Story my warm approach results. brutal never doing it again

[Travis Bickle]

i approached a few girls like 5-6 in warm approach after gymmaxxing.
One of the girls I approached was kind, and she treated me well as a person. She essentially put me in the "friend zone" and kept telling me that I should consider therapy and believe in God to find healing.


As for the other three girls I approached, I was looking for signs of interest—eye contact, body language, anything that might indicate they were open to hanging out. But when I asked if they wanted to meet up, they each made excuses. One said her mom was coming to visit, so she was busy. Another mentioned she was swamped with college assignments. The third said she needed personal time and couldn’t make space for me.


So, it was over for those three.


Then there were two girls I met at the library. I invited them to join me for a study session, but they sat far away from me. It worked for a week with one girl, but then her friend started tagging along. After that, the second girl changed her schedule, and I lost contact with her.


Now, here’s the most brutal experience: I saw a girl at the gym a few times, and eventually, I went up to her and complimented her, saying she was really good looking. She thanked me, and we exchanged a few words. One day, while she was at the cable machine doing chest flies, I asked if I was disturbing her because I wanted to ask something. With a straight face, she told me, “You’re already bothering me.”


It felt like I was a nuisance to her, like I wasn’t even human—just something to be swatted away. It hit me hard.


You know that video of the guy approaching women on a bike, and every woman ignores him, and he just rides away? That was exactly my experience, and it’s left me feeling really demotivated.

 

[Travis Bickle]

guys it is so over for me
women don't see me as human
i am done with this shit

i will never know how it feels to be loved by anyone

 

[TooSomething]

i approached a few girls like 5-6 in warm approach after gymmaxxing.
One of the girls I approached was kind, and she treated me well as a person. She essentially put me in the "friend zone" and kept telling me that I should consider therapy and believe in God to find healing.


As for the other three girls I approached, I was looking for signs of interest—eye contact, body language, anything that might indicate they were open to hanging out. But when I asked if they wanted to meet up, they each made excuses. One said her mom was coming to visit, so she was busy. Another mentioned she was swamped with college assignments. The third said she needed personal time and couldn’t make space for me.


So, it was over for those three.


Then there were two girls I met at the library. I invited them to join me for a study session, but they sat far away from me. It worked for a week with one girl, but then her friend started tagging along. After that, the second girl changed her schedule, and I lost contact with her.


Now, here’s the most brutal experience: I saw a girl at the gym a few times, and eventually, I went up to her and complimented her, saying she was really good looking. She thanked me, and we exchanged a few words. One day, while she was at the cable machine doing chest flies, I asked if I was disturbing her because I wanted to ask something. With a straight face, she told me, “You’re already bothering me.”


It felt like I was a nuisance to her, like I wasn’t even human—just something to be swatted away. It hit me hard.


You know that video of the guy approaching women on a bike, and every woman ignores him, and he just rides away? That was exactly my experience, and it’s left me feeling really demotivated.

Brocel, if you had been attractive to her, she would have reacted completely different.

Also, you have understood the three bitches' answer correctly.

If they make up excuses, it is literally that.

For Chad they would throw their future away, for a chance of that Chad cock.

After all, Chads are rare.

I have seen this way to many times at school. Got rejected by all girls I approached and then I saw the same girls with guys who clearly mogged me and I understood, instinctively. Nobody explained to me.

I would never stand a chance.

I am close to accepting it, I guess.

I now focus on other things. At 38 it is time to let go of it all. The only thing left to tame is sexual desire.

 

[GrandWizard_137]

0.1 seconds is all it takes to know if a girl likes you or not.

