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RageFuel Parents who deny their son is ugly or pretend ugliness doesn't matter

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Why do they do this? Is there some kind of delusion switch that gets turned on when the ugly dude is your genetic scion?
 
It's fucking terrible. My parents are just like that. I think since they are normies they aren't capable of coming to the conclusion that they brought someone into the world who is bound to live a worse life than they did, so pretend that we are to blame for our problems instead of the fact that we look like shit in a fucked up society.
 
My parents would care if I was at least tall, my mother used to take me to the doctors every week at 4-6 years old and ask the doc why I wasn’t growing.

Tall and ugly > short and good looking
 
They don't want to admit anything is wrong with them. Just like parents of kids with autism. Its a "Oh no hes fine, hes just unique" Fucking BS
 
1 : it would be admitting they have shitty genetics and would leave them more exposed to "if you know you're ugly and looks matter, why did you have me you fucking prick ? "

2 : parents are biologically wired and socially pressured to see in general their children in a more positive light than they are (i say in general )

3 : even if they found their children ugly, they know it will ruin his self esteem to admit. Let's be honest if it happened to someone's here he would write "it's over : even my parents think i'm ugly" what good can come from it anyway ?
 
i get this with my mum too :(
 
Maybe it´s a coping mechanism to spare them the pain of the fact that their offspring and genetics is trash. Or maybe they just grew up in a different time when looks weren´t so important. Yes I know a bit bluepilled but we can´t deny that in today´s world looks has become insanely important compared to the past.
 
its to be nice. its hard to look someone in the face and say their ugly especially if they're your kid because you know it will fuck with their head.
 
Idk, I came here for the answer.
 
Me: mom I need to treat my acne
Mom:oh no you look handsome the way you are.

Just fucking admit I’m an ugly subhuman and take me to the doctor you piece of shit
 
Maybe it´s a coping mechanism to spare them the pain of the fact that their offspring and genetics is trash. Or maybe they just grew up in a different time when looks weren´t so important. Yes I know a bit bluepilled but we can´t deny that in today´s world looks has become insanely important compared to the past.
 
@Lonelycel
I love you profile pic. Cho also shot himself in the temple so that picture would most likely be how he looked just before he pulled the trigger.
 
Me: mom I need to treat my acne
Mom:oh no you look handsome the way you are.

Just fucking admit I’m an ugly subhuman and take me to the doctor you piece of shit

Me: Mom I need a rhinoplasty, chin implant, lip reduction, hair transplant, laser hair removal and microdermabrasion.
Mom: Oh no you look handsome the way you are.
 
Idk, I came here for the answer.
I think we are all here because of this. With non-delusional parents, things would be so much simpler. "Yes son, you're not very pleasant to look at for sure. But don't worry, we'll pay for your plastic surgery as soon as you turn 16. Now, go back to your homework."

Literally no one would be here with non-delusional parents.
 
@Lonelycel
I love you profile pic. Cho also shot himself in the temple so that picture would most likely be how he looked just before he pulled the trigger.

Yeah me too. I love Cho, I think he stood for all the kids who've been bullied their entire lives. He fought back like a real man. And he got a high killcount. RIP General Cho.
 
Yeah me too. I love Cho, I think he stood for all the kids who've been bullied their entire lives. He fought back like a real man. And he got a high killcount. RIP General Cho.
Cho is underrated and Columbine is EXTREMELY overrated I mean Cho got 2.5 times the kill count as a single shooter armed only with handguns. And yeah he for sure got bullied even though the people in the documentaries and interviews denies that.
 
Me: Mom I need a rhinoplasty, chin implant, lip reduction, hair transplant, laser hair removal and microdermabrasion.
Mom: Oh no you look handsome the way you are.
lip reduction?
bruh.jpg
 
Me: Mom I need a rhinoplasty, chin implant, lip reduction, hair transplant, laser hair removal and microdermabrasion.
Mom: Oh no you look handsome the way you are.
"There's nothing wrong with you! Everyone in the family says you're handsome!"

