My parents never asked me if I had a girlfriend or a female in general

[LastGerman]

I even read threads on here, that parents, grandparents or family members in general or people have asked that question. I also read it on the Virgin section of Reddit, on the ForeverAlone section. My parents never asked me if I had any girlfriend or female in general. Nobody back then in school asked me that question. I have never been hit on by any female. It is like I have always been treated as "asexual". In highschool, it was like I was not even there. As a matter of fact, if I have not been there, nothing would change. It is like I have been watching a movie all along. If I was just a little bit more better looking but even then, as soon as I would get down with a female, as soon as she sees my penis, it is over. She will most likely make fun of it and then leaves. She will also tell her friends about it. Whenever I think about it, the first thing I experience is humiliation. I am being embarrassed about it. Then I will get angry at it and then I am being embarrassed about it again. It is a loop. I will never fuck a female. I will never be naked around a female. While other better looking men and men with big penises are fucking them. They are able to do every position while I will most likely fail at all of them. Even if I had a better face, as soon as I would be naked around a female and she sees my penis, I would most likely start to cry. I am not even joking. It is like a bad dream.

@TooSomething @starystulejarz @Spooky_Heejin

 

[oddneg]

Brutal

 

[Arook]

I wouldn't ask you either

 

[JKlancecaster069]

My family members did until I reached high school which is when they stopped.

 

[LastGerman]

I wouldn't ask you either

I also never asked myself either. Truly over at this point.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

Probably they can guess, but nobody who knows me IRL knows that I am a virgin. I don't even try to hide it, I want everyone to know that I am a khhv incel because I'd like to see how normies would react. But at most they ask me if I have a girlfriend at the moment, and I answer "no".

 

[Diddy]

My parents also know it's over for me.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Same here, they probably don't feel the need to ask, cause they already know where I stand within the dating market due to my autistic introverted high inhib behavior

 

[j10009504]

you aren't missing anything. its embarrassing when they ask.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

That's relatable

It's as if I'm just a placeholder in life. No one ever asks me about relationships, and the idea of being desired by anyone feels like an impossible dream. It’s like they’ve just accepted that I'm not even worth acknowledging. It seems that no matter what I do or how I present myself, I just don’t exist in the eyes of women.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

My parents never asked me if I had any girlfriend or female in general.

Neither have mine. They don't really seem to care.

As a matter of fact, if I have not been there, nothing would change. It is like I have been watching a movie all along.

Feels like that too. I remember going through the yearbook and remembering a lot of the situations people were in and what the class mates were doing in the photo's, but I realized none of the photos had me in it. It was like I was an NPC in the background. Shit, I wasn't even in the final yearbook of my High School.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

If I was just a little bit more better looking but even then, as soon as I would get down with a female, as soon as she sees my penis, it is over. She will most likely make fun of it and then leaves.

This has happened to me before. I sent dick pics and got laughed at, screenshotted, and made fun of by all my old classmates since she sent it around to dozens of people.

Whenever I think about it, the first thing I experience is humiliation. I am being embarrassed about it. Then I will get angry at it and then I am being embarrassed about it again. It is a loop. I will never fuck a female. I will never be naked around a female. While other better looking men and men with big penises are fucking them. They are able to do every position while I will most likely fail at all of them

Yeah when I first tried to have sex with my doll and couldn't, I was so ashamed I couldn't even look at her for a couple days. No positions worked, not even doggy style. I can't cope with this shit anymore so I just consume too much chocolate and shit that makes me fat which also causes me to make my penis even smaller than it already is.

It's over for us small peniscels.

 

[LastGerman]

Probably they can guess, but nobody who knows me IRL knows that I am a virgin. I don't even try to hide it, I want everyone to know that I am a khhv incel because I'd like to see how normies would react. But at most they ask me if I have a girlfriend at the moment, and I answer "no".

My parents also know it's over for me.

Same here, they probably don't feel the need to ask, cause they already know where I stand within the dating market due to my autistic introverted high inhib behavior

They most likely already know but still. They are family, our parents and yet they did not even ask? It seems like they also do not even care.

you aren't missing anything. its embarrassing when they ask.

It is embarrassing either way.

