Story NOTHING can overcome lack of looks. My experience.

[Notkev]

I grew up believing that if I just did the right things that I too would have a gf at some point. But the inevitable truth was that, in life, and more so with women, it's %90 WHO YOU ARE and like %10 WHAT YOU DO. Of course outside of dating you have more agency and control, but the truth is that your face, is the ceiling of what you can achieve and experience in life. The only way to change that is weight loss for obese guys (maybe) or surgery (maybe).


Not trying to brag, just trying to make a point here:
Me? I started martial arts at 7. I was great in academics and made it to the best uni in my country, majoring in engineering. Hell, I even learned swimming. I lifted weights (albeit never cared about my diet unfortunately). I learned programming too. I would have many things to talk about but guess what? None of these things matter when you're ugly. Now you should do what you want of course, I'm kust saying that with women, literally only your genes matter, and money after that.

Nothing you do breaks the failo of being ugly. With me, people only ever contact me and treat me like a human when they need something from me. It's as if loneliness is written on my face (it kind of is, literally). Looks are simply the prerequisite of happiness in life. That good looking guy you see with his cute gf? He's happy. And didn't have to do anything extra to get it. We're simply the OPPOSITE of what he is, unfortunately.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I grew up believing that if I just did the right things that I too would have a gf at some point. But the inevitable truth was that, in life, and more so with women, it's %90 WHO YOU ARE and like %10 WHAT YOU DO. Of course outside of dating you have more agency and control, but the truth is that your face, is the ceiling of what you can achieve and experience in life. The only way to change that is weight loss for obese guys (maybe) or surgery (maybe).


Not trying to brag, just trying to make a point here:
Me? I started martial arts at 7. I was great in academics and made it to the best uni in my country, majoring in engineering. Hell, I even learned swimming. I lifted weights (albeit never cared about my diet unfortunately). I learned programming too. I would have many things to talk about but guess what? None of these things matter when you're ugly. Now you should do what you want of course, I'm kust saying that with women, literally only your genes matter, and money after that.

Nothing you do breaks the failo of being ugly. With me, people only ever contact me and treat me like a human when they need something from me. It's as if loneliness is written on my face (it kind of is, literally). Looks are simply the prerequisite of happiness in life. That good looking guy you see with his cute gf? He's happy. And didn't have to do anything extra to get it. We're simply the OPPOSITE of what he is, unfortunately.

Looks are the most important thing in life.

When a chad has a gf, chances are he never worked on his personality, in fact he could be a complete dick, but because his looks halo'd him with a good personality people will perceive his shittiness as charming.

Meanwhile here I am, I try my hardest to be a good person but I am doomed forever, I will always stay an incel, I will never be loved and I will never be in a relationship.

It's over

 

[Notkev]

Looks are the most important thing in life.

When a chad has a gf, chances are he never worked on his personality, in fact he could be a complete dick, but because his looks halo'd him with a good personality people will perceive his shittiness as charming.

Meanwhile here I am, I try my hardest to be a good person but I am doomed forever, I will always stay an incel, I will never be loved and I will never be in a relationship.

It's over

Over time I lost my good personality and niceness. Because I realized it's worthless. Now I'm just a bitter dick. It doesn't make things better. But it's less wasted energy on my part

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Over time I lost my good personality and niceness. Because I realized it's worthless. Now I'm just a bitter dick. It doesn't make things better. But it's less wasted energy on my part

I honestly feel like I am going down that road as well.

I get nothing for being nice to women, they just ignore me or treat me like a doormat.

 

[Notkev]

I honestly feel like I am going down that road as well.

I get nothing for being nice to women, they just ignore me or treat me like a doormat.

That's the thing. Because we're ugly, being nice is creepy, and being confident is being an asshole. We just can't win. It's best to play things professional and nonchalant but even that doesn't work.

 

[nice_try]

Not trying to brag, just trying to make a point here:
Me? I started martial arts at 7. I was great in academics and made it to the best uni in my country, majoring in engineering. Hell, I even learned swimming. I lifted weights (albeit never cared about my diet unfortunately). I learned programming too. I would have many things to talk about but guess what? None of these things matter when you're ugly. Now you should do what you want of course, I'm kust saying that with women, literally only your genes matter, and money after that.

Did you looksmax?

 

[Notkev]

Did you looksmax?

Lost the little fat I had (from skinny-fat to skinny with abs), grew out hair (good hairline). Other than gym I don't think there's any other softmaxxing method left (that actually works). All of that moved me maybe 0.5 a point in smv.