Discussion Oldercels, what would y'all say to youngcels?

[JustAnotherCynic]

I know that with experience comes knowledge. I realized I was an incel five years ago, aged 14. I was quite lost and even quit the black pill a few times before realizing that it always comes to collect, so I lurked sometimes and was active sometimes. Regardless, we all know there is quite a population of younger lurkers on here. What'd be your advice for them?

 

[RealSchizo]

> y'all

 

[starystulejarz]

kill yourself now kid

 

[Ben132794]

> y'all

Lol

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

> y'all

What's wrong with y'all?

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

All i can say is that life can and will likely get worse. Just when you think it cannot get any worse, then it happens.

If you mean advice as in dating and so on, it's hard to give out advice without much context in regards to your character, though i can see you're 19 and still a virgin in latin america, so that's already quite telling.

You'd be better on looksmax.org if you're looking to improve yourself. Some users emigrated there and eventually found success

 

[Lonelyus]

Try to ascend or kill yourself

Rotting is hell

 

[strange_to_be]

I truly believe before you really commit to being an incel (unless you really just are like mutilated or like on the extreme ends of some distrubutions like 4'8'') you should at least get in shape and get out a little bit. Meaning get into sub 15% body fat and a solid 6 months of working out before you say women don't like you. I think the vast majority that's even 5'7''+ that does this will find some success with women.

My mental image of the typical 'incel' is 5'5'' to 5'10'' slightly on the spectrum and never played or barely played sports in high school so they have no muscular development and are thin weak, skinny fat, or chubby with no muscular development. People in this category really need to get in shape/stick to a diet for 6months to a year (and really closer to 6 months in most cases) and put themselves out there a little bit at the end of that process

 

[reveries]

Moneymaxx. Money solve almost everything. Start at young age, please. Or you will suffer the older you get.
Same with your health.

Take care of these two things and the inceldom will be absolutely bearable and maybe even enjoyable.

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

I truly believe before you really commit to being an incel (unless you really just are like mutilated or like on the extreme ends of some distrubutions like 4'8'') you should at least get in shape and get out a little bit. Meaning get into sub 15% body fat and a solid 6 months of working out before you say women don't like you. I think the vast majority that's even 5'7''+ that does this will find some success with women.

My mental image of the typical 'incel' is 5'5'' to 5'10'' slightly on the spectrum and never played or barely played sports in high school so they have no muscular development and are thin weak, skinny fat, or chubby with no muscular development. People in this category really need to get in shape/stick to a diet for 6months to a year (and really closer to 6 months in most cases) and put themselves out there a little bit at the end of that process

I don't have any doubts regarding my status as an incel. I am 175cm (5'89, not even 5'9 ffs). I played football at school sometimes though I sucked ass at it but the coach felt pity for me. I have been working out every day for the past year (with a two-week break because of exams but you get the point). There's nothing to do, I'm an incel.

But, what do you advise me to do to make it hurt less? May you share any copes, or advice on dumb things I might do that will end up hurting me later, anything of the sort?

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

Stay in school, get yourself into some kind of career.

The validation you will feel from achieving things, and being needed and appreciated for what you can do and the value you can bring: it is no substitute for being loved and wanted by someone. But it is something, it is better than nothing, and it definitely helps.

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

Moneymaxx. Money solve almost everything. Start at young age, please. Or you will suffer the older you get.
Same with your health.

Take care of these two things and the inceldom will be absolutely bearable and maybe even enjoyable.

Yeah, that's likely true. Thank you.

 

[Knajjd]

What's the point you won't listen. You'll learn the hard way, through experience.

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

What's the point you won't listen. You'll learn the hard way, through experience.

Nah, man I'm a dumbass, I learn more by people pointing out my mistakes than by committing them.

 

[suicidecase]

kys or SEAmaxx

 

[strange_to_be]

I don't have any doubts regarding my status as an incel. I am 175cm (5'89, not even 5'9 ffs). I played football at school sometimes though I sucked ass at it but the coach felt pity for me. I have been working out every day for the past year (with a two-week break because of exams but you get the point). There's nothing to do, I'm an incel.

But, what do you advise me to do to make it hurt less? May you share any copes, or advice on dumb things I might do that will end up hurting me later, anything of the sort?

My bet is that no matter what you say unless you have DEXA scans or water displacement tests that you're fucking fat.

But if that's not the case, and maybe it's not

1. The guy that says MoneyMaxx is right. Money will go a long way. The money I've spent on truly attractive escorts, mostly outside of the US, is well spent.

2. Since I'm on escorts, to pull out the word above, truly attractive, even the poorly performing ones I still am happy to have fucked them. You have to go outside the US though in most cases which takes you back to money.