That's relatable

It's as if I'm just a placeholder in life. No one ever asks me about relationships, and the idea of being desired by anyone feels like an impossible dream. It’s like they’ve just accepted that I'm not even worth acknowledging. It seems that no matter what I do or how I present myself, I just don’t exist in the eyes of women.

It must be nice to be desired by females. Imagine just a female hitting on you. We will never have that.

Neither have mine. They don't really seem to care.

Yes, it is like they did not seem to care. They did not care, that their son is not having a girlfriend and no female at all.

Feels like that too. I remember going through the yearbook and remembering a lot of the situations people were in and what the class mates were doing in the photo's, but I realized none of the photos had me in it. It was like I was an NPC in the background. Shit, I wasn't even in the final yearbook of my High School.

I remember a certain moment in highschool. I also made a thread about it. I am just posting it here. It is not too much to read but it just shows, how much out of touch I was with basically everything:

What is your "sex question" in school - Also question for other Germancels

@Friezacel @VersoffenerAssi @bimmercel Back then when I still was in school, we had english classes. We had some questionnaries where we had to fill out a profile with name, birthday and sex. Apparently, some people filled out the section asking for the sex with how many times they had sex in...

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This has happened to me before. I sent dick pics and got laughed at, screenshotted, and made fun of by all my old classmates since she sent it around to dozens of people.

That is brutal. They will always talk about it and they will make fun of you, if you are not big. I remember that one screenshot from another thread where a fiancee was talking to another female about another man's big penis while the husband was close but not visible to them at that moment. So, he was hearing everything until the other female noticed him and she gave his fiancee a signal to stop talking about it. He did not say anything but he wanted to. He just pretended he did not hear anything. He felt absolutely humiliated and angry. I also made a thread about it:

The penis pill is just too brutal

I was just reading another thread when I came across this: https://incels.is/threads/the-blackpill-is-true-and-it-ruins-the-chances-of-many-men-its-over.590428/ Not only does my looks become worse and worse over time, but I also do not even have a big penis. It is like my penis never...

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The original source is from @Lonelyus

It is the first quote, the screenshot. The story is at the bottom right with the black background.

By the way, I also remember back then in swimming class in elementary school. I was always afraid when we changed clothings in the locker room. Even back then and even before that, I was always self-aware of my penis size.

Yeah when I first tried to have sex with my doll and couldn't, I was so ashamed I couldn't even look at her for a couple days. No positions worked, not even doggy style. I can't cope with this shit anymore so I just consume too much chocolate and shit that makes me fat which also causes me to make my penis even smaller than it already is.

It's over for us small peniscels.

That sounds absolutely brutal and devastating. It seems like you need to have at least a 7 inch penis for positions to actually work. Men with big penises are able to reach females easily from really far away. When I saw this, the only thing I felt was defeat. I will never be able to do that, even if I was better looking.

I also think that I would most likely fail all positions. This is just how over it is. I would also most likely be unabe to have coitus with a doll. I do not even want to fap. I have not fapped in days. It is just destroying my mood. Whenever I fap or jsut look down, I reminded of it.

I actually had a dream where my penis was so big, it reached to my right shzoulder. It was last year, around September or Octrober, perhaps early November where I had this dream.

Not having a big penis just really destroys my mood. If I could at least have a big penis. Even if I have no female. Even if people here say that no female will ever see my penis anyways, the thing is, that I have to see it. I just want to look down and think to myself, that is a huge penis. I want to be a man and not a little boy.

By the way. Here are my threads when you want to read some story time:

Story about the 2 week school trip in elementary school

Something that happened in elementary school during a 14-days school trip - Germancels get in here

As I said, I would make a thread about it and quote you @TheJester I will also quote you @Darth Aries Perhaps you are interested in my story. This happened back in elementary school, to be more specific during the school trip. We were all pretty young back then, therefore innocent and also...

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And the story where I tried to join the local football club which is unrelated to what we are talking about

That one time I tried to join the local football club

Waiting for the other story :feelsdevil: I could not quote you, so I am doing it this way. Although this story is about something else. The next story will be about that other event that happened back then at the two weeks school trip. What a brutal story People who might want to read...

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When you have a story and make a thread about it, you can always quote me.

 

[DutchCel01]

The last time my mom asked me was when i was still a teenager

 

[TooSomething]

My parents never even talked to me about anything.
I was just supposed to function, be a good student and an obedient son.

