Nero liked effeminated males (and trannies), he had the gay, but still a good emperor.
"Sporus was a young boy whom the Roman Emperor
Nero supposedly favored, had
castrated, and married.
Nero's wife,
Poppaea Sabina, died in 65, supposedly in child birth (although it was later rumored Nero kicked her to death). In the beginning of 66, Nero married
Statilia Messalina. Later that year or in 67, he married Sporus, who was said to bear a remarkable resemblance to Poppaea.
[3]
Nero had Sporus
castrated,
[a] and during their marriage, Nero had Sporus appear in public as his wife wearing the regalia that was customary for Roman empresses. He then took Sporus to Greece and back to Rome, making
Calvia Crispinilla serve as "
mistress of the wardrobe" to Sporus,
epitropeia ten peri estheta.
[7] Nero had earlier married another freedman,
Pythagoras, who had played the role of Nero's husband; now Sporus played the role of Nero's wife. Among other forms of address, Sporus was termed "Lady", "Empress", and "Mistress".
[7] Suetonius quotes one Roman who lived around this time who remarked that the world would have been better off if Nero's father
Gnaeus Domitius Ahenobarbus had married someone more like the castrated boy.
[1]
Suetonius places his account of the Nero–Sporus relationship in his scandalous accounts of Nero's sexual aberrations, between his raping a
vestal virgin and committing
incest with his mother.
[3] Some think Nero used his marriage to Sporus to assuage the guilt he felt for kicking his pregnant wife
Poppaea to death.
[8] Dio Cassius, in a more detailed account, writes that Sporus bore an uncanny resemblance to Poppaea and that Nero called Sporus by her name"
He had a "wife", But at that time he could force any foid to submit to his command and order, so they simply had to obey the emperor, so he remains an incel.