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Lets face it, while looks is a HUGE factor, most people that go on incel sites are not trucels. They are just below average. And while bad looks is a HUGE factor in being a loser, for MOST incels, it's not that they are so ugly that it's impossible. It's just that they are just normal looking enough to be considered LOSERS and failing anyway.

No matter what we do we are LOSERS insofar that it simply is what it is. LOSER is practically behaviorally encoded in us from early childhood. I would speculate an ugly son loved like a Chad would be more behaviorally stable than an unloved ugly son that was raised to be subservient and seek approval. Who knows, maybe the only difference between an incel here, and an incel on IT, is one incel has loving parents, and the other was a fucking obvious mistake. Not surprised having loving parents when you are ugly would make you a cuck.

We could be 3 points higher in SMV, it would not make a difference, because wed fail anyway. We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Having said that, I've never met a good looking loser. Even an average looking loser is pretty rare. If you look decent enough and you aren't curry are rice, you are just cool by default. You can be a loser ironically and get away with it.

In fact, all truecels are losers by default, but the vast majority of below average looking men are losers, and just a handful of lucky few religious extremists or betabuxx are not losers by miracle of lack of conditioning to feel inferior.
 
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I agree I am turning 21 in feb 28 and when I recall back on my life all I experienced was bullying, cyber bullying humiliation and rejection by this society. I didn’t even start college and don’t want to go but my bluepolled parents went me to go on September. There is no point on anything I missed out on everything. Being a incel is the worst fate ever
 
Life is luck and genetics . Chad " can still pull no matter how he is perceived . Just Spam dating Apps and he will get Results .
 
When looks lock you out of pussy and love, why not let yourself go? People don't have the most basic fucking common sense anymore it's insane.
 
I cant even talk to ugly girls
 
I'm a loser because of how I was treated and I was treated poorly because of my looks :bigbrain:
 
Lets face it, while looks is a HUGE factor, most people that go on incel sites are not trucels. They are just below average. And while bad looks is a HUGE factor in being a loser, for MOST incels, it's not that they are so ugly that it's impossible. It's just that they are just normal looking enough to be considered LOSERS and failing anyway.

No matter what we do we are LOSERS insofar that it simply is what it is. LOSER is practically behaviorally encoded in us from early childhood. I would speculate an ugly son loved like a Chad would be more behaviorally stable than an unloved ugly son that was raised to be subservient and seek approval. Who knows, maybe the only difference between an incel here, and an incel on IT, is one incel has loving parents, and the other was a fucking obvious mistake. Not surprised having loving parents when you are ugly would make you a cuck.

We could be 3 points higher in SMV, it would not make a difference, because wed fail anyway. We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Having said that, I've never met a good looking loser. Even an average looking loser is pretty rare. If you look decent enough and you aren't curry are rice, you are just cool by default. You can be a loser ironically and get away with it.

In fact, all truecels are losers by default, but the vast majority of below average looking men are losers, and just a handful of lucky few religious extremists or betabuxx are not losers by miracle of lack of conditioning to feel inferior.
Our mental state is a huge factor in inceldom.

Our low social status is another factor, likely derived from our non-NT brains, learned helplessness and/or defeatist conditioning.

Being ugly is the second biggest factor for acquiring a defeatist conditioning, the first is being non-NT from birth.

Thus genetics (looks and NT) are huge factors for becoming a social nullity. Being a social nullity precludes becoming a betabuxxer.
 
Lets face it, while looks is a HUGE factor, most people that go on incel sites are not trucels. They are just below average. And while bad looks is a HUGE factor in being a loser, for MOST incels, it's not that they are so ugly that it's impossible. It's just that they are just normal looking enough to be considered LOSERS and failing anyway.

No matter what we do we are LOSERS insofar that it simply is what it is. LOSER is practically behaviorally encoded in us from early childhood. I would speculate an ugly son loved like a Chad would be more behaviorally stable than an unloved ugly son that was raised to be subservient and seek approval. Who knows, maybe the only difference between an incel here, and an incel on IT, is one incel has loving parents, and the other was a fucking obvious mistake. Not surprised having loving parents when you are ugly would make you a cuck.

We could be 3 points higher in SMV, it would not make a difference, because wed fail anyway. We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Having said that, I've never met a good looking loser. Even an average looking loser is pretty rare. If you look decent enough and you aren't curry are rice, you are just cool by default. You can be a loser ironically and get away with it.

In fact, all truecels are losers by default, but the vast majority of below average looking men are losers, and just a handful of lucky few religious extremists or betabuxx are not losers by miracle of lack of conditioning to feel inferior.
Im ugly and deformed from birth, So yeah im a loosER
 
The forum probably has much more mentalcels than truecels because truecels are statistically rare.
 