When I got bad grades in some subjects I even got beaten by my father at times.
I was never good enough.

Hell, even if I got As and Bs, it wasn't enough because those Bs could have been As with just a bit more effort.

My worst grades were Ds btw, and always in the same stupid subjects. History, chemistry and geography.
I hated it. It was ultra boring to me, especially history.

My father always wanted me to at least get a C in subjects which did not interrest me.

Girlfriends? Friends? Hobbies? They never cared to ask.

They had done jack shit about me being bullied at school for ten years straight.

My father has done nothing to help me find my purpose in life.
At the age of late 14 to 15 I had to decide what I want to do with my life.

I already understood then and there that I wasn't like the other kids.

I was a loser. Later I understood that I was barely raised by my parents. I barely had the chance to mentally mature.
They barely passed on any wisdom, for example.

They never made me feel like I mattered by being my best friends, not just my parents.

Now, 38 years later, they are trying to fix everything.

I told them yesterday that at 38 it is a bit to late to fix your son and your neglect of him.

I have a serious problem with my car. It barely runs and K wanted them to lend me one kf theirs until I either get it fixed or fix it myself.

I only needed it for a week and I always pay for the usage and even fill the gastank to the brim before I givw it back.
My father said that there was no need for that. My car works, still.

Ok then.

So a couple of days ago the engine light turned on for a while.

Told them about it. All of a sudden they wanted to give me the car.

I told them to keep it.

I'd rather walk on foot to work or go by bicycle.
I will get another car soon anyway.

 

[Ellsworth]

When I started my current job there was this nice older lady, just a little younger than my parents. We are just co-workers but she asked me several times about dating and when I’m getting married and such. My parents never asked.

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

My family members did until I reached high school which is when they stopped.

 

[Ellsworth]

My parents never even talked to me about anything.
I was just supposed to function, be a good student and an obedient son.

When I got bad grades in some subjects I even got beaten by my father at times.
I was never good enough.

Hell, even if I got As and Bs, it wasn't enough because those Bs could have been As with just a bit more effort.

My worst grades were Ds btw, and always in the same stupid subjects. History, chemistry and geography.
I hated it. It was ultra boring to me, especially history.

My father always wanted me to at least get a C in subjects which did not interrest me.

Girlfriends? Friends? Hobbies? They never cared to ask.

They had done jack shit about me being bullied at school for ten years straight.

My father has done nothing to help me find my purpose in life.
At the age of late 14 to 15 I had to decide what I want to do with my life.

I already understood then and there that I wasn't like the other kids.

I was a loser. Later I understood that I was barely raised by my parents. I barely had the chance to mentally mature.
They barely passed on any wisdom, for example.

They never made me feel like I mattered by being my best friends, not just my parents.

Now, 38 years later, they are trying to fix everything.

I told them yesterday that at 38 it is a bit to late to fix your son and your neglect of him.

I have a serious problem with my car. It barely runs and K wanted them to lend me one kf theirs until I either get it fixed or fix it myself.

I only needed it for a week and I always pay for the usage and even fill the gastank to the brim before I givw it back.
My father said that there was no need for that. My car works, still.

Ok then.

So a couple of days ago the engine light turned on for a while.

Told them about it. All of a sudden they wanted to give me the car.

I told them to keep it.

I'd rather walk on foot to work or go by bicycle.
I will get another car soon anyway.

Lots of similarities with me. My parents taught me and my sibling very little. Not entirely their fault as they knew very little and way underachieved in many regards, especially financially. Then I was abused mentally and financially. I’m finally getting to where I should have been financially 20 years ago.

 

[justuseless]

Everyone around you knows it never began

 

[TooSomething]

Lots of similarities with me. My parents taught me and my sibling very little. Not entirely their fault as they knew very little and way underachieved in many regards, especially financially. Then I was abused mentally and financially. I’m finally getting to where I should have been financially 20 years ago.

That is where my parents differ from yours. They could have at least passed on valuable practical knowledge to me, but they didn't.

I too am financially nowhere near where I should be at my age and I probably won't until my late 40s' .

 

[LastGerman]

The last time my mom asked me was when i was still a teenager

I wish I was a teenager again.