*the day after, at school*

"hey dude, I was wondering, how are you not in jail? It's illegal to be this ugly outside of Halloween"

*go cry in a corner*
 
Cho is underrated and Columbine is EXTREMELY overrated I mean Cho got 2.5 times the kill count as a single shooter armed only with handguns. And yeah he for sure got bullied even though the people in the documentaries and interviews denies that.

Yeah exactly, this is what I hate the most, Cho not getting the recognition he deserves. However, Columbine served as inspiration for Cho. I guess Columbine gave Cho the idea and the strength to do what he did. So we have to appreciate it even though it is overrated.
 
Yeah exactly, this is what I hate the most, Cho not getting the recognition he deserves. However, Columbine served as inspiration for Cho. I guess Columbine gave Cho the idea and the strength to do what he did. So we have to appreciate it even though it is overrated.
True.
 
lip reduction?
bruh.jpg

Lmao yeah, my lips are uneven. People told me that it looks like I'm grumpy all the time because my top lip overlaps my bottom lip. And from the side, it looks terrible.

"There's nothing wrong with you! Everyone in the family says you're handsome!"

*the day after, at school*

"hey dude, I was wondering, how are you not in jail? It's illegal to be this ugly outside of Halloween"

*go cry in a corner*

:feelsrope: story of my life.
 
It's fucking terrible. My parents are just like that. I think since they are normies they aren't capable of coming to the conclusion that they brought someone into the world who is bound to live a worse life than they did, so pretend that we are to blame for our problems instead of the fact that we look like shit in a fucked up society.
This
 
Why do they do this? Is there some kind of delusion switch that gets turned on when the ugly dude is your genetic scion?
admitting you produced an incel is not easy for anybody. I pity my parents for having had me.
 
They would be admitting they are ugly too.
 
28 posts and no one suggested "It's because they love us and can't bear to say hurtful things about us, or believe that we're doomed."

This is one of those signs of how much we around here need to be loved, and not ridiculed. When "You're ugly" isn't seen as an insult, but "constructive criticism." When suicide isn't seen as a terrible tragedy, but a necessity.
 
their generation didnt have a completely fucked dating scene like we do so they are much more bluepilled because getting a haircut and having confidence actually worked back then before social media fucked up everything and gave foids limitless options to choose from with very little effort
 
I think we are all here because of this. With non-delusional parents, things would be so much simpler. "Yes son, you're not very pleasant to look at for sure. But don't worry, we'll pay for your plastic surgery as soon as you turn 16. Now, go back to your homework."

Literally no one would be here with non-delusional parents.

Yeah paying for surgery would be positive, but they could do that also with redpilling like "no son you aren't ugly, you are average, but femoids only find the top 20% of men attractive so we will pay for your surgery". What made the difference here is paying for the surgery, not calling their son ugly or agreeing with him.
 
Because they would rather lie than tell the bitter truth
 
I think we are all here because of this. With non-delusional parents, things would be so much simpler. "Yes son, you're not very pleasant to look at for sure. But don't worry, we'll pay for your plastic surgery as soon as you turn 16. Now, go back to your homework."

Literally no one would be here with non-delusional parents.
What I would do if I managed to ascend and have kids
 
My Mon give 0 fucks, she reminds me of how ugly I am, remind herself how ugly she and and constantly roast her grandson who's born with a negative tilt and lazy eye:feelsrope:
What I would do if I managed to ascend and have kids
Ikr or pump him with HGH
 
My Mon give 0 fucks, she reminds me of how ugly I am, remind herself how ugly she and and constantly roast her grandson who's born with a negative tilt and lazy eye:feelsrope:

Ikr or pump him with HGH

She desERvE Repect.
 
So they dont get bludgeoned to death or ER'd
 
They don't want to admit anything is wrong with them. Just like parents of kids with autism. Its a "Oh no hes fine, hes just unique" Fucking BS
OR they do what my parents tried to do, make it look like a good thing, and fail.
 