 

[nzth]

kept telling me that I should consider therapy and believe in God to find healing.

wtf is warm approach and what happend in the approach for her to tell you that lol

With a straight face, she told me, “You’re already bothering me.”

even if she was "feeling bothered" (depends on ur looks if she is bothered or comfortable) she could AT LEAST be less of a cunt about it

 

[twisted]

humiliation rituals, this is what happens when u take advice from soy idiots

 

[nzth]

guys it is so over for me
women don't see me as human
i am done with this shit

i will never know how it feels to be loved by anyone

you said you're in college so must be -25 i guess, i think it's to soon to say it's really over, maybe your face is improvable still and atlast you could careermaxx, even if you only get gold diggers is something

 

[twisted]

even if you only get gold diggers is something

bro do not advise betabuxxing lol its just the more expensive version of prostitution, but yeah ide agree that careermaxxing will benefit in the long run

 

[Travis Bickle]

wtf is warm approach and what happend in the approach for her to tell you that lol

even if she was "feeling bothered" (depends on ur looks if she is bothered or comfortable) she could AT LEAST be less of a cunt about it

warm approach means they knew i am regular at that place, so they are familiar with my face.
i asked her she doing cable flies that "am i disturbing you actually i wanted to ask something"
she replied "you are already bothering me"
i said "OK" and went away

 

[Travis Bickle]

you said you're in college so must be -25 i guess, i think it's to soon to say it's really over, maybe your face is improvable still and atlast you could careermaxx, even if you only get gold diggers is something

no i am done with college i am jobless will go to grad school but that time most people are already in relationship.
so over for me.

 

[Travis Bickle]

you said you're in college so must be -25 i guess, i think it's to soon to say it's really over, maybe your face is improvable still and atlast you could careermaxx, even if you only get gold diggers is something

i am in my prime physical and facial condition and this is the result i get.
havnt done any hardmaxxing and no plan for that much pain and low return i would rather fuck prostitutes

 

[Travis Bickle]

humiliation rituals, this is what happens when u take advice from soy idiots

r/seduction is full of cope pls don't read that
48 laws of power and all the bs of GAME JFL

 

[nzth]

warm approach means they knew i am regular at that place, so they are familiar with my face.
i asked her she doing cable flies that "am i disturbing you actually i wanted to ask something"
she replied "you are already bothering me"
i said "OK" and went away

warm or cold both seem like a waste of time, and i meant what happend in the first approach, the one that:

She essentially put me in the "friend zone" and kept telling me that I should consider therapy and believe in God to find healing.

 

[Travis Bickle]

Brocel, if you had been attractive to her, she would have reacted completely different.

Also, you have understood the three bitches' answer correctly.

If they make up excuses, it is literally that.

For Chad they would throw their future away, for a chance of that Chad cock.

After all, Chads are rare.

I have seen this way to many times at school. Got rejected by all girls I approached and then I saw the same girls with guys who clearly mogged me and I understood, instinctively. Nobody explained to me.

I would never stand a chance.

I am close to accepting it, I guess.

I now focus on other things. At 38 it is time to let go of it all. The only thing left to tame is sexual desire.

i will surely use any drug that eliminates the desire to wanting to be with a women.
i am really done with all of this

 

[Travis Bickle]

warm or cold both seem like a waste of time, and i meant what happend in the first approach, the one that:

she said she can be my friend only and she is nice as human she don't see me being her boyfriend she says i should believe in GOD and trust myself and self improve JFL
typical BS
she don't care about me honestly and gives me bluepill takes.
i said i love her and i want to marry her then she said she only can see me as a friend
she was only human who treated me nicely and i fell in love with her idea inside my head.
anyways she is not my friend anymore she blocked me after i said her i love you many times.
i am so alone i feel like blackhole

 

[nzth]

no i am done with college i am jobless will go to grad school but that time most people are already in relationship.
so over for me.

i am in my prime physical and facial condition and this is the result i get.
havnt done any hardmaxxing and no plan for that much pain and low return i would rather fuck prostitutes

well with this information on the table it does look like it's over, idk what to say, shit's tragic, i hope i am fixable

i will surely use any drug that eliminates the desire to wanting to be with a women.
i am really done with all of this

i feel like it's the desire to love and love back what makes it so lonely, not the desire to fuck