The forum probably has much more mentalcels than truecels because truecels are statistically rare.

most here fall somewhere between 3.5 - 5.0/10 in looks. but almost everyone here isnt NT enough to make up for it or luck out via socialcircle or careermaxxing.
 
We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Nah, I'm low inhib and naturally extroverted. I've cold approached plenty of women and never felt any anxiety doing so.
 
This is an extremely coal post, brimstone even.
 
It all comes down to 'fitting in'. People still have a very tribal-like brain, if they see you that bring nothing to their group or as an outsider, you'll most likely be a truecel, but like you said, looks still play a huge factor, and shouldn't be dismissed just because of a few isolated cases.
 
Lets face it, while looks is a HUGE factor, most people that go on incel sites are not trucels. They are just below average. And while bad looks is a HUGE factor in being a loser, for MOST incels, it's not that they are so ugly that it's impossible. It's just that they are just normal looking enough to be considered LOSERS and failing anyway.

No matter what we do we are LOSERS insofar that it simply is what it is. LOSER is practically behaviorally encoded in us from early childhood. I would speculate an ugly son loved like a Chad would be more behaviorally stable than an unloved ugly son that was raised to be subservient and seek approval. Who knows, maybe the only difference between an incel here, and an incel on IT, is one incel has loving parents, and the other was a fucking obvious mistake. Not surprised having loving parents when you are ugly would make you a cuck.

We could be 3 points higher in SMV, it would not make a difference, because wed fail anyway. We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Having said that, I've never met a good looking loser. Even an average looking loser is pretty rare. If you look decent enough and you aren't curry are rice, you are just cool by default. You can be a loser ironically and get away with it.

In fact, all truecels are losers by default, but the vast majority of below average looking men are losers, and just a handful of lucky few religious extremists or betabuxx are not losers by miracle of lack of conditioning to feel inferior.
true but the blackpill still collects
i mean diddy couldnt even get away with his coomer lifestyle and that anxiety is still there for guys like diddy because they arent chads or tyrones
everything diddy did had to be basically kept secret for that reason meanwhile chads can have their business known and no one would care

but i guess if youre just talking about fucking its just luck but if youre too fucked its not happening
a 2/10 with 10/10 charisma isnt getting anywhere
money talks though
 
I have a job, my own place, I can support a child and soyciety still finds necessary to label me as a loser. I was on Tinder for 5 years, do I need to bend more?
 
I've never met a good looking loser.
In a world of infinite competition, everyone can give maximum effort, so selection is dominated by immutable genetics. Height and face are the only things that matter now. It's precisely because you can't change them, because you must live a life of inferiority and suffering without them, that they are valuable to women.
 
Yep the main problem is being born with loser genetics, i believe loser genetics exist but will never be studied or revealed, ugly low inhib dark triad violent males get laid and leave their genetic footprint behind, the issue is that we were not born like normal violent males, we were born with loser outcast genetics and we will die alone
 
I'm a normal guy I just can't get any female interest because of my face
 
Lets face it, while looks is a HUGE factor, most people that go on incel sites are not trucels. They are just below average. And while bad looks is a HUGE factor in being a loser, for MOST incels, it's not that they are so ugly that it's impossible. It's just that they are just normal looking enough to be considered LOSERS and failing anyway.

No matter what we do we are LOSERS insofar that it simply is what it is. LOSER is practically behaviorally encoded in us from early childhood. I would speculate an ugly son loved like a Chad would be more behaviorally stable than an unloved ugly son that was raised to be subservient and seek approval. Who knows, maybe the only difference between an incel here, and an incel on IT, is one incel has loving parents, and the other was a fucking obvious mistake. Not surprised having loving parents when you are ugly would make you a cuck.

We could be 3 points higher in SMV, it would not make a difference, because wed fail anyway. We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Having said that, I've never met a good looking loser. Even an average looking loser is pretty rare. If you look decent enough and you aren't curry are rice, you are just cool by default. You can be a loser ironically and get away with it.

In fact, all truecels are losers by default, but the vast majority of below average looking men are losers, and just a handful of lucky few religious extremists or betabuxx are not losers by miracle of lack of conditioning to feel inferior.
Agreed if i was hella nt i probably would've already gotten laid by thugmaxxing, i got people who have similar stats to me but gotten laid by being nt and thugmaxxing
 
I have a job, my own place, I can support a child and soyciety still finds necessary to label me as a loser. I was on Tinder for 5 years, do I need to bend more?
thats exactly my point. If you were good looking you can have none of that and be a winner
 
I agree I am turning 21 in feb 28 and when I recall back on my life all I experienced was bullying, cyber bullying humiliation and rejection by this society. I didn’t even start college and don’t want to go but my bluepolled parents went me to go on September. There is no point on anything I missed out on everything. Being a incel is the worst fate ever
Dude we share birthday :dab:
But I will be 30 :feelsrope:
 
Lets face it, while looks is a HUGE factor, most people that go on incel sites are not trucels. They are just below average. And while bad looks is a HUGE factor in being a loser, for MOST incels, it's not that they are so ugly that it's impossible. It's just that they are just normal looking enough to be considered LOSERS and failing anyway.

