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Serious Oldcels, what's some advice you have for youngcels (16-22?)

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Are there things you wish you would have done as a youngcel? What are some tips.you have when in certain situations? What are some ups youngcels may face during a lifetime of inceldom? Etc., Etc.
 
Mostly, I think youngcels should do a lot of cold approaches to find out if they're actually incel. There are lots of delusional normalfag teenagers on this site wasting their time when they could probably get laid easily.

I found out I was truly ugly at a young age because I asked out a lot of girls with 0 success.
 
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Gymmax and careermax, try to forget about women.
 
World is getting worse, so dont even know what to say for youngcels of today. It's over?
 
Focus on spirituality and money.
 
Try to flush the oneitis/orbiting out of your system if you can. Once you've been through all of that once or twice it gives you clarity and strength. But whatever you do, don't become some twitch thot's paypig. Have at least one serious stab at the dating game before your mid 20s, if you browse this website you can see through all the lies, the taboos and the bullshit surrounding female attraction. If it fails, you can at least become an oldcel with a clear conscience.

Sooner or later, the LDAR lifestyle will probably lose its appeal. I'm not going to give advice that I haven't followed myself (I'm still trying to break out of rotter mode), but I will say to bear that in mind.

The biggest impression I get from getting older is "Is that it then?". When I was in my late teens/early 20s I thought the world was somehow "more" than it really is.
 
I just turned 30 years old. I weight 57kg and I work a dead end job that I hate and I drive a shitty ass hyundai

Tbh life hasn’t been fair to me but you should get a collage degree and work hard in your 20’s to have a better life than a do.
 
I'm 29, so don't know if you'd consider me an oldcel, but I would advise youngcels to make the most of their opportunity while at school/college/university. At college/university, you're surrounded by girls at their peak SMV. You'll never have a better opportunity or a bigger abundance of girls. Approach a lot and try your best to ascend before getting sucked down this road.
 
I wish that in my early twenties I could have felt the urgency I feel now (mid thirties) of the need to looksmax and stay looksmaxed (I've always yoyod in weight) and also to earn good money. Something has happened to me this year where I feel panic at the desperation of my situation. If I had felt this 10-15 years ago I would have had a much higher chance of success as my looks were so much better then and you can start new things at the bottom when you're young and it's normal.

You should lose your virginity to a hooker ASAP. Don't expect it to be good but just do it. You need some experience of PinV and cumming inside a woman (use condom ofc). Then do it again with another one. The second time was much more enjoyable for me. Do this as early as you can, you NEED the experience and have no other choice if incel beyond 18.

Be determined, know your Self, don't let other Wills stop you from doing what your body wants to do. If you've looksmaxed, are as fit as you reasonably can be and still incel then look abroad for a gf. Holes like foreign men.

There are no ups to being an older incel, the desperation generally just gets worse. You can have periods of "acceptance" where you are at peace with it but for me the desperation always comes back in the end and all your peace gave you was lost time.
 
Don't waste your cognitive peak, develop a skill to the highest degree you can manage at least once in your life.
 
Kill yourself now, because it will only get worse with time.
 
Be more active in looking for a gf, be more social and go to more places where it is relatively easy to meet women. If you go to uni/college take it seriously but also allow yourself some portion of your time to work on your social life, even if you still have to do shit for uni. Unironically get nice (=/= expensive) clothes and a nice haircut if you don't do that already. Don't give up.

Then there are a lot of things that I would tell my younger self particular, but maybe some of it applies to other youngcels as well: Don't be so afraid to leave a bad impression on other people and don't be overly cautious about "going too far". Invite people more often. Try to have a bigger social circle. Don't make big plans all the time that you not are going to do anyways, actually do something, even if it is just little things. Try to reduce behaviour that is seen as weird by other people. Almost most importantly: Have a better time management: Be focused while working, but also reserve one day of the week for doing what you want, especially meeting other people.
 
Take a shower and improve your genetics, don’t forget to respect women
 
There's no advice that can help you with inceldom if you're actually incel, but not listening to bluepilled or redpilled advice can improve your life a lot.
 
My advice would be do all you can to not be poor. Being incel is hell, but being poor and incel is just doubling your suffering. I'm not advocating wageslaving either, because you want as much free time as possible to cope with enjoyable things like video games and taxes directly subsidize the system that keeps us all oppressed. Taxation is theft anyway.

If I were young again and had no business / career, I would certainly get involved in drug growing and dealing online combined with crypto. Its a new high tech age, you could easily operate as an anonymous online weed seller and be untraceable. As long as you didn't get excessively large and kept your grow sensible, and avoided areas like hard drugs, firearms etc, the feds wouldn't care.

Weed can be grown with LED grow lights now which emit virtually no heat, so the only way you can get caught is if you are stupid enough to tell people or you let the smell out because you are a HVAC pleb. Ship your product via private courier on a fake name account, receive payments via cryptocurrency.
 
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I would have done those things earlier.
 
If you're under 18, get off this forum.

If you're 18 and up? Get off this forum. You need to be living, damn it! You need to be hitting up the college scene before you're a fuckin' old guy like I am!
 
Become a tranny.
 

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