You said death isn't equalizer because everybody dies at different times. But usually when talked about death as big equalizer it is talked about the state after the died which is equal - that they are all dead and have nothing left from her life (other than corpse).
True but here’s the thing. That is objective because of the way it’s designed, however, what’s subjective to that is essentially at what point you die.
Would you assume that a kid who dies from cancer would like to die in that manner with his corpse on the hospital bed whilst witnessing a billionaire die to the point of his last breath doing what he truly wanted and was dead on his expensive sofa.
Now that was all in relation to NDE’s as it has been recorded again and again, that the spirit leaves the mortal shell to ascend where it goes, but I made it so that the kid was also aware of others death, when I don’t know if that case is true, considering it’s likely that god itself set it in a way to prevent those from being handed a shit life to be aware of it in comparison to others, which is disingenuous, as it keeps the dead kid “bluepilled” in that nature, but lets say it’s possible to happen. I would expect two scenarios; one being the enraged kid and the other being a careless one not caring about what had happened though it’s likely to be that the enraged kid would be what occurs most of the time, since the side effects of a blue pilled or any positive pill is that if one doesn’t reach their end goal or doesn’t get anything done or doesn't get to live their life to the fullest, then they become angry at themselves or at anything else.
If the kid was careless then it is only being ignorant, and thus, in my opinion becomes weak and vulnerable, without no question and only heed to whatever it is that is higher to it, like a dog and it's master.
So yes Death makes it fair for everyone to die but Death itself likes to be picky.