I dont know what it is but heres the story:
My mom has this obnoxious landwhale "friend" who is a single mother and she has a son who I haven't seen in 10 years - thats because I live 120 km away from them AND even when I lived there I had no real contact to this guy.
My mother on the other hand was focused on that guy ever since he was like 9 years old.
It got way more confusing as my mom constantly talks with this guy while neither my father or me were there. My father has NO ideo who he is besides the landwhales son who lives basically "next door".
3 years ago when I gone to college still my mom basically knew this random kids whole ass life story and how he wanted to go to the army but his landwhale mom forbid it because the landwhale wants him to be a "mommy boy". The landwhale is helpless without her son and wants to have him live there all the time to also "take care of her". My mom is angry about this and tells my father and me how she is blocking his career path...once in 2022 were this kid was like 16 she raged a ton about "their living conditions" - which got my father and me VERY confused.
In 2023 when I moved out she told ME that he also wants to move out and go to his father who is a soldier of higher rank in the army - I was not surr who she talked about when once again she said that guys name.
Today my mother and father visited me like they do once a month and my mom was talking just now again about this random kids living condition, that at 19 he now completed Highschool and got a Apprentanceship "right of the bat" as a mechanic - one of the probably most average blue collar trades in germany for men.
I am not sure what to response because - like I said I have NO idea who that kid is, I have not seen him since he was in Elementary when I was already in like 8th or 9th grade.
I have no idea how he looks like, but my mom says he supposedly has no girlfriend. Which is confusing once more because my mom never really seemed to have given a shit about my relationshipexperience non-experience but somehow knows whether that guy is a 19 yo virgin or not?!
My mom also mocked me with how he started a trade at 19 while i spend my 19s working on and off shit jobs.
Surprisingly my mom compares this guy - who is a younger Gen Z (3 years short of being an alpha) always towards me, because he is the only real life Gen Z Male she has apparently any contract about besides ONE other guy at her job who is a hippy - who also seems to not really have any friends.
Regardless it is weird how often and extended she talks about his "kid" who neither me nor my father REALLY know.
I could visit them at their place next week and stumble upon a dozend random Gen Zs and I'd not be able to point out who this kid is.
Tho I do know his landwhale single mother. She works as a part time nurse for basically 25 years.
She is also a diabetic and still somehow has a new "boyfriend" every other day. (?)
I have probably told a lot of weird and brutal stories from my life here, but this one is just quite...bizarre.
I say so because for the past 10 (or more) years, my mom was more focused on this random Gen Z neighbor kid THEN HER OWN SON!
My mom has this obnoxious landwhale "friend" who is a single mother and she has a son who I haven't seen in 10 years - thats because I live 120 km away from them AND even when I lived there I had no real contact to this guy.
My mother on the other hand was focused on that guy ever since he was like 9 years old.
It got way more confusing as my mom constantly talks with this guy while neither my father or me were there. My father has NO ideo who he is besides the landwhales son who lives basically "next door".
3 years ago when I gone to college still my mom basically knew this random kids whole ass life story and how he wanted to go to the army but his landwhale mom forbid it because the landwhale wants him to be a "mommy boy". The landwhale is helpless without her son and wants to have him live there all the time to also "take care of her". My mom is angry about this and tells my father and me how she is blocking his career path...once in 2022 were this kid was like 16 she raged a ton about "their living conditions" - which got my father and me VERY confused.
In 2023 when I moved out she told ME that he also wants to move out and go to his father who is a soldier of higher rank in the army - I was not surr who she talked about when once again she said that guys name.
Today my mother and father visited me like they do once a month and my mom was talking just now again about this random kids living condition, that at 19 he now completed Highschool and got a Apprentanceship "right of the bat" as a mechanic - one of the probably most average blue collar trades in germany for men.
I am not sure what to response because - like I said I have NO idea who that kid is, I have not seen him since he was in Elementary when I was already in like 8th or 9th grade.
I have no idea how he looks like, but my mom says he supposedly has no girlfriend. Which is confusing once more because my mom never really seemed to have given a shit about my relationship
My mom also mocked me with how he started a trade at 19 while i spend my 19s working on and off shit jobs.
Surprisingly my mom compares this guy - who is a younger Gen Z (3 years short of being an alpha) always towards me, because he is the only real life Gen Z Male she has apparently any contract about besides ONE other guy at her job who is a hippy - who also seems to not really have any friends.
Regardless it is weird how often and extended she talks about his "kid" who neither me nor my father REALLY know.
I could visit them at their place next week and stumble upon a dozend random Gen Zs and I'd not be able to point out who this kid is.
Tho I do know his landwhale single mother. She works as a part time nurse for basically 25 years.
She is also a diabetic and still somehow has a new "boyfriend" every other day. (?)
I have probably told a lot of weird and brutal stories from my life here, but this one is just quite...bizarre.
I say so because for the past 10 (or more) years, my mom was more focused on this random Gen Z neighbor kid THEN HER OWN SON!
