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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3cdmps/rule_1_be_attractive_rule_2_dont_be_unattractive/
Holy sweet mother of Jesus how much coping can you possibly do? Just LOL. I can't. I just can't.
Rule 1: Be Attractive
The emphasis here is on be. Being attractive takes proactivity. It means learning what women will respond to, learning how to escalate in a way that excites them, making approaches, taking the time out to go to the gym and eat right, and making yourself into the person you want to be so the natural confidence follows.
Rule 2: Don't be Unattractive
A huge part of game is un-learning bad habits that were somehow instilled in you that women find to be huge turn-offs. We've all hopefully learned how to recognize the unattractive behavior of thirsty men who never get laid and we actually cringe when we see it - things like neediness, insecurity, over-eagerness, getting frazzled by shit tests, putting women on pedestals. We know how simple it is to fix, how uninformed you have to be to end up at that point, we sometimes even see our former selves in it. Don't be unattractive - learn how to spot it and put a stop to that behavior.
I think that whenever I see this on reddit, it comes off as "looks are the only thing that matters." This couldn't be any further from the truth, I know men who look like models that are extremely sexually frustrated, and stumpy guys with pig faces who are on dates with new girls every other day. The difference between the two is indeed their attractiveness - and it has nothing to do with looks.
Holy sweet mother of Jesus how much coping can you possibly do? Just LOL. I can't. I just can't.