Blackpill One of the most important things of self improvement is learning how to make everything you compensate with look natural.

[Pinpoint]

When you work out you need a story.
Say you just swim a lot and you bulked up naturally, then it gives you an excuse to have a pool subscription to maintain the lie.
It wasn't gymcel beta fury that you were driven by.

That is one example.
yeah people can sniff bullshit but honestly what else are you going to do.
If you don't have superficial value you're gonna get fucked worse than trying to play it subtle.
It's better people be manipulated anyway if they're not gonna give you respect.

You need to hit a natural, chadlike reason.
If you have an ugly family for example you should say that you didn't see them based on religious differences, they were abusive and pretended to be decent people. IE rednecks from the midwest.
Then you can eliminate genetic history and say that you were a good person who tried to find a new light in a liberal city. Works in liberal haven circle cities and such.
Then say if there's a right wing girl that she's got it right and she's not a degenerate like hicks, keep the differences smoothed if you have an opposing force you were fighting to bring you where you are now, which will account for your emotional reasons behind things.

This is more important than anything if u expect to do any compensation out of insecurity.
Naturality maxxing is the most important thing before compensation. You can't make a good reason for that if u bulk up. Some things can't have a really natural reason behind it if it's blatantly artifical. but the more able it is to have a natural context, then yo ugot the green to compensate.
Like being logical, you need a reason to be logical and it can't be

 

[streetlyte]

What the fuck are you talking about

 

[Pinpoint]

What the fuck are you talking about

If you do anything for compensation, and a girl finds it artificial, then it’s transparent and your compensation looks like insecurity
But if you do something that’s compensating, and it’s natural, if it comes off natural, then it has a chance of impressing her
There is no chance of getting laid through self improvement If women are going to see it all as artificial.
Need to have a good story for each thing you do, working out, having muscles, being funny, being witty, Being an expert on something, etc.

You need to make your compensation look like it’s done for the sake of self amusement, or self health, etc.

 

[Gymcelled]

I've only just read the title but this is the golden rule about lifting.

Don't tell people you lift, make them think that's just your genetics. And if you have to tell them you lift/train make it sound like you barely put any effort or don't train regularly.

 

[UrgyYevhenii]

What the fuck are you talking about

 

[Pinpoint]

I've only just read the title but this is the golden rule about lifting.

Don't tell people you lift, make them think that's just your genetics. And if you have to tell them you lift/train make it sound like you barely put any effort or don't train regularly.

Right, just say that you swam somewhat and it built naturally, or that people in your family who you’ll never show them to you have fibrous muscles, so that was really lucky for you to have

See that’s what I’m talking about, and this also applies to being funny, say that the reason you’re funny isn’t to impress people because you work a hard job and you need to entertain yourself, and if anyone catches you stealing a joke say that you thought you watched it two weeks ago while Falling asleep when your buddies came over to watch a comedy show or something

If you have to be artificial then it’s not impressive because there’s nothing that makes you distinct, everything is about showing your natural aptitude

 

[Antisocialloner]

I don't give a shit about lying to people about little shit like that. I'm too autistically honest so I dont give a fuck

 

[Pinpoint]

I don't give a shit about lying to people about little shit like that. I'm too autistically honest so I dont give a fuck

Then you’re never going to have self improvement
You’re stupid to think honor comes before primal value
The world does not live on honor, or morality, people are drawn to primality, ego, selfishness, hierarchy
Why do you think money was invented
If you forget this then communism is your failure to go

 

[Antisocialloner]

Then you’re never going to have self improvement
You’re stupid to think honor comes before primal value
The world does not live on honor, or morality, people are drawn to primality, ego, selfishness, hierarchy
Why do you think money was invented
If you forget this then communism is your failure to go

I don't give a shit about self improvement anymore. You're ugly so why even bother

 

[omnigold]

Legit.

