Online dating is the root cause of all evil

[panda99]

I can only repeat this again and again... In previous times dating was a kind
of romantic endeavour rooted in tradition, you maybe seen each other in
kindergarten/village disco and then you fall in love in your teen years
and then stay together for your life maybe. It is maybe a more human way
of dealing with this existential issue. Now it is a kind of robot-like dating
experience, which more or less creates unhappiness for both genders. And
also denies males with sub-human looks but great intelligence their fair
chance to some extent.

 

[blackpillednigga]

no I'd still be an incel because foids are racist and never date curries like me

 

[panda99]

I am living in a remote village of Switzerland btw. And it really fills me with pleasure
the thought if someday again foiiiids will just fuck the guys of this village and maybe
the next one because they have seen them on the street and had some nice
conversation. And the same applies to India also...

 

[Luzifer]

Water is wet thread.

 

[Emba]

You spelled jews wrong

 

[panda99]

@blackpillednigga I wouldn't give up so early here, one thing that you really need to understand
is that really once you abstract from the social media nonsense things are not going so bad. I interviewed
some Indian fooooiids recently for some jobs and they are actually somewhat unblemished when they
are still based in India.

 

[panda99]

Just stay calm, and stay in India to some extent

 

[panda99]

It's often really that simple, support the conservative movements in your country,
and wait for some improvements that come with it. That is at least
my strategy.

 

[willystroker]

I wouldn't say that, rather online dating is just the logical conclusion of a century-long trend.

Namely the idea of finding one's "soulmate", which really encompasses dating altogether. In the old days, people (aside from the upper class) weren't looking for the perfect person to marry, someone whom they're physically attracted to and have the same interests and such. Rather people got married primarily to support each other in living and starting a family. For most people it was a necessity due to the economic conditions of the time.

Whereas since the end of WW2, women increasingly have the luxury of choosing their partners based on looks and "personality" rather than their ability to provide. This is due to increasing prosperity and automation/specialization that has made it unnecessary for women to rely on a man, and vice versa.

 

[panda99]

@willystroker Based/Rational Answer, you are quite right

 

[panda99]

But what does this really mean for the majority of men?

 

[panda99]

I agree somewhat with the notion of finding own's soulmate but this seems
more the dating strategy of guys, and for women this goal is interfered with
by just presenting lots of idiotic chad clowns on Online Dating Apps. That's the
confusing bit

 

[AsiaCel]

Agree it needs to be based

 

[Depressed_manletcel]

I am 5'4 , so online dating doesn't impact me, no woman would want to date me , regardless.

I can only repeat this again and again... In previous times dating was a kind
of romantic endeavour rooted in tradition, you maybe seen each other in
kindergarten/village disco and then you fall in love in your teen years
and then stay together for your life maybe. It is maybe a more human way
of dealing with this existential issue. Now it is a kind of robot-like dating
experience, which more or less creates unhappiness for both genders. And
also denies males with sub-human looks but great intelligence their fair
chance to some extent.

Actraction is biological, there are way more men than women and soulmates are like 0.0001 percent of marriages. Also a woman will grow resentful eventually, realising she dated or married low quality guy

 

[willystroker]

But what does this really mean for the majority of men?

Unfortunately or fortunately, depending on your perspective, it's a self-correcting problem. When the majority of men are unable to reliably find a partner (whether they're incels or normies who get divorced raped), they lose incentive to contribute to the economic system that allows women to be picky in the first place. Thus the economic system degrades for a while until eventually women once again need to directly rely on men for necessities or at least considerable comfort.

We can already see this in the present day as women enroll in university, more men remain unemployed (in the US since 2020 there are more women in the workforce than men, and more are returning to work since the pandemic), hard/dangerous jobs typically worked by men struggle to find workers, therefore infrastructure deteriorates and new construction is much more expensive with many delays. Really the whole supply chain problems we see are caused mainly by men refusing to show up to work. Also due to less males in university (and even the ones who are often end up too depressed to make use of it), there are less men solving hard problems.

Look at all the great inventors of history, aside from a few exceptional autists like Tesla, they had wives to motivate them. And to build their inventions there was an army of men willing to work in the mines, in the steel mills and on sky high scaffolding, to go to war to fight for resources. Today, how many men are motivated to do such things. Men would rather form bands of unruly vagrants, whether it's ISIS or gangs in Detroit. Leaders of every country think they can ignore this problem, but it's coming to bite them in the ass.

 

[panda99]

Quite some interesting aspects you touch upon there. Yes, I am noticing more and more
issues with manual workers, there is really a scarcity of them. You are quite right, maybe
reliably marriages were a sort of stabilising factors that goes away more and more. Even yesterday,
I was discussing with somebody all these huge buildings build some centuries ago, you are
really dependent on an army of male workers to make this happen, as you mention.

 

[worthlessloser26]

Stacy doesn’t even need online dating. Most women I see on there are ltbs and landwhales