Serious My parents say I have to go out more (my dad is 6'3", was a chad)

[TheGrayWolf]

My mom today said "I know it's horrible for you but it's also horrible for me as a mother that you as a young person always stays at home, in his room." My dad says something similar, except he doesn't feel sorry for me.

(I'm 28 but it was never different) and it upsets her very much. Also my dad tells me to "go outside, it's not healthy to always be at home."

It's not their "fault" I look like this (or is it? My parents were both great-looking when they had me, a mysterious mutation and disabilities, started to occur during puberty making me a 1 - but my dad is 6'3 and a chad and says this stuff

[My strange looks are according to my doctors, maybe due to a gene only carried by my dad but not showing in his phenotype, that was "released" just before my puberty started at 11]

But it's not fair, I would go outside if people/strangers didn't treat me like crap.

Soon, from October or November onward, I will have to go outside much more as I need a job then.

 

[KillNiggers]

Sounds like your dad needs his legs chopped off and face burned in acid and then be told to go outside more because it's unhealthy.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Sounds like your dad needs his legs chopped off and face burned in acid and then be told to go outside more because it's unhealthy.

He’s an absolute asshole who seems to enjoy putting me in uncomfortable situations, like I’m some small kid who needs to learn how to behave.

I rarely see him nowadays but when I do, and this was always the case, when entering some store or establishment he always forces me to step in first, so I can’t “hide”. Or (while nowadays we never go to restaurants anymore) he always made me order my own food even if he knew what I wanted and when I didn’t explain my order enough he chastised me like a kid (this happened until age

 

[LastGerman]

My mom today said "I know it's horrible for you but it's also horrible for me as a mother that you as a young person always stays at home, in his room." My dad says something similar, except he doesn't feel sorry for me.

(I'm 28 but it was never different) and it upsets her very much. Also my dad tells me to "go outside, it's not healthy to always be at home."

It's not their "fault" I look like this (or is it? My parents were both great-looking when they had me, a mysterious mutation and disabilities, started to occur during puberty making me a 1 - but my dad is 6'3 and a chad and says this stuff

[My strange looks are according to my doctors, maybe due to a gene only carried by my dad but not showing in his phenotype, that was "released" just before my puberty started at 11]

But it's not fair, I would go outside if people/strangers didn't treat me like crap.

Soon, from October or November onward, I will have to go outside much more as I need a job then.

It is like this generation of men have been destroyed. What did your mother eat during pregnancy? What do you eat while growing up? I just want to know.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

It is like this generation of men have been destroyed. What did your mother eat during pregnancy? What do you eat while growing up? I just want to know.

Both me and her, before/ during pregnancy ate lots of vegetables but also fish and red meat, she didn't smoke or drink. A "mistake" on the food-side has been ruled out; I was a beautiful child until age 9 or 10. Then a gene mutation caused my face and head to be deformed (I'm not a "deformed/asymmetric chad", but ugly/deformed, I have the skull or face of a 1/10. The doctors guess (implied in the medical reports) it is the result of a gene defect from my dad (he is only carrier, doesn't have it himself, but I "geerbt" it).

 

[TheGrayWolf]

It is like this generation of men have been destroyed. What did your mother eat during pregnancy? What do you eat while growing up? I just want to know.

This is often the case in other "bad cases", I know. But not with me.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Why should you go out when you're just being bullied or at least stared at? I hate this bullshit from normies. Yes, just sitting in your apartment makes you sick, too, but at least nobody bullies me here, and no Kanake stabs me or beats me to death. I don't like the filthy heat and bright sun either. If I do go out, it's better later in the evening.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Sounds like your dad needs his legs chopped off and face burned in acid and then be told to go outside more because it's unhealthy.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Why should you go out when you're just being bullied or at least stared at? I hate this bullshit from normies. Yes, just sitting in your apartment makes you sick, too, but at least nobody bullies me here, and no Kanake stabs me or beats me to death. I don't like the filthy heat and bright sun either. If I do go out, it's better later in the evening.

I have no idea why he tells me this, he never had to deal with this shit, he's white with brown hair and brown eyes, my mom is blonde and green-blue eyes, of course I got his genes (he also "vererbt" me a health condition he was only carrier of but not impacted looks-wise).

He’s an absolute asshole who seems to enjoy putting me in uncomfortable situations, like I’m some small kid who needs to learn how to behave. I rarely see him nowadays but when I do, and this was always the case, he always treats me like a 5 year old, when entering some store or establishment he always forces me to step in first, so I can’t “hide”.
Or telling my mom on the phone I "behaved well" in the restaurant like I'm some retard/kid.