 

[Pinpoint]

I don't give a shit about self improvement anymore. You're ugly so why even bother

I have a few reasons why you would care
I have a little vanity as a person and if my bet it is to hide then I’m pretty much have no limits
If you’re a natural narcissist Then getting the gift of being ugly makes everything easier
If you are unfairly treated in primal morality then it is only by the rules of traditional morality that you get what you want, because if you were unfairly treated, then it’s only fair to be unfair

 

[unsettling]

thats why there is the meme of social outcasts tending to pursue intellectual endeavors, it gives the outcast a sense of superiority, a way of subverting deficiencies into strength, lack of socialisation isnt going to make you any smarter but if you somehow convince yourself that it actually served to you benefit it will seem like youre taking the optimal route, and will give you a story about ovecoming/success against adversity, its still compensation even if you succeed but it is better than no sense of success whatsoever or doing something that doesn't come off as natural to your circumstances/isn't optimal.

 

[TheReaper]

the point is that people who self improve are not even trying to compensate in a lot of cases.
I, for example, do cardio because the chems released in my brain make me feel less depressed,and the effect of obtaninig a better body is entirely collateral.
what you said is legit only if someone self-improves with the pourpose of "ascending" but there are a lot of other possible reasons to do it.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

Yeah, if you gymcel, dont say you actually gymcel, if anyone says "woah nice man you must lift a lot" just say "nah, I do a few pushups here and there, maybe walk 30min a day, thats bout it" - if you openly admit to being a gymcel, it WILL be used against you to mock you, belittle you, etc.

 

[Pinpoint]

the point is that people who self improve are not even trying to compensate in a lot of cases.
I, for example, do cardio because the chems released in my brain make me feel less depressed,and the effect of obtaninig a better body is entirely collateral.
what you said is legit only if someone self-improves with the pourpose of "ascending" but there are a lot of other possible reasons to do it.

That is one reason I say that when I gym so, it is because of the chemicals released in my brain that allow me to focus better on a hard job, something that’s white color that doesn’t usually get a lot of exercise

You just have to have everything fit so that a foid when she pieces together shit will feel secure in u being genuine
It also helps to create enough contrasting, sometimes embarrassing things so that it doesn’t look like you’re constantly trying to impress them
Saying that you play Pokémon in the past, and that your childhood self would love to play the new game is something that’s a little bit feminine and not cool, but it makes you come off more like you’re being yourself
So the disadvantage of it makes people piece together what you’re doing is actually more natural because if you work on your press them that he wouldn’t say anything about your nerdy tendencies

Yeah, if you gymcel, dont say you actually gymcel, if anyone says "woah nice man you must lift a lot" just say "nah, I do a few pushups here and there, maybe walk 30min a day, thats bout it" - if you openly admit to being a gymcel, it WILL be used against you to mock you, belittle you, etc.

Just say that you swim, because swimming is something that doesn’t have a lot of direction of consciousness behind it
So that you swim at the local pool for an hour because he find it fun (it’s a fun thing to do) and doesn’t require a lot of Percision so then it’s like you’re bon deliberate
Say shit like Gyms stink, filled with pretentious tryhards, etc, to throw off trail more

 

[itneverbegan]

What is needed is artful artlessness

But having before now often considered whence this grace
springs, laying aside those men who have it by nature, I find one
universal rule concerning it, which seems to me worth more in
this matter than any other in all things human that are done or
said: and that is to avoid affectation to the uttermost and as it
were a very sharp and dangerous rock; and, to use possibly a
new word, to practise in everything a certain nonchalance" that
shall conceal design and show that what is done and said is done
without effort and almost without thought. From this I believe
grace is in large measure derived, because everyone knows the
difficulty of those things that are rare and well done, and there-
fore facility in them excites the highest admiration; while on the
other hand, to strive and as the saying is to drag by the hair, is
extremely ungraceful, and makes us esteem everything slightly,
however great it be.

Accordingly we may affirm that to be true art which does
not appear to be art; nor to anything must we give greater care
than to conceal art, for if it is discovered, it quite destroys our
credit and brings us into small esteem. And I remember having
once read that there were several very excellent orators of an-
tiquity, who among their other devices strove to make everyone
believe that they had no knowledge of letters; and hiding their
knowledge they pretended that their orations were composed
very simply and as if springing rather from nature and truth
than from study and art; the which, if it had been detected,
would have made men wary of being duped by it.