 

[UndergroundHuman]

warm approach means they knew i am regular at that place, so they are familiar with my face.
i asked her she doing cable flies that "am i disturbing you actually i wanted to ask something"
she replied "you are already bothering me"
i said "OK" and went away

it's not a "warm approach", mate, u just asking out girls, who seen you 3 times.
You have to be acquainted (via friends, family or ed. institutions, for example), then it counts as a warn approach.
Although, doesn't matter since we are sub5s

 

[Travis Bickle]

it's not a "warm approach", mate, u just asking out girls, who seen you 3 times.
You have to be acquainted (via friends, family or ed. institutions, for example), then it counts as a warn approach.
Although, doesn't matter since we are sub5s

can chad bother you ?
no way
i am traumatised by her response,
am i so ugly she said i am bothering her when i was trying to initiate convo.
brutal

 

[nzth]

she said she can be my friend only and she is nice as human she don't see me being her boyfriend she says i should believe in GOD and trust myself and self improve JFL
typical BS
she don't care about me honestly and gives me bluepill takes.
i said i love her and i want to marry her then she said she only can see me as a friend
she was only human who treated me nicely and i fell in love with her idea inside my head.
anyways she is not my friend anymore she blocked me after i said her i love you many times.
i am so alone i feel like blackhole

i could tell you that you maybe went to fast, but to be honest she would have considered it or AT LEAST "take it slow" if you were HTN+

i know how it feels, being so dry from love and affection that even someone being a nice human being feels like love, obsessing and idealizing someone, thinking about everything that could happen making you so happy and hopeful, just for reality to hit and have it all shattered, getting even lower than before.

 

[UndergroundHuman]

can chad bother you ?
no way
i am traumatised by her response,
am i so ugly she said i am bothering her when i was trying to initiate convo.
brutal

at least you tried, man, it's better than jumping to conclusion with no experience of trying

 

[Travis Bickle]

well with this information on the table it does look like it's over, idk what to say, shit's tragic, i hope i am fixable


i feel like it's the desire to love and love back what makes it so lonely, not the desire to fuck

look my account june 2023
very less post
i did all the self-improvement
got jacked
completed college
read countless books
articles.
meditation
very clean diet
6x a week gym
every single thing
yet this is the result i am so dead.
i will send you link of my post i made few months ago documenting myself improvement journey.

 

[nzth]

it's not a "warm approach", mate, u just asking out girls, who seen you 3 times.
You have to be acquainted (via friends, family or ed. institutions, for example), then it counts as a warn approach.
Although, doesn't matter since we are sub5s

nothing matters as a sub5, you could save a foid who was about to get raped and she won't even be grateful, fuck this world

 

[nzth]

look my account june 2023
very less post
i did all the self-improvement
got jacked
completed college
read countless books
articles.
meditation
very clean diet
6x a week gym
every single thing
yet this is the result i am so dead.
i will send you link of my post i made few months ago documenting myself improvement journey.

damn, i am SCARED of this, doing EVERYTHING right, being in shape and even jacked(i am fat rn), having my degree, getting smarter, "controlling myself" "dopamine detox" and all that for it to still not be enough.

i would seriously consider rope or rape, but i could not cope with that, maybe i am a "volcel" or whatever the fuck it is called when you are an incel and don't improve yourself.

i will be waiting your link

 

[justuseless]

If you have the confidence to approach women in this day and age you're a fakecel

 

[Izayacel]

 

[City Incel]

I haven't talked to a girl in years.

 

[Wolnir]

If you have the confidence to approach women in this day and age you're a fakecel

It's a fakecel trait to never interact with any foids ever lmao. How do you know that foids hate you if you don't even talk to them? I don't have a problem approaching foids, they just always end up ghosting me because I'm ugly.

