Venting One of the biggest blackpills is that your relationships with immediate family aren’t as strong as you think they are and they’ll resent you over time

[VideoGameCoper]

Basically the title. Those of you who think your parents will always love you and those bonds can never be broken are wrong. Over time, as your parents see you are still a KHHV well into adulthood, they are gonna subconsciously view you as less worthwhile just for that.

And even if you work, you’re probably not gonna get a high paying job because you’re an incel, and your parents will judge you for this too. Not to mention your parents are gonna be I appreciative of everything you do and act like you don’t do enough even when you try your best.

Another brutal part about this is as you become an adult, your parents aren’t gonna want to hear you vent about your struggles, EVER. I know this is water, but over time your parents will get sick of knowing you have so much pain in life and they won’t want you to talk about it, and instead keep it inside.

Just the other day, I was only able to sleep 3.5 hours thanks to my terrible mental health and sleep issues that wake me up every few hours. I couldn’t fall back asleep and felt horrible the entire day.

I was stupid enough to tell my mother I felt bad from sleeping so little, and she then lectured me about how my problems are nothing compared to “Grown up” problems. She then lectured me about how her going to the grocery store to get groceries and bringing them in is way worse than my lack of sleep ever could be. Basically she’ll just brush me off any time I complain (which isn’t that often btw), and then she brags about how much worse she had it (which is a lie because she’s a female).

Basically there are a lot of tensions with me and her now, and my father is long gone already. She called me a lazy piece of shit today. She told me I might have to start thinking about finding an apartment. But if I do move out, it won’t be in an apartment and will instead be in a trailer that I’ll put in a cheap piece of land because I don’t want rent bills

Overall my life feels like shit lately, with working a job, contributing to the household the best I can, and going completely unappreciated. I get bitched at every day almost by her and just have to tune it out.

Sometimes life just makes you wanna bitch out and quit when you realize nobody IRL is truly on your side.

My mother blames me for being KHHV at around 20 and she acts like I could just fix that instantly if I wanted to. She also acts like it’s my fault for not being the natural go getter type. I just don’t have it in me. Even your ability to work hard is genetic, and I don’t have it in me to push myself that hard, so I do the bare minimum. Just sick of it all

 

[justuseless]

My relationship with my family is shit

 

[SilverBullet]

I never was close with anyone in my immediate family. My brother I don’t even interact with treats a dog better than me. My mother and father denounce all my problems or give shitty bluepilled advice

 

[VideoGameCoper]

My relationship with my family is shit

Brutal

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I never was close with anyone in my immediate family. My brother I don’t even interact with treats a dog better than me. My mother and father denounce all my problems or give shitty bluepilled advice

Yeah, it’s truly a curse when your family offers no compassion

 

[Cryotron]

Break her neck.

 

[Chaircel]

They already resent me. They always have, for as long as I can remember.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

They already resent me. They always have, for as long as I can remember.

Brutal incel luck

 

[KILLEVERYLASTNIGGER]

My mother blames me for being KHHV at around 20 and she acts like I could just fix that instantly if I wanted to. She also acts like it’s my fault for not being the natural go getter type. I just don’t have it in me. Even your ability to work hard is genetic, and I don’t have it in me to push myself that hard, so I do the bare minimum. Just sick of it all

My parents do the same with me acting like being KHHV is my fault. I am so sick of this and who knows how long until even my brother starts to resent me?

NaNO2 or a 9mm is our ticket outta here.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

My parents do the same with me acting like being KHHV is my fault. I am so sick of this and who knows how long until even my brother starts to resent me?

NaNO2 is our ticket outta here.

Yeah, it’s pissing me the fuck off. Like how tf can people have so little empathy? Do they not understand how much being KHHDV at 20 fucks you up? Actually they don’t because they never had to experience it.

The real kicker is my mother chooses to remain single and not have sex. She could get sex and love easily despite being obese and old. Meanwhile I desperately want to be loved, cuddled, and to get sex, yet I can’t. I try and I can’t. Unfair world with no empathy.

 

[Da_Yunez]

Basically the title. Those of you who think your parents will always love you and those bonds can never be broken are wrong. Over time, as your parents see you are still a KHHV well into adulthood, they are gonna subconsciously view you as less worthwhile just for that.

And even if you work, you’re probably not gonna get a high paying job because you’re an incel, and your parents will judge you for this too. Not to mention your parents are gonna be I appreciative of everything you do and act like you don’t do enough even when you try your best.

Another brutal part about this is as you become an adult, your parents aren’t gonna want to hear you vent about your struggles, EVER. I know this is water, but over time your parents will get sick of knowing you have so much pain in life and they won’t want you to talk about it, and instead keep it inside.

