Blackpill People who say it gets less painful the older you get are wrong

[Mental_Out]

It's literally the polar opposite, I feel when you're younger your irrational mind makes you feel like you have more hope than you really do, but as you approach 30 and beyond the reality of your fucked situation sinks in. Even your subconscious cope mind can't comfort you when you're a 30 year old incel, particularly when it only gets more hopeless from there.

You also don't get used to it, people who say shit like that are liars, it's like saying you can get used to starving.

 

[Phosphorus]

Over no matter what

 

[Fat Link]

Very true.

When you’re a 17 year old kid it’s easy to lose yourself in the fantasy that somehow your life might improve when you get older like say 25 or 30 ie maybe you’ll somehow blossom into a Chad you think? but then those ages hit and you’re still the same unattractive guy that you were back then but just older now and reality sets in and it becomes evident as our wisest incel brothers often say: “every cope runs out”.

 

[Mental_Out]

Very true.

When you’re a 17 year old kid it’s easy to lose yourself in the fantasy that somehow your life might improve when you get older like say 25 or 30 ie maybe you’ll somehow blossom into a Chad you think? but then those ages hit and you’re still the same unattractive guy that you were back then but just older now and reality sets in and it becomes evident as our wisest incel brothers often say: “every cope runs out”.

Arguably worse the older you get if you have to work since people around you find it weirder and weirder. I've noticed people get more and more snide the closer I get to 30.

 

[Uninvited]

The best you can hope for is to become emotionally numb, nothing feels good but nothing matters.

 

[Mental_Out]

The best you can hope for is to become emotionally numb, nothing feels good but nothing matters.

I can't even really achieve that since my face is constantly rubbed in other peoples lives, either on the internet or in real life. I guess if you're a full blown shutin NEETcel it's achieveable but I doubt many can achieve that life, particularly now governments are cracking down on NEETbux.

 

[SuperKanga]

I can't even really achieve that since my face is constantly rubbed in other peoples lives, either on the internet or in real life. I guess if you're a full blown shutin NEETcel it's achieveable but I doubt many can achieve that life, particularly now governments are cracking down on NEETbux.

Being NEET will slowly drive you crazy, so you're pretty much screwed either way. The best you can hope for is an early death.

 

[Fat Link]

The best you can hope for is to become emotionally numb, nothing feels good but nothing matters.

I was like this for a long time and doing very well with it and had accepted my fate but then I had my long term hospitalization and rehabilitation incident and was surrounded by hot young but of course taken Stacies (nurses/CMA’s) and Chad moggers and having my face rubbed in this day in and day out only made me realize just how fucked and lonely I truly was.

I don’t know if you guys are familiar with the famous old book phrase or not but I think of it at times when I think of my experience and it goes: “Water, water everywhere but not a drop to drink”.

The reason the phrase says that is because it’s from a book about a dude stranded at sea in a small boat slowly dying of thirst.

Since the ocean is filled with salt water he knows he can’t drink that because it will only speed up his demise.

 

[Uninvited]

I was like this for a long time and doing very well with it and had accepted my fate but then I had my long term hospitalization and rehabilitation incident and was surrounded by hot young but of course taken Stacies (nurses/CMA’s) and Chad moggers and having my face rubbed in this day in and day out only made me realize just how fucked and lonely I truly was.

I don’t know if you guys are familiar with the famous old book phrase or not but I think of it at times when I think of my experience and it goes: “Water, water everywhere but not a drop to drink”.

The reason the phrase says that is because it’s from a book about a dude stranded at sea in a small boat slowly dying of thirst.

Since the ocean is filled with salt water he knows he can’t drink that because it will only speed up his demise.

Don't get me wrong I still feel shit but it has become the base line.

I think I cope with the thought that it is not just my looks that prevent me from obtaining woman and/or happiness but it is something fundamental about me as a person.
That mentally and emotionally I am not capable of being happy and that gives me no reason to try or expect anything.
Why drink the water if it does nothing for you.
In that sense not having/experiencing pleasurable things like sex, relationships or even nice food does not feel like a loss as I believe that I would not even enjoy these things.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Arguably worse the older you get if you have to work since people around you find it weirder and weirder. I've noticed people get more and more snide the closer I get to 30.