No matter what we do we are LOSERS insofar that it simply is what it is. LOSER is practically behaviorally encoded in us from early childhood. I would speculate an ugly son loved like a Chad would be more behaviorally stable than an unloved ugly son that was raised to be subservient and seek approval. Who knows, maybe the only difference between an incel here, and an incel on IT, is one incel has loving parents, and the other was a fucking obvious mistake. Not surprised having loving parents when you are ugly would make you a cuck.

We could be 3 points higher in SMV, it would not make a difference, because wed fail anyway. We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Having said that, I've never met a good looking loser. Even an average looking loser is pretty rare. If you look decent enough and you aren't curry are rice, you are just cool by default. You can be a loser ironically and get away with it.

In fact, all truecels are losers by default, but the vast majority of below average looking men are losers, and just a handful of lucky few religious extremists or betabuxx are not losers by miracle of lack of conditioning to feel inferior.
It's not even the lack of sex but the need to be with a girl who doesn't despises you and wants to be with you without giving money

Thats not for us, we don't fit in this shithole at all
Foids hate us gentlemen
 
Inceldom is caused by low smv plus other factors such as excessive shyness, autism, high IQ (which leads to neuroticism and high inhibition), or just bad social skills in general. An ugly guy, low inhibition guy will be able to pull a woman in rare cases.
 
Brutal how did u survive all this time
I live in automatic mode, the times I am aware of my mysery I cope with videogames, reading, studying history or scientific stuff, porn and the fact I take jewpills to function like a normal human being

Antidepressants only helps me to sleep at night in the day I cope with work and what I did say before. Since I am 18 life has been like that :feelscry:
 
It's just that they are just normal looking enough to be considered LOSERS and failing anyway.

No matter what we do we are LOSERS insofar that it simply is what it is. LOSER is practically behaviorally encoded in us from early childhood. I would speculate an ugly son loved like a Chad would be more behaviorally stable than an unloved ugly son that was raised to be subservient and seek approval. Who knows, maybe the only difference between an incel here, and an incel on IT, is one incel has loving parents, and the other was a fucking obvious mistake. Not surprised having loving parents when you are ugly would make you a cuck.

We could be 3 points higher in SMV, it would not make a difference, because wed fail anyway. We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Having said that, I've never met a good looking loser. Even an average looking loser is pretty rare. If you look decent enough and you aren't curry are rice, you are just cool by default. You can be a loser ironically and get away with it.

In fact, all truecels are losers by default, but the vast majority of below average looking men are losers, and just a handful of lucky few religious extremists or betabuxx are not losers by miracle of lack of conditioning to feel inferior.
This place can do with a bit of nuance but incel means involuntary celibate. As long as you tried and failed that enough.

Also, you can be an incel and NOT an entire loser.
 
Lets face it, while looks is a HUGE factor, most people that go on incel sites are not trucels. They are just below average. And while bad looks is a HUGE factor in being a loser, for MOST incels, it's not that they are so ugly that it's impossible. It's just that they are just normal looking enough to be considered LOSERS and failing anyway.

No matter what we do we are LOSERS insofar that it simply is what it is. LOSER is practically behaviorally encoded in us from early childhood. I would speculate an ugly son loved like a Chad would be more behaviorally stable than an unloved ugly son that was raised to be subservient and seek approval. Who knows, maybe the only difference between an incel here, and an incel on IT, is one incel has loving parents, and the other was a fucking obvious mistake. Not surprised having loving parents when you are ugly would make you a cuck.

We could be 3 points higher in SMV, it would not make a difference, because wed fail anyway. We don't have what it takes to talk to a woman for over 5 mins without feeling so overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or emasculation to the point of wanting to quit. WE LOOK FOR EVERY SIGN OF AN EXIT BECAUSE WE WERE CONDITIONED THAT WAY ALL ALONG.

Having said that, I've never met a good looking loser. Even an average looking loser is pretty rare. If you look decent enough and you aren't curry are rice, you are just cool by default. You can be a loser ironically and get away with it.

In fact, all truecels are losers by default, but the vast majority of below average looking men are losers, and just a handful of lucky few religious extremists or betabuxx are not losers by miracle of lack of conditioning to feel inferior.
true but 3 smv points would make a huge difference
 
True, bad parenting/childhood is the second biggest cause of inceldom besides looks, although looks effect that too, since if you are ugly you are less likely to get affection from your parents, however ugly people that do receive proper affection and care as kids are way way less likely to become incel.
 

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