 

[justuseless]

It's a fakecel trait to never interact with any foids ever lmao. How do you know that foids hate you if you don't even talk to them? I don't have a problem approaching foids, they just always end up ghosting me because I'm ugly.

They called me ugly throughout my life so why would i interact with them

Since you weren't called ugly by society it means you're a fakecel

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

I'm glad you learned your lesson.

 

[DutchCel01]

0.1 seconds is all it takes to know if a girl likes you or not.

1 look is all it takes from them.

 

[TheJester]

Brocel, if you had been attractive to her, she would have reacted completely different.

Also, you have understood the three bitches' answer correctly.

If they make up excuses, it is literally that.

For Chad they would throw their future away, for a chance of that Chad cock.

After all, Chads are rare.

I have seen this way to many times at school. Got rejected by all girls I approached and then I saw the same girls with guys who clearly mogged me and I understood, instinctively. Nobody explained to me.

I would never stand a chance.

I am close to accepting it, I guess.

I now focus on other things. At 38 it is time to let go of it all. The only thing left to tame is sexual desire.

Exactly

 

[Travis Bickle]

damn, i am SCARED of this, doing EVERYTHING right, being in shape and even jacked(i am fat rn), having my degree, getting smarter, "controlling myself" "dopamine detox" and all that for it to still not be enough.

i would seriously consider rope or rape, but i could not cope with that, maybe i am a "volcel" or whatever the fuck it is called when you are an incel and don't improve yourself.

i will be waiting your link

sorry for late reply i had to turn off my pc.
anyways i did everything right and still failed.
if you want to read pls do read this excellent post on self-improvement.


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fgh0gs/the_expectation_for_men_to_be_completely/


Your approach is too dependent on the outcome. If your opponent’s gun jams and you win, that isn’t a victory you can truly claim it’s just luck. A process that relies on fortune is fragile. Instead of celebrating the result, focus on refining your method so that success is inevitable, not accidental. A robust strategy ensures that even if chance turns against you, you still prevail.

i've read many fiction nonfiction i am so tired from this self-improvement in the end it is just about you and no one else will notice it unless they knew you before and you are loud about it

 

[Travis Bickle]

damn, i am SCARED of this, doing EVERYTHING right, being in shape and even jacked(i am fat rn), having my degree, getting smarter, "controlling myself" "dopamine detox" and all that for it to still not be enough.

i would seriously consider rope or rape, but i could not cope with that, maybe i am a "volcel" or whatever the fuck it is called when you are an incel and don't improve yourself.

i will be waiting your link

sorry for late reply i had to turn off my pc.
anyways i did everything right and still failed.
if you want to read pls do read this excellent post on self-improvement.


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fgh0gs/the_expectation_for_men_to_be_completely/


Your approach is too dependent on the outcome. If your opponent’s gun jams and you win, that isn’t a victory you can truly claim it’s just luck. A process that relies on fortune is fragile. Instead of celebrating the result, focus on refining your method so that success is inevitable, not accidental. A robust strategy ensures that even if chance turns against you, you still prevail.

i've read many fiction nonfiction i am so tired from this self-improvement in the end it is just about you and no one else will notice it unless they knew you before and you are loud about it

 

[Travis Bickle]

damn, i am SCARED of this, doing EVERYTHING right, being in shape and even jacked(i am fat rn), having my degree, getting smarter, "controlling myself" "dopamine detox" and all that for it to still not be enough.

i would seriously consider rope or rape, but i could not cope with that, maybe i am a "volcel" or whatever the fuck it is called when you are an incel and don't improve yourself.

i will be waiting your link

back on .is after following redpill self-improvement. still khhv at 23.

i left .is before 2024 start and told me i will do whatever it takes to get gf this year. so, i am sharing my story of what happened to me this whole year and i resisted my urge to join back .is as rotting here is so addictive. I can now bench 90 kg at a body weight of 71 kg. I plan to start...

incels.is

 

[Travis Bickle]

If you have the confidence to approach women in this day and age you're a fakecel

i had to convince myself this or i am dying after this.
fear of death extinction of genes will make you do anything.