Thus you see how the exhibition of art and study so intense
destroys the grace in everything. Which of you is there who
does not laugh when our friend messer Pierpaolo dances in his
peculiar way, with those capers of his, legs stiff to the toe and
head motionless, as if he were a stick, and with such intentness
that he actually seems to be counting the steps? What eye so
blind as not to see in this the ungracefulness of affectation, — and
in many men and women who are here present, the grace of
that nonchalant ease (for in the case of bodily movements many
call it thus), showing by word or laugh or gesture that they have
no care and are thinking more of everything else than of that, to
make the onlooker think they can hardly go amiss ?

THE BOOK OF THE COURTIER BY COUNT BALDESAR CASTIGLIONE (1528)

 

[Deleted member 17606]

Compensate & Cope. Nothing really matters anyways anymore. Especially when you reach my age through years of failure. Women have been losing virginities and having kids for decade after decade. "Shell come, youll find the right one" is the biggest lie anyone would tell me and if anyone would tell it to me again ill beat the shit out of them. No compesating matters anymore either, I truly go to the gym for my own personal gain and nothing else. Either you were chosen for that in this life or you wernt.

 

[Pinpoint]

What is needed is artful artlessness

But having before now often considered whence this grace
springs, laying aside those men who have it by nature, I find one
universal rule concerning it, which seems to me worth more in
this matter than any other in all things human that are done or
said: and that is to avoid affectation to the uttermost and as it
were a very sharp and dangerous rock; and, to use possibly a
new word, to practise in everything a certain nonchalance" that
shall conceal design and show that what is done and said is done
without effort and almost without thought. From this I believe
grace is in large measure derived, because everyone knows the
difficulty of those things that are rare and well done, and there-
fore facility in them excites the highest admiration; while on the
other hand, to strive and as the saying is to drag by the hair, is
extremely ungraceful, and makes us esteem everything slightly,
however great it be.

Accordingly we may affirm that to be true art which does
not appear to be art; nor to anything must we give greater care
than to conceal art, for if it is discovered, it quite destroys our
credit and brings us into small esteem. And I remember having
once read that there were several very excellent orators of an-
tiquity, who among their other devices strove to make everyone
believe that they had no knowledge of letters; and hiding their
knowledge they pretended that their orations were composed
very simply and as if springing rather from nature and truth
than from study and art; the which, if it had been detected,
would have made men wary of being duped by it.

Thus you see how the exhibition of art and study so intense
destroys the grace in everything. Which of you is there who
does not laugh when our friend messer Pierpaolo dances in his
peculiar way, with those capers of his, legs stiff to the toe and
head motionless, as if he were a stick, and with such intentness
that he actually seems to be counting the steps? What eye so
blind as not to see in this the ungracefulness of affectation, — and
in many men and women who are here present, the grace of
that nonchalant ease (for in the case of bodily movements many
call it thus), showing by word or laugh or gesture that they have
no care and are thinking more of everything else than of that, to
make the onlooker think they can hardly go amiss ?

THE BOOK OF THE COURTIER BY COUNT BALDESAR CASTIGLIONE (1528)

Beautiful. This is everything I needed to hear

Compensate & Cope. Nothing really matters anyways anymore. Especially when you reach my age through years of failure. Women have been losing virginities and having kids for decade after decade. "Shell come, youll find the right one" is the biggest lie anyone would tell me and if anyone would tell it to me again ill beat the shit out of them. No compesating matters anymore either, I truly go to the gym for my own personal gain and nothing else. Either you were chosen for that in this life or you wernt.

If you’re not too ugly you’re too old it works
But like anything it’s like martial arts, you can’t use martial arts even if you’re an inferior position if you don’t have the required resources for it
Using pick up, or compensation techniques for a truly ugly person is like trying to use martial arts when you don’t even have a legs or you’re in a wheelchair
At that point nothing can save you