Just the other day, I was only able to sleep 3.5 hours thanks to my terrible mental health and sleep issues that wake me up every few hours. I couldn’t fall back asleep and felt horrible the entire day.

I was stupid enough to tell my mother I felt bad from sleeping so little, and she then lectured me about how my problems are nothing compared to “Grown up” problems. She then lectured me about how her going to the grocery store to get groceries and bringing them in is way worse than my lack of sleep ever could be. Basically she’ll just brush me off any time I complain (which isn’t that often btw), and then she brags about how much worse she had it (which is a lie because she’s a female).

Basically there are a lot of tensions with me and her now, and my father is long gone already. She called me a lazy piece of shit today. She told me I might have to start thinking about finding an apartment. But if I do move out, it won’t be in an apartment and will instead be in a trailer that I’ll put in a cheap piece of land because I don’t want rent bills

Overall my life feels like shit lately, with working a job, contributing to the household the best I can, and going completely unappreciated. I get bitched at every day almost by her and just have to tune it out.

Sometimes life just makes you wanna bitch out and quit when you realize nobody IRL is truly on your side.

My mother blames me for being KHHV at around 20 and she acts like I could just fix that instantly if I wanted to. She also acts like it’s my fault for not being the natural go getter type. I just don’t have it in me. Even your ability to work hard is genetic, and I don’t have it in me to push myself that hard, so I do the bare minimum. Just sick of it all

Literally very brutal, should i expect my parents to progressively treat me worse as I reach 19, 20, 21 as a KHHV and so on? Im very unsure of what the future holds on for me bro

 

[KILLEVERYLASTNIGGER]

Yeah, it’s pissing me the fuck off. Like how tf can people have so little empathy? Do they not understand how much being KHHDV at 20 fucks you up? Actually they don’t because they never had to experience it.

Normshits and foids will never understand.

The real kicker is my mother chooses to remain single and not have sex. She could get sex and love easily despite being obese and old. Meanwhile I desperately want to be loved, cuddled, and to get sex, yet I can’t. I try and I can’t. Unfair world with no empathy.

If life is this sadistic, unfair and evil then there is no reason to keep living.

 

[KILLEVERYLASTNIGGER]

Literally very brutal, should i expect my parents to progressively treat me worse as I reach 19, 20, 21 as a KHHV and so on? Im very unsure of what the future holds on for me bro

We gotta NaNO2maxx or 9MMmaxx before its too late.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

My mother already thinks this way of me, and it pisses me off. She thinks I can just magically change myself and fix things. The worst thing is, part of the reason my life sucks is her and the way she raised me.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Literally very brutal, should i expect my parents to progressively treat me worse as I reach 19, 20, 21 as a KHHV and so on? Im very unsure of what the future holds on for me bro

I don’t know about your father, as my father died around a year ago almost so it never got this bad with him, but your mother is probably gonna start hounding your more for every little thing.

Part of the reason is your mother knows that you’re not gonna have kids and it’s the end of her genetic legacy. And women hate that. For some reason women get off to the novelty of having kids. Men can be happy without kids as long as they have a good woman

 

[VideoGameCoper]

We gotta NaNO2maxx or 9MMmaxx before it’s too late.

If I might actually become homeless I’d consider this. For now though I have to survive

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Normshits and foids will never understand

True. You’re not gonna get empathy from people who haven’t endured the same shit

If life is this sadistic, unfair and evil then there is no reason to keep living.

Sometimes you just gotta bitch out and stop caring about pleasing people and by self improving. I’m not gonna kill myself in the near future, but I’m also not gonna go above and beyond and will do the minimum necessary

 

[daydreamER]

This is a brutal one. Many of us think that our family will love us unconditionally, but as a man that is wrong. I have accepted my family will only love me if I do what they say: careermaxx, etc. They are the only ones who are there for me though so I will gladly do what they ask.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

This is a brutal one. Many of us think that our family will love us unconditionally, but as a man that is wrong. I have accepted my family will only love me if I do what they say: careermaxx, etc. They are the only ones who are there for me though so I will gladly do what they ask.

I have no interest in career maxxing. I’m done torturing myself. I’m just gonna do the minimum to get by

 

[daydreamER]

I have no interest in career maxxing. I’m done torturing myself. I’m just gonna do the minimum to get by

I understand. If I grew up in a familial environment similar to whites I may have done this, but familial pressures in ethnic immigrant families are much greater and more powerful.

