Guys my sister has dated have said things like “you’re the prettiest girl who has ever liked me” and “I don’t know why you like me, it’s usually short Latinas that do”. And I told her that that is such an insult, run away, but that just didn’t register. Because part of the appeal for the dumpster diving girls is that there’s no competition, or what competition they have they fog easily. My sister is absolutely terrified of having to compete with a girl even close to her level for a guy, I know that runs contrary to what every guy reads about and experiences, but girls like that are out there. She said about how her fiance was "single for 8 years and on Bumble and Hinge the whole time" as if that's not a giant red flag or embarrassing but just totally fine. I've also known couples where the guy dates up and ends up cheating, but he cheats with fat and ugly girls. Which makes sense if he seems them as his natural match, a break from the higher maintenance of the more attractive girl.
When my sister was in the midst of her relationships with subhumans she would go into this weird mental fog. And what that came from was, she went into the relationship thinking that she could make the subhuman and his life better, but when that wasn’t happening she would feel defeated. And as soon as another girl entered the picture whatsoever she would freak out.
In 2022 she was dating this horsefaced LTN borderline incel type. This very bland looking girl liked his picture on Insta, that sent my sister into this weird jealous haze, she called me in the middle of night crying about it. Our mom lost it at her, “why the fuck can’t you just date a normal guy”.
The guy before him gave her some STD without telling her. She ignored a red flag that he might have fucked a bunch of really trashy fat girls. I spent about a year warning her about this guy, and I didn’t find out until our mom told me long after the whole thing, because my sister was convinced I would’ve went and killed the guy. They met when he approached her at some activity thing, at just the right time.
I'm pretty sure she'll suffer. Because she thinks that marrying a guy who's about to turn 40 and then wanting 4 kids and a custom 4 bedroom house with him is a good idea. My sister has a friend who is like this, tall and really pretty girl but insists on dumpster diving, she gave this fat Mexican guy the chance and the guy left her as a single mother. Dumpster diving really seems like a one way ticket to fuck up your life.
