Same. Im 29, and undiagnosed Asperger´s. Im getting it diagnosed tho, but its hard in my country when youre an adult, because it gives you legal advantages.
Having no friends + virgin + autism nowadays means youre living a completely different experience from 99.999% of people you will ever know, incels and dead people included included. Its the coldest hell. I just feel like an alien. I have nothing in common with anyone. Nothing that the human race has created to help future generations really helps me in any way. Philosophy was and is being thought by people that understand humans, can have sex, has friends, etc. Psicology supposes NTness. Every religion treats you like a possible or actual married man with family and kids. Any western ethical system assumes that frienship and having a family and a community are to be desired because they have inherent value... because they can be obtained, or at least prosecuted. Any science is written by a collective anonymous author that promotes knowledge, curiosity, etc. My point is, we are facing a raw experience. We have no compass and no map of the aspie virgin experience, while NT average Joe has an entire civilization and 3000 years of written past experiences backing his journey.
Sorry for my bad and drunk english.