 

[Kamanbert]

I'm 30 + this already happened to me, can confirm, don't count on people beyond stuff like being helped in case of trouble (if you have a good family) as they would do with a friend. Once you're an adult man they don't care about you beyond that

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I understand. If I grew up in a familial environment similar to whites I may have done this, but familial pressures in ethnic immigrant families are much greater and more powerful.

Yeah. Around here family ties aren’t as strong and if I have to, I’ll buy a cheap ass plot of land and bring a trailer there with my truck and live there. If I have to I might have to fuck off and live my myself in a trailer

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Literally very brutal, should i expect my parents to progressively treat me worse as I reach 19, 20, 21 as a KHHV and so on? Im very unsure of what the future holds on for me bro

Yes, it only gets worse as you get older, especially as it becomes obvious that you're always going to be alone.

Hopefully your parents will stay supportive, but there's many cases where they don't despite their sons actually trying.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Yes, it only gets worse as you get older, especially as it becomes obvious that you're always going to be alone.

Hopefully your parents will stay supportive, but there's many cases where they don't despite their sons actually trying.

Yeah, it’s brutal. And I don’t even have “parents” anymore, it’s just my mother because my dad already died like a year ago. I just put parents in the post because most here still have two parents left currently.

But yeah, my mother is realizing more and more that things won’t get better for me. I’m around 20 now (which although not oldcel tier is still very old to be KHHDV). And my mother knows this and has less hope for me. So she kinda wants to ignore the problems and not think about it.

Plus I’ve had terrible sleep issues since age 16, and wake up one of more times during the sleep and struggle to fall back asleep. Just las night I woke up 3 times during my sleep. She flips out at me every time I complain about this, which isn’t even that often.

 

[anotherwastedlife]

I wonder how my parents talk about me when i'm not around, their old friends must ask about how i'm going, what are they gonna tell them? They don't really lie and they'd have to say im a 26 year old virgin whos never had a job. Soulcrushing to even think about

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I wonder how my parents talk about me when i'm not around, their old friends must ask about how i'm going, what are they gonna tell them? They don't really lie and they'd have to say im a 26 year old virgin whos never had a job. Soulcrushing to even think about

Brutal. Yeah they must talk about you. It it’s even more brutal when they say it right to your face. Unless you get neetbuxx, you should try to get an easy job man, that might help. But again, that’s hard as fuck when you’re 26 and haven’t interacted with society much in 8 years

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I was stupid enough to tell my mother I felt bad from sleeping so little, and she then lectured me about how my problems are nothing compared to “Grown up” problems.

My mom often does that as well; she dismisses everything I say and treats me as if I am a child. She even goes as far as mocking my problems and making fun of me.

That's exactly why I don't confide in anyone about my problems anymore. Even when they know the truth, they try to give meaningless platitudes, suggesting that it's my own fault and that I must have brought all of my problems upon myself. And at worst they mock me for those problems.

But we both know it's not that simple. It's a lot worse than most people realize, being incel is like a curse. And like you have stated, they are simply unable to empathize with us because they aren't in our shoes. It's easy for them to dismiss our suffering as nothing.

It is really ironic—and frustrating—that so many people refuse to understand our struggles despite the fact that their lives are usually filled with love, friendship, and intimacy, which are three things we've never had.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

My mom often does that as well; she dismisses everything I say and treats me as if I am a child. She even goes as far as mocking my problems and making fun of me.

That's exactly why I don't confide in anyone about my problems anymore. Even when they know the truth, they try to give meaningless platitudes, suggesting that it's my own fault and that I must have brought all of my problems upon myself. And at worst they mock me for those problems.

But we both know it's not that simple. It's a lot worse than most people realize, being incel is like a curse. And like you have stated, they are simply unable to empathize with us because they aren't in our shoes. It's easy for them to dismiss our suffering as nothing.

It is really ironic—and frustrating—that so many people refuse to understand our struggles despite the fact that their lives are usually filled with love, friendship, and intimacy, which are three things we've never had.

Thanks for the thought out reply. And yeah, it’s so crazy how they dismiss us being KHHV our whole lives as nothing meanwhile they hate being single for a week. Most people would rope in our shoes, especially foids.