My parents never even talked to me about anything.
I was just supposed to function, be a good student and an obedient son.

When I got bad grades in some subjects I even got beaten by my father at times.
I was never good enough.

Hell, even if I got As and Bs, it wasn't enough because those Bs could have been As with just a bit more effort.

My worst grades were Ds btw, and always in the same stupid subjects. History, chemistry and geography.
I hated it. It was ultra boring to me, especially history.

My father always wanted me to at least get a C in subjects which did not interrest me.

Girlfriends? Friends? Hobbies? They never cared to ask.

They had done jack shit about me being bullied at school for ten years straight.

My father has done nothing to help me find my purpose in life.
At the age of late 14 to 15 I had to decide what I want to do with my life.

I already understood then and there that I wasn't like the other kids.

I was a loser. Later I understood that I was barely raised by my parents. I barely had the chance to mentally mature.
They barely passed on any wisdom, for example.

They never made me feel like I mattered by being my best friends, not just my parents.

Now, 38 years later, they are trying to fix everything.

I told them yesterday that at 38 it is a bit to late to fix your son and your neglect of him.

I have a serious problem with my car. It barely runs and K wanted them to lend me one kf theirs until I either get it fixed or fix it myself.

I only needed it for a week and I always pay for the usage and even fill the gastank to the brim before I givw it back.
My father said that there was no need for that. My car works, still.

Ok then.

So a couple of days ago the engine light turned on for a while.

Told them about it. All of a sudden they wanted to give me the car.

I told them to keep it.

I'd rather walk on foot to work or go by bicycle.
I will get another car soon anyway.

That was a brutal text. Now at the age of 38, it is indeed way too late. But at least you have a car and are able to drive. I am so retarded, that I am unable to drive. My parents also never taught me. We only had one time on a parking lot at a supermarket on a Sunday. This was years ago but it was still too late at the age of 25.

 

[LastGerman]

When I started my current job there was this nice older lady, just a little younger than my parents. We are just co-workers but she asked me several times about dating and when I’m getting married and such. My parents never asked.

When even strangers ask you but not your aprents. She is also out of touch because if you would be able to get a female, you would have a female.

 

[TooSomething]

I wish I was a teenager again.



That was a brutal text. Now at the age of 38, it is indeed way too late. But at least you have a car and are able to drive. I am so retarded, that I am unable to drive. My parents also never taught me. We only had one time on a parking lot at a supermarket on a Sunday. This was years ago but it was still too late at the age of 25.

If I wasn't so ultraparanoid I'd have met up with you and taught you with my little beater (car).

I am about to buy another one anyway.

But the internet is an untrustworthy place, espeecially for incels... .

 

[BPJ]

sounds like my life story.

 

[iicc66]

I even read threads on here, that parents, grandparents or family members in general or people have asked that question. I also read it on the Virgin section of Reddit, on the ForeverAlone section. My parents never asked me if I had any girlfriend or female in general. Nobody back then in school asked me that question. I have never been hit on by any female. It is like I have always been treated as "asexual". In highschool, it was like I was not even there. As a matter of fact, if I have not been there, nothing would change. It is like I have been watching a movie all along. If I was just a little bit more better looking but even then, as soon as I would get down with a female, as soon as she sees my penis, it is over. She will most likely make fun of it and then leaves. She will also tell her friends about it. Whenever I think about it, the first thing I experience is humiliation. I am being embarrassed about it. Then I will get angry at it and then I am being embarrassed about it again. It is a loop. I will never fuck a female. I will never be naked around a female. While other better looking men and men with big penises are fucking them. They are able to do every position while I will most likely fail at all of them. Even if I had a better face, as soon as I would be naked around a female and she sees my penis, I would most likely start to cry. I am not even joking. It is like a bad dream.

@TooSomething @starystulejarz @Spooky_Heejin

Its not like being asked if you got a girlfriend is a good experience, feels like shit

 

[Ellsworth]

When even strangers ask you but not your aprents. She is also out of touch because if you would be able to get a female, you would have a female.

Yes she has no idea how hard it is for men today. She met her husband in high school so she doesn’t have much dating experience. She has a son my age, I don’t think he’s good looking but makes good money so he is betabuxxing his wife.

 

[The Judge]

Nobody even asks me anymore. They all know.