3. The guy that said stay in school and get a career I also really reiterate. I really enjoy where I work because of the competence and teamwork of the people around me. What I do is enough intellectually stimulating often enough that I don't get the nihilistic staring off into the distance that truly repetitive work gives you. I have enough space in my field to move laterally in ways that would still be satisfying. The lower down you are on the Job Hierarchy ladder the more you're just going to be executing tasks in a repetitive way someone else defined and the more you're going to be surrounded by trash.

4. Stay in shape - the older you get the creaker you get, the more sore you get, the more stuff starts to not work. Sedentary lifestyle will lead to a weaker body and it's not good to have a weak body and ill formed habits. This includes cardio. Stay sub 20%, preferably sub 15% body fat.

5. With the above learn to cook to save money and exercise more control over your diet. Eating out all the time is impulsive and harder to control.

6. Stay in touch with family including extended family.

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

My bet is that no matter what you say unless you have DEXA scans or water displacement tests that you're fucking fat.

But if that's not the case, and maybe it's not

1. The guy that says MoneyMaxx is right. Money will go a long way. The money I've spent on truly attractive escorts, mostly outside of the US, is well spent.

2. Since I'm on escorts, to pull out the word above, truly attractive, even the poorly performing ones I still am happy to have fucked them. You have to go outside the US though in most cases which takes you back to money.

3. The guy that said stay in school and get a career I also really reiterate. I really enjoy where I work because of the competence and teamwork of the people around me. What I do is enough intellectually stimulating often enough that I don't get the nihilistic staring off into the distance that truly repetitive work gives you. I have enough space in my field to move laterally in ways that would still be satisfying. The lower down you are on the Job Hierarchy ladder the more you're just going to be executing tasks in a repetitive way someone else defined and the more you're going to be surrounded by trash.

4. Stay in shape - the older you get the creaker you get, the more sore you get, the more stuff starts to not work. Sedentary lifestyle will lead to a weaker body and it's not good to have a weak body and ill formed habits. This includes cardio. Stay sub 20%, preferably sub 15% body fat.

5. With the above learn to cook to save money and exercise more control over your diet. Eating out all the time is impulsive and harder to control.

6. Stay in touch with family including extended family.

I will note this, thank you. Somewhat struggling with money because my country is in fucking ruins (allegedly it's getting better but I'm not noticing it tbh), but otherwise, seems very reasonable.

 

[Ashton-Il]

I know that with experience comes knowledge. I realized I was an incel five years ago, aged 14. I was quite lost and even quit the black pill a few times before realizing that it always comes to collect, so I lurked sometimes and was active sometimes. Regardless, we all know there is quite a population of younger lurkers on here. What'd be your advice for them?

I'm in my mid 30's and I've been on Incel sites since 2009. I've known most of the Incel legends.
What I'll say is it'll get much worse as you age.. In your late teen and even early 20's you can cope or at least have a faint ray of hope that things will get better and you still have time. Not so when you are past 30. By the time you reach your mid 30's you'd often be working alot, to keep a roof over your head and food on the table.. so you can have a house to sleep in..

Life at this point becames a hampsters spinning wheel. From thie on it gets worse and worse as your body starts to give out.. If by then you havent roped you can expect more of the same till you die. Think it's bad now when you are 18? Just you wait.. Being Incel as a teen is one thing.. being an incel living alone in a crummy house/ apartment at age 44, and in bad health is a whole other..

So my advice? Be prepared for the worst.. For those among you who have decent looks I urge you to try your hardest. Remeber at your age you are just seen as the ugly guy.. at my age you'll be seen as the *old* ugly guy. If you manage to get a gf an ascend young then you should be in the clear.. However even if by some miracle you get a gf at age 35 you'll be so mentally devastated by years of inceldom that the girl will pick up on that very fast and dump your ass..

In almost 16 years on the incelsphere i can count on one hand the number of incels who managed to ascend successfully past age 30.
One other peice of advice.. since you likely will have no wife or kids to help support you financially in old age I strongly recommend you save invest any way you can.

 

[ThanostheGOAT]

I truly believe before you really commit to being an incel (unless you really just are like mutilated or like on the extreme ends of some distrubutions like 4'8'') you should at least get in shape and get out a little bit. Meaning get into sub 15% body fat and a solid 6 months of working out before you say women don't like you. I think the vast majority that's even 5'7''+ that does this will find some success with women.

My mental image of the typical 'incel' is 5'5'' to 5'10'' slightly on the spectrum and never played or barely played sports in high school so they have no muscular development and are thin weak, skinny fat, or chubby with no muscular development. People in this category really need to get in shape/stick to a diet for 6months to a year (and really closer to 6 months in most cases) and put themselves out there a little bit at the end of that process

Great advice, I’ll try this as cope

 

[Pancakecel]

Stop saying y'all, this isn't reddit

 

[TheCatMan]

Moneymaxx. Money solve almost everything. Start at young age, please. Or you will suffer the older you get.
Same with your health.

Take care of these two things and the inceldom will be absolutely bearable and maybe even enjoyable.

Exactly this. Take care of your teeth and pinch pennies as soon as you start working.