i read this text form some dating related article
You have witnessed both cases!
You may not even know what your crush is looking for in a guy. The truth is, while your perfection is a key factor, it’s not exactly what you need to pull a partner.
It’s common for us men to feel the need to achieve a certain level of “perfection” before approaching the woman they like. It can be hitting a specific income, sculpting the ideal physique, or fixing every perceived flaw. But while achieving this perfection, you are becoming unapproachable. Your personality becomes self-centric till the point you become like a mannequin: visually eye-pleasing, practically alone.
There will always be someone better than you. So let your body hair be uneven if you are only doing it to attract someone. Wear average clothes if you are just trying to stand out among other men. Let those six-packs become a family pack if you are only trying to show it to others.
The irony is, that by trying to perfect yourself first, you overlook that true confidence comes from embracing who you are today. Growth is a lifelong process, and the right partner will value your journey, not just your destination.
full of cope but if you are not getting any gf being fat or broke, you won't get girls by being fit and rich too.
more self-improve so my fellow brocels can accuse me of being fakecel.
JFL
You’re Trying to Be “Perfect” Before Starting to Date.
Haven’t you seen any excessively fat or short dude dating a woman? Haven’t you seen a handsome guy getting rejected?You have witnessed both cases!
You may not even know what your crush is looking for in a guy. The truth is, while your perfection is a key factor, it’s not exactly what you need to pull a partner.
It’s common for us men to feel the need to achieve a certain level of “perfection” before approaching the woman they like. It can be hitting a specific income, sculpting the ideal physique, or fixing every perceived flaw. But while achieving this perfection, you are becoming unapproachable. Your personality becomes self-centric till the point you become like a mannequin: visually eye-pleasing, practically alone.
There will always be someone better than you. So let your body hair be uneven if you are only doing it to attract someone. Wear average clothes if you are just trying to stand out among other men. Let those six-packs become a family pack if you are only trying to show it to others.
The irony is, that by trying to perfect yourself first, you overlook that true confidence comes from embracing who you are today. Growth is a lifelong process, and the right partner will value your journey, not just your destination.
full of cope but if you are not getting any gf being fat or broke, you won't get girls by being fit and rich too.
more self-improve so my fellow brocels can accuse me of being fakecel.
JFL
