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What have you always heard the majority of the population and mainstream media say? “You’re going to find someone eventually” and “Don’t go out looking for girls, they will come to you one day” Dating and relationships come naturally to most people, they never have to be taught a single thing about it, it just simply happens. In fact, in most cultures, certain rituals surrounding dating and relationships can be labeled as a developmental milestone, that’s a testament to how common these things are to people.
When we are told that we fail at these things because of our “personality”, we are being gaslight to believe that our failure can somehow be influenced by our actions. This could be the case sometimes, but ultimately there are those people who will never ascend simply due to their horrible appearance.
If we believe that our failures are within the realm of control instead of luck-based, we start to feel inadequate in every way shape or form. We may think that we have something wrong with us mentally, or that we lack a greater understanding of the world. After all, if we can’t succeed at even the most basic and innate skills, what would make us think that we are capable of achieving anything higher or more sophisticated? It’s no wonder that these people think there’s no hope for themselves.
When we are told that we fail at these things because of our “personality”, we are being gaslight to believe that our failure can somehow be influenced by our actions. This could be the case sometimes, but ultimately there are those people who will never ascend simply due to their horrible appearance.
If we believe that our failures are within the realm of control instead of luck-based, we start to feel inadequate in every way shape or form. We may think that we have something wrong with us mentally, or that we lack a greater understanding of the world. After all, if we can’t succeed at even the most basic and innate skills, what would make us think that we are capable of achieving anything higher or more sophisticated? It’s no wonder that these people think there’s no hope for themselves.