You initially would think that the reason why your grandparents, your parents perhaps, your family's friends, your uncles and aunts, your local community leader - that the reason why for so many years they were hostile towards sex before marriage with you, growing up, was because "they came from a simpler time" and "generations ago we had community" and "there was no excessive hypergamy" and "no social media" and "no corporate mass media." Maybe it was because ultimately, there was a very clear disconnect between our generation and their generation.
While these things maybe perhaps factors, the real truth of the matter is this: Your grandparents' generation had normies, chads, and incels just like everyone here does. They all had excessive sex in high school. They all had excessive sex in college. Women back then loved dark triad types, and were whores. Many small isolated voices died single, virgin, and alone with nobody to help them. Nobody listened to Fr. Paul or whoever.
So why is there a disconnect between our generation and their generation?
One reason, and one reason alone: Menopause / Andropause.
It's this reason alone. That's it. Nothing more, nothing less.
Your older grandparents' fertility and desire for sex is gone. So in many ways they adopt a sort of pseudo-incel mentality, although not nearly as violent or aggressive because hormones and the urge for carnal reproduction are gone. So they look at sex more objectively and realize that many of the horrible issues in their earlier relationships were tied to it being based on horny teenage desire and emotional immaturity, and they want to warn their future chad and normie children to not make the same mistake.
Deep down, they don't regret anything though. They got to enjoy their youth, and had a lot of fun with it. They got to experience that awkward and uncomfortable sex in high school. They got to experiment and develop their maturity in college. Finally, after graduating, they got to settle down with someone they legitimately liked and with their sexual experiences fully developed, they were able to please a person who was just as experienced.
You won't ever relate to that.
Human beings by their very nature tend to focus on what's wrong in their life, because for evolutionary purposes, that incentivizes a large portion of the population to fix what's wrong in order to further the species. If we only focused on what's good in our life, we would probably be caught on fire and not notice it.
So your grandparents are only looking at what was wrong in their life, rather than what was wrong with sex as a practice. And they look back to mistakes they made in high school and college and regret the consequences of it. They don't consider the consequences of what would have happened had they not done it.
Ever wonder why you relate to older people than people your age? You are far more in line with a pseudo-incel menopause / andropause elder in your thought processes than you are with a horny chad or normie who fucks whatever moves. If you met your grandfather when he was in his 20s or 30s, he would mock you for how pathetic of a person you are. He would probably make fun of you for your virginity. He would flex and show off the sex he gets to you. Why? Because he hasn't gone through Andropause yet.
Every religion which has taught "sex before marriage is wrong" has been lying to you based on endless chads promulgating their own experiences, without considering the consequences of experiences that aren't their own.
Fuck.
While these things maybe perhaps factors, the real truth of the matter is this: Your grandparents' generation had normies, chads, and incels just like everyone here does. They all had excessive sex in high school. They all had excessive sex in college. Women back then loved dark triad types, and were whores. Many small isolated voices died single, virgin, and alone with nobody to help them. Nobody listened to Fr. Paul or whoever.
So why is there a disconnect between our generation and their generation?
One reason, and one reason alone: Menopause / Andropause.
It's this reason alone. That's it. Nothing more, nothing less.
Your older grandparents' fertility and desire for sex is gone. So in many ways they adopt a sort of pseudo-incel mentality, although not nearly as violent or aggressive because hormones and the urge for carnal reproduction are gone. So they look at sex more objectively and realize that many of the horrible issues in their earlier relationships were tied to it being based on horny teenage desire and emotional immaturity, and they want to warn their future chad and normie children to not make the same mistake.
Deep down, they don't regret anything though. They got to enjoy their youth, and had a lot of fun with it. They got to experience that awkward and uncomfortable sex in high school. They got to experiment and develop their maturity in college. Finally, after graduating, they got to settle down with someone they legitimately liked and with their sexual experiences fully developed, they were able to please a person who was just as experienced.
You won't ever relate to that.
Human beings by their very nature tend to focus on what's wrong in their life, because for evolutionary purposes, that incentivizes a large portion of the population to fix what's wrong in order to further the species. If we only focused on what's good in our life, we would probably be caught on fire and not notice it.
So your grandparents are only looking at what was wrong in their life, rather than what was wrong with sex as a practice. And they look back to mistakes they made in high school and college and regret the consequences of it. They don't consider the consequences of what would have happened had they not done it.
Ever wonder why you relate to older people than people your age? You are far more in line with a pseudo-incel menopause / andropause elder in your thought processes than you are with a horny chad or normie who fucks whatever moves. If you met your grandfather when he was in his 20s or 30s, he would mock you for how pathetic of a person you are. He would probably make fun of you for your virginity. He would flex and show off the sex he gets to you. Why? Because he hasn't gone through Andropause yet.
Every religion which has taught "sex before marriage is wrong" has been lying to you based on endless chads promulgating their own experiences, without considering the consequences of experiences that aren't their own.
Fuck.
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