 

[Reverie]

Put on Sam Hyde and see their reaction

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

have no idea why he tells me this, he never had to deal with this shit

I think he wants to bully you. Or he's so stupid that he thinks so-called exposure therapy will help you. That it will toughen you up. But that shit can also backfire badly.
These guys don't know what it feels like to be bullied, etc. Maybe he means well, but he's just making things worse because he lacks empathy and understanding.

He’s an absolute asshole who seems to enjoy putting me in uncomfortable situations, like I’m some small kid who needs to learn how to behave. I rarely see him nowadays but when I do, and this was always the case, he always treats me like a 5 year old, when entering some store or establishment he always forces me to step in first, so I can’t “hide”.
Or telling my mom on the phone I "behaved well" in the restaurant like I'm some retard/kid.

Yes, that sounds more like a bully to me.
That guy is definitely crazy himself and wants to take out his frustration on you. I can also imagine that you're a disappointment to this Chad (even though it's not your fault) and that he's been imagining something else. How great his son will be, etc. Just the kind of successful prettyboy he is.

 

[InMemoriam]

do you genuinely enjoy the outside regardless of the assholeish treatment you receive?

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I think he wants to bully you. Or he's so stupid that he thinks so-called exposure therapy will help you. That it will toughen you up. But that shit can also backfire badly.
These guys don't know what it feels like to be bullied, etc. Maybe he means well, but he's just making things worse because he lacks empathy and understanding.


Yes, that sounds more like a bully to me.
That guy is definitely crazy himself and wants to take out his frustration on you. I can also imagine that you're a disappointment to this Chad (even though it's not your fault) and that he's been imagining something else. How great his son will be, etc. Just the kind of successful prettyboy he is.

very well said

 

[TheGrayWolf]

do you genuinely enjoy the outside regardless of the assholeish treatment you receive?

No, because over the past 16 years (I'm 28 now) this became part of going outside for me. I would enjoy it if I got normal treatment, and would enjoy it even more if I had a gf for some activities. But in reality, I don't enjoy it because this treatment upsets me -- either saddens me or angers me, depending on my tiredness and what the people are doing.

 

[InMemoriam]

No, because over the past 16 years (I'm 28 now) this became part of going outside for me. I would enjoy it if I got normal treatment, and would enjoy it even more if I had a gf for some activities. But in reality, I don't enjoy it because this treatment upsets me -- either saddens me or angers me, depending on my tiredness and what the people are doing.

would you enjoy it if you were to go to the woods or some other remote place and just be alone with nature?

 

[TheGrayWolf]

would you enjoy it if you were to go to the woods or some other remote place and just be alone with nature?

yeah, I sometime do that but it has become boring after a while always having to do it alone, I want a gf to do this stuff with. There is quite a lot of nature and woods around me -- some places it's a 99% guarantee I will see others even in rainy weather, in others it's about 40% (so 4/10 times I went to that place I saw at least one person) but never lower than that. My childhood dog and childhood cat also passed away a few months and 1.5 years ago, they were my biggest cope.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

very well said

That's just my opinion.
Ultimately, I can't read your father's mind. Don't forget that.

 

[Pancakecel]

Do your parents know about the shit you have to deal with when you go outside?

When your mom refers to it being "horrible" is that implying she understands what you have to deal with?

Maybe it's worth just once, explaining exactly why you hate going outside, even though it will be a unpleasant conversation.

I tried that with my family, unfortunately they just said the usual "it's all in your head" crap, but maybe it's worth doing just so they know exactly what you have to deal with, even if they may deny it.

If you describe examples of how others react to you, it will at least fester in their minds for a bit, and make them think. They may then get off your back about getting a job, going out more etc.

 

[Grodd]

Sounds like your dad needs his legs chopped off and face burned in acid and then be told to go outside more because it's unhealthy.

 

[Grodd]

Your parents are fucking cunts and are trying to bring even more pain onto you.

 

[Leon98]

Duuude just go outside like back in our day!

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Do your parents know about the shit you have to deal with when you go outside?

I think they know, especially my dad. But I suspect they're thinking "this can't be changed and he can't just stay inside all day, so he has to learn to deal with it." Something like that.

When your mom refers to it being "horrible" is that implying she understands what you have to deal with?

I think it’s both for her as in I have a son who does this and that makes me sad but also she knows what I have to deal with. She has implied this in the past. That she understands my life is hard in that way.