I think we are all here because of this. With non-delusional parents, things would be so much simpler. "Yes son, you're not very pleasant to look at for sure. But don't worry, we'll pay for your plastic surgery as soon as you turn 16. Now, go back to your homework."

Literally no one would be here with non-delusional parents.
They do this in Korea.
 
Both my parents do that.

My mom always calls me "lindo" (gorgeous) and "bonitão" (handsome). When I mention my baldness, she always says stuff like "you'll not become completely bald, you're mixed with my family (even though I'm Norwood 3 to 4 at 30). When I mention my malformed ears, she says they're normal.

My father says women like bald men because they think they're potent. And that I look good when I'm well dressed.

I think it's a mix of blindness through parenthood status and being young at a time where someone like me would have had much bigger chances of ascending. My father literally points to stunning 7/10+ teens at the streets and says to me in Portuguese that they're good and would be good for me. Kek, he has no clue at all how bad things have turned for ugly men.
 
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28 posts and no one suggested "It's because they love us and can't bear to say hurtful things about us, or believe that we're doomed."

This is one of those signs of how much we around here need to be loved, and not ridiculed. When "You're ugly" isn't seen as an insult, but "constructive criticism." When suicide isn't seen as a terrible tragedy, but a necessity.
 
Why do they do this? Is there some kind of delusion switch that gets turned on when the ugly dude is your genetic scion?
we have a proverb here 'even the monkey is a gazelle in his mother's eyes' parents aren't objectif imagine some normie who is blinded by love he can't see anylonger the defects of his crush same goes for parents but parental love is way stronger
also 'adults' are moralfags even tho it's pratically incorrect they pretened that what matters the most is your behavior
 
Yeah me too. I love Cho, I think he stood for all the kids who've been bullied their entire lives. He fought back like a real man. And he got a high killcount. RIP General Cho.

Respect, man. :') I've read about Cho's entire life... I relate to it so much, it's sad, but I feel like he had no other choice in doing what he did.
 
One thing I fucking can't stand is when we are out in public and my Mom likes to tell me, LOUD I might add, that there is a "nice girl" or a "pretty girl" somewhere and that I should go and talk to her. She doesn't see anything wrong with this. Sometimes the girl is a literal 10/10 and my Mom goes and says she will talk to her and then mention me.
>HOLYSHITWTFAREYOUDOINGBITCH.jpg
I always tell her not to do that and it is very hard to talk her down once she has her mind set. She somehow thinks I can attract fucking prime girls. I sort of have myself to blame if I'm being honest. I've been lying to my parents for many years and embellshed a lot of things and may have had pictures of just female acquaintances but potentially said I may have eluded to doing other things with.

Anyway, when she says these things out loud I can see people look at us and then they look at me and smirk. I can tell they know i"m ugly as shit and that dime won't even give me the light of day. I bet if I walked up to her to ask her about the weather she would call the cops and file an assault charge. No lie.
 
One thing I fucking can't stand is when we are out in public and my Mom likes to tell me, LOUD I might add, that there is a "nice girl" or a "pretty girl" somewhere and that I should go and talk to her. She doesn't see anything wrong with this. Sometimes the girl is a literal 10/10 and my Mom goes and says she will talk to her and then mention me.
>HOLYSHITWTFAREYOUDOINGBITCH.jpg
I always tell her not to do that and it is very hard to talk her down once she has her mind set. She somehow thinks I can attract fucking prime girls. I sort of have myself to blame if I'm being honest. I've been lying to my parents for many years and embellshed a lot of things and may have had pictures of just female acquaintances but potentially said I may have eluded to doing other things with.

Anyway, when she says these things out loud I can see people look at us and then they look at me and smirk. I can tell they know i"m ugly as shit and that dime won't even give me the light of day. I bet if I walked up to her to ask her about the weather she would call the cops and file an assault charge. No lie.
there's nothing they can really do now, except autistic shit like this

the ground work was supposed to be done when we were really young, to not end up like this
 
Because they know the truth will only lead to you LDARing or going ER on them
 

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