My first ever post was a warning to teencels that were entering their 20s, now its time to make another post giving genuine tips to try to help brocels here to achieve some little peace, if any.
1-Learn to forgive yourself
I have mentioned this a lot of times, its NORMAL to have hope streaks that may make you do stupid things, these will stop happening after you age enough, don't get chained to them, you need to remember, this was never your fault, you simply had bad luck. Forgive yourself and try your best to reduce any self hatred you may have.
2-Love your copes
The incel life is all about coping, you NEED to find the things that truly make you feel happy even if for a moment, once you find em, latch into em like your life depends on it (spoiler: it does), NEVER feel ashamed of your copes, enjoy them.
3-HEALTH HEALTH HEALTH
Try your best to reduce bad habits like smoking or slop, one of the traits of inceldom is constant high stress aka high cortisol, you CAN'T AFFORD to get fucked up health as an incel trust me on this one, take care of your body not for others, but for yourself, because as an incel you will only have yourself and the more you age, the harder your body will retaliate against you if you didn't took care of it before.
4-Do your best to find a truecel friend IRL
Very hard to do and mostly luck, but this makes a WORLD of difference, make sure to find a real truecel to ensure he doesn't ascend because then he gonna do a 180 on you (to many stories in other places confirm this), having a legit truecel friend irl to hang out and talk shit with gives you a lot of relief mentally.
5-Be yourself (JFL)
Very important one for non NT folks here like me, the famous "just b urself brah" can be applied in other terms, the reality is YOU CAN'T become normal, you can't be a normie, you can put masks (that normies will find out about anyways), so again don't self flagellate, learn to enjoy who you are and stop trying to be what you cannot be, if your brain is not normal, YOU CAN'T BE NORMAL.
6-Bad days are normal
Even with all those tips and copemaxxed i still have bad days where i get sad or mad at the world, this is normal, but you need to learn to let go, normies LOVE to see us suffer, try your best to just endure those days and protect your safe space, a part of the agepill is slowly getting numb to our realities.
7-Forgive your enemies but never forget their names
If you get older, NEVER betabux, NEVER forget how normies and women treated you when you were younger, do not believe in unicorns, simply enjoy your copes.
8-Nothing wrong with bitching out when it comes to dating
I'm not saying you need to bitch out on everything in life, BUT i will say that you NEED to just bitch out when it comes to trying to get a date/girlfriend/partner, simply be real, that is not gonna happen to us, even if it happened you really think that would work?, if you're on this forum and reading this you know how it is nowadays, we would get cheated on or something worse, bitching out on dating as an incel is completely rational.
I hope you fellow brocels get a bit more peace this 2025, like oreoman says "sometimes in life u just gotta bitch out yknow"
Cheers brocels, we're not gonna make it when it comes to being a normal human, but we can make it on other things to make our existences better or at least more tolerable.
1-Learn to forgive yourself
I have mentioned this a lot of times, its NORMAL to have hope streaks that may make you do stupid things, these will stop happening after you age enough, don't get chained to them, you need to remember, this was never your fault, you simply had bad luck. Forgive yourself and try your best to reduce any self hatred you may have.
2-Love your copes
The incel life is all about coping, you NEED to find the things that truly make you feel happy even if for a moment, once you find em, latch into em like your life depends on it (spoiler: it does), NEVER feel ashamed of your copes, enjoy them.
3-HEALTH HEALTH HEALTH
Try your best to reduce bad habits like smoking or slop, one of the traits of inceldom is constant high stress aka high cortisol, you CAN'T AFFORD to get fucked up health as an incel trust me on this one, take care of your body not for others, but for yourself, because as an incel you will only have yourself and the more you age, the harder your body will retaliate against you if you didn't took care of it before.
4-Do your best to find a truecel friend IRL
Very hard to do and mostly luck, but this makes a WORLD of difference, make sure to find a real truecel to ensure he doesn't ascend because then he gonna do a 180 on you (to many stories in other places confirm this), having a legit truecel friend irl to hang out and talk shit with gives you a lot of relief mentally.
5-Be yourself (JFL)
Very important one for non NT folks here like me, the famous "just b urself brah" can be applied in other terms, the reality is YOU CAN'T become normal, you can't be a normie, you can put masks (that normies will find out about anyways), so again don't self flagellate, learn to enjoy who you are and stop trying to be what you cannot be, if your brain is not normal, YOU CAN'T BE NORMAL.
6-Bad days are normal
Even with all those tips and copemaxxed i still have bad days where i get sad or mad at the world, this is normal, but you need to learn to let go, normies LOVE to see us suffer, try your best to just endure those days and protect your safe space, a part of the agepill is slowly getting numb to our realities.
7-Forgive your enemies but never forget their names
If you get older, NEVER betabux, NEVER forget how normies and women treated you when you were younger, do not believe in unicorns, simply enjoy your copes.
8-Nothing wrong with bitching out when it comes to dating
I'm not saying you need to bitch out on everything in life, BUT i will say that you NEED to just bitch out when it comes to trying to get a date/girlfriend/partner, simply be real, that is not gonna happen to us, even if it happened you really think that would work?, if you're on this forum and reading this you know how it is nowadays, we would get cheated on or something worse, bitching out on dating as an incel is completely rational.
I hope you fellow brocels get a bit more peace this 2025, like oreoman says "sometimes in life u just gotta bitch out yknow"
Cheers brocels, we're not gonna make it when it comes to being a normal human, but we can make it on other things to make our existences better or at least more tolerable.