Maybe it's worth just once, explaining exactly why you hate going outside, even though it will be a unpleasant conversation.

I tried that with my family, unfortunately they just said the usual "it's all in your head" crap, but maybe it's worth doing just so they know exactly what you have to deal with, even if they may deny it.

Ty, I read what you said then tried this just now (last time was maybe about 2 years ago), my mom said I just have to ignore people if they stress me that much but she also added it's all in my head, if someone is laughing. She said almost all people “out there” are assholes anyway and I shouldn’t care what they think. I also told my dad who said something like, well that’s life, others are paraplegic.

If you describe examples of how others react to you, it will at least fester in their minds for a bit, and make them think. They may then get off your back about getting a job, going out more etc.

Yup, thank you, I explained that. I think my mom would be more forgiving but my dad isn’t. And mind you I’m 28 but in many ways I’m 16-17. Not talking only about inexperience but behaviour, that I can’t look after myself etc.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Your parents are fucking cunts and are trying to bring even more pain onto you.

Yes and ironically my dad was carrier of this disorder/condition, so not affected. He was a chad and is 6’3” tall. Were it not for him, I’d likely be 6’1” instead of 5’4. I’d be a chadlite minimum (not just more symmetric but a completely different head and face, like a completely different person).

It’s like a coin was flipped. The good side would have brought me billions of $$$ (metaphor for having had and having attractive girlfriends) but now I’m homeless (KHHV at 28). This is not just me making a claim, this is literally implied in my medical reports and my 10+ year long research.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

That's just my opinion.
Ultimately, I can't read your father's mind. Don't forget that.

Yeah.
Come to think of it I translated it wrong. He told my mom „er hat’s gut gemacht.” My mom got irritated at that, and when she told me I felt anger. You’d tell that to a small kid, what hab ich gut gemacht? Probably saying „thank you” ?!!? See that’s how he sees me, like a retard!

 

[kay']

My mom today said "I know it's horrible for you but it's also horrible for me as a mother that you as a young person always stays at home, in his room." My dad says something similar, except he doesn't feel sorry for me.

(I'm 28 but it was never different) and it upsets her very much. Also my dad tells me to "go outside, it's not healthy to always be at home."

It's not their "fault" I look like this (or is it? My parents were both great-looking when they had me, a mysterious mutation and disabilities, started to occur during puberty making me a 1 - but my dad is 6'3 and a chad and says this stuff

[My strange looks are according to my doctors, maybe due to a gene only carried by my dad but not showing in his phenotype, that was "released" just before my puberty started at 11]

But it's not fair, I would go outside if people/strangers didn't treat me like crap.

Soon, from October or November onward, I will have to go outside much more as I need a job then.

why did this gene also ruin your height

 

[TheGrayWolf]

why did this gene also ruin your height

paediatricians up until I was around 12 said I'll be about 6'1 tall maybe even 6'2 (1.85m).

It blocked growth hormones and "created" early puberty (early and fast growth spurt when I was 12).

It basically stopped growth hormones too early bc puberty started and ended so quickly. So quit growing way too early. My d*ck is 16cm but i bet it could've been longer. Also another main problem was that I could never easily absorb protein and vitamin D (this is partially the doctors' fault 15 years ago - my current doc said this). I did take protein but my body couldn't absorb it, and Vitamin D was never tested. At age 15 when I got my hands x-rayed for the first time, they said it's too late to take HGH now. Should've been done when I was 10, but nobody knew then I'd stop growing at 1.62m. Again, doctors were sure I'd be at least 1.80. These deficiencies are horrible predictors for height too.

I was a beautiful child aged about 0-3 and 7-11, then everything went downhill. From billionaire to convict sentenced innocently to life in prison.

I don't wanna disclose the gene as it gives absolutely zero hint as to what I look like. It's like saying I have white skin, brown hair and brown eyes (all of which I do).

 

[kay']

paediatricians up until I was around 12 said I'll be about 6'1 tall maybe even 6'2 (1.85m).

It blocked growth hormones and "created" early puberty (early and fast growth spurt when I was 12).

It basically stopped growth hormones too early bc puberty started and ended so quickly. So quit growing way too early. My d*ck is 16cm but i bet it could've been longer. Also another main problem was that I could never easily absorb protein and vitamin D (this is partially the doctors' fault 15 years ago - my current doc said this). I did take protein but my body couldn't absorb it, and Vitamin D was never tested. At age 15 when I got my hands x-rayed for the first time, they said it's too late to take HGH now. Should've been done when I was 10, but nobody knew then I'd stop growing at 1.62m. Again, doctors were sure I'd be at least 1.80. These deficiencies are horrible predictors for height too.

