Hi guys, I have a strong suspicion that my mother wrote to the mother of a distant cousin of mine because she knows that I am alone, so the problem is not so much in this. The problem is that he (Cousin x) would never have written to me alone, also I have never given him my phone number and nevertheless he has never given me gifts/called me in the last 3/5 years and then suddenly he writes me a message on whatsapp? Seriously? In fact, later I wrote to him who gave him my number and he answered his mother. Now knowing my mother I strongly hypothesize that my mother because of my condition as a lonely Neet Incel wrote to her mother to try to create a bond, but I ask myself why the fuck do you have to push me to become friends with a cousin of mine who doesn't even know of my fucking existence? He is not the type of person who would write to me like that out of nowhere. What should I do in your opinion? I remain of the idea of continuing to be like this, I don't want to force having friends because of my mother. Then I can only imagine the messages from my mother to my cousin's mother like "hey my son is alone convince your son to create a bond" WHAT THE FUCK
