
Neurotic
Try to see it once my way
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Young man: I can't seem to be successful in finding a partner, what should I do?
Society: You've got to take women on nice dates, get them flowers, be emotionally available and hit the gym.
Young man: I've done all those things you told me but I'm still unable to find a girlfriend, perhaps there's something wrong with modern dating itself?
Society: Maybe stop viewing women as NPCs and expecting them to like you for doing those things? The problem is clearly you.
As a man, no matter what you do, people will always continue moving the goal post to blame you for the failure that results from factors outside of your control, even if you follow the exact advice they gave you. Women will try to gaslight you into thinking you're entitled for wanting some basic affection while excluding 90% of men from their own dating pool. It's ridiculous. You simply can't win.