People Think I'm Just a Complete Fakecel

[ItheIthe]

I have made it clear that I'm NO LONGER a virgin, thanks only to alcohol (Completely degenerate I regret it every day and deserve to die. I was tired of the virgin stigma). However, I tell you the truth when I say I'm not just some pampered Chad coming in here either.

My first suicide attempts came in middle school. During high school I developed social anxiety SO SEVERE that I got red and sweaty when I so much as had to get up to sharpen a pencil. I tried to avoid looking in the mirror, and often cried when I did. I had acne SCABS all over my face, not just acne. I had a lisp and stutter, I had braces, I didn't know how to dress or shave. I got made fun of a bunch. At some points I badly wanted to go ER. Not because I thought it would serve any political purpose. It was a LITERAL URGE that I felt I HAD TO DO. I really can't explain it other than saying it got to the point where it felt as natural as peeing. It seemed like I HAD TO do it. Thank God I didn't, it wouldn't have served any purpose. Ultimately, I graduated a kissless virgin.

Well, saying that I "graduated" may be a little bit misleading. Actually, I spent the final weeks of high school in juvy and house arrest for threatening suicide by cop. I always felt like an inferior and hopeless little mouse. Girls talked bad about me, and one even straight up called me "disgusting" when I was standing next to her.



So, yeah, I've escaped. But I'm not just this unsympathetic fakecel coming at you. I understand and know well the pain.

 

[Deleted member 236]

You're supposed to lie and say you're Incel like half of the posters here.

 

[Crustaciouse]

But you said that you have girls currently chasing you.

 

[ItheIthe]

But you said that you have girls currently chasing you.

I have like 2 that I ignore because I don't want to lead them on.

 

[anon2719]

If you can get girls to have sex with you, you aren't incel

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But you said that you have girls currently chasing you.

Dude how can you be incel if you have girls chasing you???

 

[Crustaciouse]

I have like 2 that I ignore because I don't want to lead them on.

You can fuck those two girls right now, but you chose not to, you are a volcel.

 

[Kointo1]

You're supposed to lie and say you're Incel like half of the posters here.

So does that mean you're lying?

 

[CopingGymcel]

You're supposed to lie and say you're Incel like half of the posters here.

What if you're incel. Are you suppose to lie and say you're a huge slayer?

 

[ItheIthe]

If you can get girls to have sex with you, you aren't incel

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Dude how can you be incel if you have girls chasing you???

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I'm not an Incel. My point is that I'm not a complete fakey foreigner. I'm pretty much an EX-Incel.

 

[inceliphate]

here we go again with this shit

 

[Kointo1]

What if you're incel. Are you suppose to lie and say you're a huge slayer?

People on here could lie about a lot of things and get away with it, but if you're actually incel then I don't see the point in lying.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

You're supposed to lie and say you're Incel like half of the posters here.

 

[avsky1]

You're definitely a volcel being religious. Christianity stunted me in ways in terms of my romantic ability that I can barely account for.

 

[ItheIthe]

You're definitely a volcel being religious. Christianity stunted me in ways in terms of my romantic ability that I can barely account for.

Are you sure it was Christianity? Or was it a lack of validation?

And just lol if you think man-whoring around is going to help you learn romance. It does the opposite: Just look at the divorce rates among sluts.

In terms of sex outside of marriage, I would advise abstinence to avoid being taken advantage. But if you find a girl you really love, you could make an accomadation if you feel you ABSOLUTELY must. "Fornication" never meant LTR sex because those weren't things that exist in Bible days. I definitely think that abstinence is best for society, but I also understand that sex is the expectation within a relationship. That said, a girl willing to wait would be the best option, because then you know she is serious about commitment.