I was a beautiful child aged about 0-3 and 7-11, then everything went downhill. From billionaire to convict sentenced innocently to life in prison.

I don't wanna disclose the gene as it gives absolutely zero hint as to what I look like. It's like saying I have white skin, brown hair and brown eyes (all of which I do).

i hate drs so much you have no idea. You actually have no idea how much suffering i endured because of them.

Tragic shit brother, if your height didnt get nerfed too you wouldve had a good life.

Also your dick size is above average so not sure why you mentioned it. Dont worry about that on top of your problems.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

i hate drs so much you have no idea. You actually have no idea how much suffering i endured because of them.

I'm sorry to hear that man, you can say why if you want.

Tragic shit brother, if your height didnt get nerfed too you wouldve had a good life.

Yeah would definitely be better than now, I think my face, skull, and degree of facial asymmetry would be different too if all those things didn't happen. Or my "balloon head" wouldn't be so glaringly bad.
Or at least if I were taller I could feel better and be more desirable like you said, but then I'd still want a good face. I guess it's all about perspective.

Also your dick size is above average so not sure why you mentioned it. Dont worry about that on top of your problems.

Idk either tbh... I was just "thinking out loud". I actually should have said I have phimosis when erect, and in my case only surgery can solve it and that's shameful at my age. But that's another story and not at all a problem considering.

 

[Rapistcel]

My mom today said "I know it's horrible for you but it's also horrible for me as a mother that you as a young person always stays at home, in his room." My dad says something similar, except he doesn't feel sorry for me.

(I'm 28 but it was never different) and it upsets her very much. Also my dad tells me to "go outside, it's not healthy to always be at home."

It's not their "fault" I look like this (or is it? My parents were both great-looking when they had me, a mysterious mutation and disabilities, started to occur during puberty making me a 1 - but my dad is 6'3 and a chad and says this stuff

[My strange looks are according to my doctors, maybe due to a gene only carried by my dad but not showing in his phenotype, that was "released" just before my puberty started at 11]

But it's not fair, I would go outside if people/strangers didn't treat me like crap.

Soon, from October or November onward, I will have to go outside much more as I need a job then.

You shouldn't go out at all, there is nothing good you can get at being judged by everyone, you can't even be unnoticed in the street.

 

[kay']

I'm sorry to hear that man, you can say why if you want.

Very long story and ive repeated it many times im exhausted but basically they left me to die while mocking me and scamming me.

 

[Grodd]

Yes and ironically my dad was carrier of this disorder/condition, so not affected. He was a chad and is 6’3” tall. Were it not for him, I’d likely be 6’1” instead of 5’4. I’d be a chadlite minimum (not just more symmetric but a completely different head and face, like a completely different person).

It’s like a coin was flipped. The good side would have brought me billions of $$$ (metaphor for having had and having attractive girlfriends) but now I’m homeless (KHHV at 28). This is not just me making a claim, this is literally implied in my medical reports and my 10+ year long research.

Fucking beyond brutal bro

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Fucking beyond brutal bro

Thanks for understanding bro

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Yeah.
Come to think of it I translated it wrong. He told my mom „er hat’s gut gemacht.” My mom got irritated at that, and when she told me I felt anger. You’d tell that to a small kid, what hab ich gut gemacht? Probably saying „thank you” ?!!? See that’s how he sees me, like a retard!

Du musst auch bedenken, dass Du für Deinen Vater stets der Sohn, sein Kind bleibst.
Ich spreche einige 20 oder unter 20-jährige ja auch gern mal mit "Kid" oder "Kleiner" an. Das ist nicht unbedingt böse gemeint, das ist so ein Ding bei uns alten Säcken.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Du musst auch bedenken, dass Du für Deinen Vater stets der Sohn, sein Kind bleibst.
Ich spreche einige 20 oder unter 20-jährige ja auch gern mal mit "Kid" oder "Kleiner" an. Das ist nicht unbedingt böse gemeint, das ist so ein Ding bei uns alten Säcken.

Ok das stimmt

Ich bin 28, für mich ist das schon ziemlich alt, wenn man bedenkt, dass ich immer noch ein KHHV bin. Aber ich weiß, du bist ja sogar noch älter. Was mein Verhalten, meine Größe und Statur (1,62) angeht, bin ich auch zurückgeblieben.