Toxic Femininity My mother is a control freak

[LonelyATM]

My mother just wont let me live my life i can't even leave the house if i dont put on the exact clothes she wants me to wear, she is really selfish about it too if i refuse she stars crying and stars a combo of emotional blackmail thats just unbearable, she says "i just want you to look good son! Please obey me its for your own good!" Nope. Its not for my good you only care about what our neighbors think, you are afraid the mockery thats directed to me will affect you.
I love my mom and thats the tragedy i can't leave her because she is the only ally i have but its degrading to forced to be an adult child.

 

[Moroccancel]

EXACTLY EXACTLY. MOTHERFOIDS WILL NEVER LOVE YOU LIKE NO FOID CAN LOVE. THEY JUST USE YOU AS A PET AND WILL ALWAYS CARE WHAT OTHERS MAY THINK OF HER AND YOU ARE JUST AN EXTENSION OF HER.

 

[NirvanaFan1988]

THEY JUST USE YOU AS A PET

 

[buried_alive]

I've seen you post other threads about parents. Looks like she's a narcissist. Here she's both controlling and infantilizing you.

You know you are being manipulated. Just don't cave.