This is a brutal truth. The older you are as an adult with no relationship experience, the more people look down on you. Heck, lots of people look down on me for it and I’m only 19. I try to not let conversations ever get about relationships to avoid people finding out. I can’t imagine how badly I’m gonna get judged in the future for it once I’m an even older incel

 

[Five Dozen Eggs]

Absolutely agree. I'm 29 and things have only really gotten worse from a happiness and dating perspective. I've been past the "hoping to change into something people want" phase of life and money is a whole lot better than it was 6 years ago but looking around at everyone enjoying relationships and genuinely being happy with each other is so much more brutal to me than realizing the hot girl on uni campus was getting piped by 6 different dudes. Everyone is incredibly judgemental just like when they were younger but now they are even more vicious about it because they don't want to be socially downgraded for being seen with someone who is their equivalent of untermensch. The only way I've been able to navigate this is by gutting my personality when I go to work or out in public and become a shell of who I actually am, being a literal NPC is the only way people will interact neutrally with you.

The best you can hope for is to become emotionally numb, nothing feels good but nothing matters.

This is incredibly hard to do but realistically the only way to actually cope without wanting to kill yourself every waking second.

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

as our wisest incel brothers often say: “every cope runs out”.

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKsIwf30eh4

 

[KeepCoping]

They are wrong. I am way more mentally damaged now, than I was in my mid 20s.

 

[Nagger]

also don't get used to it, people who say shit like that are liars, it's like saying you can get used to starving

 

[Thaway]

Agreed. No one will ever get used to their biological needs not being met.

 

[Mental_Out]

They are wrong. I am way more mentally damaged now, than I was in my mid 20s.

Same, I feel like the longer you're stuck in the position the more damage it does to you psychologically. It fucks up everything from mood to just interacting with people.

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

It's over boyo. No more he is young excuses why didn't you achieve same things as others. Now it's pure mogging and you're weird by existing. Sorry brother, welcome to hell.

I'm a 30yo KHHDV. At this point, most of my normie male peers have had multiple relationships, are married, they have children, they advanced in their careers.

Meanwhile, I still never even got to fucking hold a woman's hand and I'm still working an entry level job that doesn't require experience.

It's simply over for me. Ugly face, ugly body, no social experience, no money, no friends.

It is simply beyond over. I will pay an escort so that I don't die virgin, and that would be the extent of my ''''''sex life'''''.

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

I'm a 30yo KHHDV. At this point, most of my normie male peers have had multiple relationships, are married, they have children, they advanced in their careers.

Meanwhile, I still never even got to fucking hold a woman's hand and I'm still working an entry level job that doesn't require experience.

It's simply over for me. Ugly face, ugly body, no social experience, no money, no friends.

It is simply beyond over. I will pay an escort so that I don't die virgin, and that would be the extent of my ''''''sex life'''''.

Meanwhile, good looking thug men abuse foids left and right every day, while I can't even begin to get a chance.

 

[Mecoja]

I'm a 30yo KHHDV. At this point, most of my normie male peers have had multiple relationships, are married, they have children, they advanced in their careers.

Meanwhile, I still never even got to fucking hold a woman's hand and I'm still working an entry level job that doesn't require experience.

It's simply over for me. Ugly face, ugly body, no social experience, no money, no friends.

It is simply beyond over. I will pay an escort so that I don't die virgin, and that would be the extent of my ''''''sex life'''''.

It's painful to even think about that. How much more experienced and how much more mature are normies from us. We are fucking toddlers compared to them. Fucking 13yo are more experienced than us.

 

[Jud Pottah]

None of it is your fault.

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

None of it is your fault.

 

[Jud Pottah]

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[Sloth.Belgrade]

The older you get in life, the worst life becomes

 

[Incline]

This is why I must ascend or die soon. Can't imagine living like this any longer.

