curryboy420]

If you don't care then tell them to fuck off or be like shit I have an appointment and just go

 

[JimMilton]

If you don't care then tell them to fuck off or be like shit I have an appointment and just go

They are family. Besides I shouldn’t worry so much, thanks for the help I appreciate it though.