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Venting Now my best friend betrayed me and abandoned me

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My dorm roommate used to be one of my best friends. Even though I felt he was a chad and could easily go get women if he left his computer, he never did because he identified as "asexual and aromantic". That shit made me mad at him for forsaking his genetics but at the same time it was comforting knowing he never brought any stacies into the room. He was the only person I could go to irl for my feelings and I trusted him a lot.

Ever since I failed my finals and told him about it, he went distant. Two days ago, I offered him to watch me do a hardcore playthrough of new vegas with all stats and skills set to 1, and he agreed but "not right now but later tonight". Sure enough he didn't respond to any of my messages the whole night. It made me depressed as doing this playthrough alone would be boring. The next day, the same thing happened, and I just figured he was busy, but tonight, now I know. He blocked me on discord.

I am legit crying and i don't want to do the playthrough anymore. I can't even neet with anyone else. Just like in my childhood, I'll always be playing video games alone.
 
Sorry to hear about all of that. Don't get discouraged over your finals! Everyone fails classes at some point. Keep persevering and you'll do well there. As for your friend, fuck him for ditching you like that. I had someone do that to me once. The least they could have done was given me an explanation for why they did it. I hope you can find closure. Good luck bro
 
Sorry to hear about all of that. Don't get discouraged over your finals! Everyone fails classes at some point. Keep persevering and you'll do well there. As for your friend, fuck him for ditching you like that. I had someone do that to me once. The least they could have done was given me an explanation for why they did it. I hope you can find closure. Good luck bro
I stopped talking to all the old friends I u sed to have but they know it's because I'm a loser now and they don't want to talk either that much so I don't think I let anyone down that much
 
Never befriend a Chad.
 
So he cut you off cause you failed your exams? :feelswhat:
 
Sure enough he didn't respond to any of my messages the whole night.
He blocked me on discord.
I am legit crying
Damn I wish I cared enough about a man enough to cry over him that sounds like a hell of a friendship you thought you had.

I guess I'm too pessimistic to let myself believe in it though, for good reason - I've experienced betrayals of that sort before too but I got my education about human nature back in middle school so I've had decades to cope with the sense of isolation.
 
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Crying over a dude leaving you
 
True but the poor homie went through the same situation as most of us. Can't have shit as incel.
I'm really tired of people calling me a kid when I am actually 21 and I pay my own rent
 
Is it just me or did this story sound kinda gay?
Like, do you need some Chad dude around to be happy?
And you cried?

I don't know, man.

Pretty sus.
 
fuck that guy i know how it is like for a best friend to suddendly be leave you its cuz you're incel don't let them lie they sense your incelness everyone can sense it.

Trust no one, this happened to me in middle school once with my best friend. The only way you can have a best friend is for them to be lower on the social rank scale than you a.k.a disabled or smth like that.
 
I know what it's like to lose close friends, it really hurts my mental health.
 
I mean maybe he just doesn't really want to watch you play a game? IDK how relationships/friendships work but I don't really think I would want to spend my time watching someone play a game
 
I think it's just for a night or two.

Hopefully, things goes back to normal.
 

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