 

[Mental_Out]

This is a brutal truth. The older you are as an adult with no relationship experience, the more people look down on you. Heck, lots of people look down on me for it and I’m only 19. I try to not let conversations ever get about relationships to avoid people finding out. I can’t imagine how badly I’m gonna get judged in the future for it once I’m an even older incel

I feel like you don't even have to tell them, people can tell, mostly by looks but also just the way you are. I think going through life ugly completely fucks up your social skills, but normalsharts perceive this as ugly people just lacking social skills when in reality being ugly means you have to learn social skills backwards, since things that work for normal people won't work for you. This backwards thinking just becomes more ingrained the older you get.

 

[Da_Yunez]

Very true.

When you’re a 17 year old kid it’s easy to lose yourself in the fantasy that somehow your life might improve when you get older like say 25 or 30 ie maybe you’ll somehow blossom into a Chad you think? but then those ages hit and you’re still the same unattractive guy that you were back then but just older now and reality sets in and it becomes evident as our wisest incel brothers often say: “every cope runs out”.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I feel like you don't even have to tell them, people can tell, mostly by looks but also just the way you are. I think going through life ugly completely fucks up your social skills, but normalsharts perceive this as ugly people just lacking social skills when in reality being ugly means you have to learn social skills backwards, since things that work for normal people won't work for you. This backwards thinking just becomes more ingrained the older you get.

Yeah, so true. I’m not very good looking now, but I’m not what you’d call that ugly either. Here’s the thing. I was ugly as shit my entire middle school and early high school time before I hit puberty. Because of this, I was automatically ostracized for my looks before my Asperger’s even mattered. I was never given a chance to naturally learn social skills and it’s a grind to try to be social. When you were ostracized and bullied during your formative years, it fucks you up for life. People can probably tell I’m an Incel because of how socially awkward I am

 

[The Abyss]

Once the hair loss hits you're done. They would've cured it by now if it affected women.

 

[kaan]

People who say it gets less painful the older you get are wrong are wrong

 

[Emba]

Actually, it kind of does get less painful... Mainly because you get used to it.

It's like a chronic pain thats always there...

It's like a full colostomy bag, it still stinks, but you can't smell it because you're nose is used to it.

 

[CuckFestus837]

Less painful as you get older? Maybe because we become desensitized to it. But Chronic loneliness never gets easier to deal with. Instead, chronic loneliness catalyzes other health complications.

 

[Mental_Out]

Actually, it kind of does get less painful... Mainly because you get used to it.

It's like a chronic pain thats always there...

It's like a full colostomy bag, it still stinks, but you can't smell it because you're nose is used to it.

Maybe once you hit 60 or so and are just waiting for death, but I feel before that it's a lot worse. Although even in old age I'd argue it's quite bad, you're much more likely to die early as an incel as if anything were to happen to you while alone no one would be around to care and help.

 

[Skoga]

I'm 25 and already waiting for death. I'm still grateful for my life and allat, enjoying my copes as much I can but I won't try to lifemaxx anymore and keep lying to myself.

 

[Mental_Out]

I'm 25 and already waiting for death. I'm still grateful for my life and allat, enjoying my copes as much I can but I won't try to lifemaxx anymore and keep lying to myself.

I can't even enjoy my copes at this point, mostly because they were all ruined by corporations pandering to retarded mainstream opinion

 

[Nemesis]

I was like this for a long time and doing very well with it and had accepted my fate but then I had my long term hospitalization and rehabilitation incident and was surrounded by hot young but of course taken Stacies (nurses/CMA’s) and Chad moggers and having my face rubbed in this day in and day out only made me realize just how fucked and lonely I truly was.

I don’t know if you guys are familiar with the famous old book phrase or not but I think of it at times when I think of my experience and it goes: “Water, water everywhere but not a drop to drink”.

The reason the phrase says that is because it’s from a book about a dude stranded at sea in a small boat slowly dying of thirst.

Since the ocean is filled with salt water he knows he can’t drink that because it will only speed up his demise.

Old man and sea?

 

[Fat Link]

Old man and sea?

I thought it was from that when you posted it or a book by Robert Louis Stevenson but apparently the phrase is actually from this according to Jewgle.

The Rime of the Ancient Mariner - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

 

[Nemesis]

I thought it was from that when you posted it or a book by Robert Louis Stevenson but apparently the phrase is actually from this according to Jewgle.

The Rime of the Ancient Mariner - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Thanks, this will be on my never ending to-read list