Most in real life hold some degree of contempt or unease surrounding us if they know what an "incel" is, but not exactly fear; that only goes on once the media finds a boogeyman to blame on us, and slowly dissipates afterwards, and only ITcucks who obsess over us due to whatever reason of coping or foid delusion hold real fear...
What they do resent us for is the fact that they subconsciously know the blackpill is true, and that their physical attractiveness is really the judgement of all in life; only once they make that connection can they truly understand hypergamy and foid privilege, regardless of how "redpilled" one might be.