 

[lechad]

What race are you?

 

[Grodd]

kept telling me that I should consider therapy and believe in God to find healing.

 

[Wolnir]

They called me ugly throughout my life so why would i interact with them

Since you weren't called ugly by society it means you're a fakecel

I got bullied for my looks throughout my entire childhood. Adult foids won't call you ugly to your face, they will show it through their actions.

 

[justuseless]

I got bullied for my looks throughout my entire childhood. Adult foids won't call you ugly to your face, they will show it through their actions.

Ive been called ugly into adulthood and get startled looks all the time

You must be low IQ/sentience to think your looks changed and you suddenly have a chance

 

[nzth]

sorry for late reply i had to turn off my pc.
anyways i did everything right and still failed.
if you want to read pls do read this excellent post on self-improvement.


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fgh0gs/the_expectation_for_men_to_be_completely/


Your approach is too dependent on the outcome. If your opponent’s gun jams and you win, that isn’t a victory you can truly claim it’s just luck. A process that relies on fortune is fragile. Instead of celebrating the result, focus on refining your method so that success is inevitable, not accidental. A robust strategy ensures that even if chance turns against you, you still prevail.

i've read many fiction nonfiction i am so tired from this self-improvement in the end it is just about you and no one else will notice it unless they knew you before and you are loud about it

I never saw it this way to be honest, it really is toxic to tell men we need to be on the peak of our lives, do everything right and shit to even have a chance at dating, while i agree it does help a lot, looks are everything. "Dont chase butterflies, build a beautiful garden and they will come"
what if the garden is beautiful, but they never come, and you are left with a garden, and the knowledge that neither chasing or building will give you the butterflies, and i have to accept it, to cope with it.

back on .is after following redpill self-improvement. still khhv at 23.

i left .is before 2024 start and told me i will do whatever it takes to get gf this year. so, i am sharing my story of what happened to me this whole year and i resisted my urge to join back .is as rotting here is so addictive. I can now bench 90 kg at a body weight of 71 kg. I plan to start...

incels.is

as of this, just makes it more clear, we are incels and it says it on the name Involuntary Celibates, some do everything to try and fix themselves for a chance getting a gf, some just give up, but i think we all would rather not be incels, live a normal life, not super happy and jolly all the time, but at least not miserable.

 

[Arkansasmentalcel]

Brutal

 

[Travis Bickle]

What race are you?

india.
all of it was in india and indian girls only.

 

[Travis Bickle]

idk they just keep therapists in business.
sweet talking won't get me any pussy i don't have any mental issue.

 

[Travis Bickle]

I got bullied for my looks throughout my entire childhood. Adult foids won't call you ugly to your face, they will show it through their actions.

yup
i don't want anything except sex but they only give it to chads and most are lebians in 2025.

 

[Travis Bickle]

Ive been called ugly into adulthood and get startled looks all the time

You must be low IQ/sentience to think your looks changed and you suddenly have a chance

hahahaha
i thought my old friend once told me i look huge in tshirt was sign i improved myself.
JFL at me lol
kept consuming menosphere self-improvement.
nothing matters,

 

[TheGrayWolf]

guys it is so over for me
women don't see me as human
i am done with this shit

i will never know how it feels to be loved by anyone

What is warm approach

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

nigga you ain't helping yourself if the first sentence that comes out your mouth is "hey do you wanna meet up"

 

[SlayerSlayer]

I hope you feel like a fucking loser for even trying, because that's what you are ultimately YOU FAILED TO SCORE

 

[City Incel]

Okay but what are your cold approach results like?

 

[Travis Bickle]

Okay but what are your cold approach results like?

straight reject most don't want to talk i asked a few foids "what is time i forgot my phone at home" to gauge the intertest level and most denied me thinking i am some scammer who is trying to loot them JFL
brutal phenopill