We are tough as nails for still trudging through

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

i cant believe i let my parents down so fucking bad im such a fucking loser for everything

 

[KingOfInceldia]

Older generations are sociopaths I realized this a long time ago, parents included

 

[VideoGameCoper]

i cant believe i let my parents down so fucking bad im such a fucking loser for everything

Don’t feel bad for letting them down. It’s out if your control and isn’t your fault. Children’s failures are also parents’ failures both genetically and in terms of how they were raised

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Older generations are sociopaths I realized this a long time ago, parents included

Boomers took so much and left so little

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

Don’t feel bad for letting them down. It’s out if your control and isn’t your fault. Children’s failures are also parents’ failures both genetically and in terms of how they were raised

i guess. thanks for the words of wisdom brocel

 

[anotherwastedlife]

But again, that’s hard as fuck when you’re 26 and haven’t interacted with society much in 8 years

I'll be 27 in july so it will be 9 years soon

I'll probably get neetbuxx eventually, i'm not sure what an easy job would be

 

[KingOfInceldia]

Boomers took so much and left so little

They know what they did they just won't own up to it, which is why like niggers they need to blame their kids for everything wrong on soysociety.

It's demons speaking when you see it IRL

 

[Autistic Uggo]

The social pressure only increases as you get older. You will look weirder and people will have less patience for you. I have experienced this myself.

 

[KILLEVERYLASTNIGGER]

True. You’re not gonna get empathy from people who haven’t endured the same shit

Sometimes you just gotta bitch out and stop caring about pleasing people and by self improving. I’m not gonna kill myself in the near future, but I’m also not gonna go above and beyond and will do the minimum necessary

You don't need to rope, your health will do the job for you.

 

[starystulejarz]

The real kicker is my mother chooses to remain single and not have sex. She could get sex and love easily despite being obese and old. Meanwhile I desperately want to be loved, cuddled, and to get sex, yet I can’t. I try and I can’t. Unfair world with no empathy.

My mom is the same she always rejected men except a very few. Even tho she is now in her 70s she still gets approached by men of all ages

 

[starystulejarz]

The social pressure only increases as you get older. You will look weirder and people will have less patience for you. I have experienced this myself.

Only women and kids can behave like kids, while men must always be competent no matter what and with age you have to be more and more experienced in all matters of life not just job. I'm lagging so much in everything that it's impossible to catch up.

 

[DarkStar]

Brutal, sorry mang

And yeah, this is correct. It's kinda water, but it shows that we're right in a way.

Think about it, the fact you have other issues(sleep issues) is a sign your life as a whole isn't good, and that you probably don't have the best success sexually/romantically.

Our parents expect for us to meet all these requirements, which having sex(ie, an indicator of a healthy social life) correlates heavy with. We've crossed this certain point in which we haven't ascertained this.

And jfl at your mom thinking her getting groceries is somehow worse than a lack of sleep; sleep is literally a basic need alongside food, air, and sex.

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

My relationship with my family is shit

 

[JustanotherKanga]

Take the Kangapill and copy me:
Live in social isolation, cut toxic family members out of your life and enjoy your peace

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

i can tell you how it's gonna go from here if you want.
if more time passes and you still don't get a bitch they might amp up the pressure, but you can say "i think it's your fault for not raising me right" at which point they'll fold and suddenly say it's not important to have a bitch actually, people can get married at 50.
then a little more time passes and they get older, now they basically get amnesia and forget almost everything that ever happened.
all they want is for you to take care of them as their health gets more fucked up, move back in with them if you ever moved away, or sell everything and buy a new house that will basically be a nursing home for them, with you as the nurse.
they basically turn into the kids you never had, wanting you to take care of them, with the time you would have dedicated to your own branch of the family tree, a wife, etc.
this is how it ends.

 

[Wok22]

Family is all you have when you are an incel

Take the Kangapill and copy me:
Live in social isolation, cut toxic family members out of your life and enjoy your peace

Unless of course, your family treated you terribly. All you have is yourself then, nigga.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

i guess. thanks for the words of wisdom brocel

No problem

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I'll be 27 in july so it will be 9 years soon

I'll probably get neetbuxx eventually, i'm not sure what an easy job would be

Yeah, hope you can get neetbuxx

 

[VideoGameCoper]

They know what they did they just won't own up to it, which is why like niggers they need to blame their kids for everything wrong on soysociety.

It's demons speaking when you see it IRL

Yep, it’s just crazy to blame it all on their kids

 

[VideoGameCoper]

You don't need to rope, your health will do the job for you.

Yeah you’re right. In probably like 15-20 years tops my health will take me out

 

[VideoGameCoper]

My mom is the same she always rejected men except a very few. Even tho she is now in her 70s she still gets approached by men of all ages

Yeah it’s ridiculous, and my mom literally complains to me at times that men hit on her. She is 60 and is a 230 pound fatty, so it’s so fucking wonder women can’t understand our struggles when even women like this get hit on.

They have it way too easy in life.

 

[JKlancecaster069]

My parents always thought I was a loser and would always insult me so I started to avoid talking to them unless necessary at a young age.