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I will be blogging here:
https://walter-simon.blogspot.com/

I will also post occasional updates in this thread.

I see that if you read my life story you may say I am mentalcel but I think that is not quite accurate. I am a combination of mentalcel and incel.

Anyway thank you for taking a look at it. I have to say I am really starting to like incels.is more and more. Serge is a good guy doing a good job with this site. Let us all fight for a better future. More and more people are starting to understand our position.
 
Good luck.

Most of your goals are achievable for sure.
 
Nice introduction.
 
"Note that I am skeptical of PUA as it seems to be manipulative in a way. Still I will read their books simply to see how they are operating "

AVOID PUA TECHNICS
AVOID IT LIKE AN ARROW WHO IS PULLED FROM ITS QUIVER AND NEVER COMES BACK
PUA IS BASED IN NOTHING BUT MISERY
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN, GO TALK TO THEM.
 
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I’ll take a look at it later bro.

Walter is a truecel name btw.
 
Good luck. Looking forward to it. Kinda have planned something along the same line, but I have a ton of mental and physical health problems to fix as well.

Did you try foreskin stretching already? Pull the skin gently towards your root until it starts to hurt around the hole and then hold for a bit. Repeat every daily until your happy with the result.
 
Ill try to follow
 
AVOID PUA TECHNICS

I know. I will. I will just look into it to find out what the underlying thought is. I.e. if a PUA recommends to "push and pull" it is a retarded strategy but it still tells us something about human nature (that we are afraid of losing somebody) and understanding human nature is a valuable thing.
 
Good luck. Looking forward to it. Kinda have planned something along the same line, but I have a ton of mental and physical health problems to fix as well.

Did you try foreskin stretching already? Pull the skin gently towards your root until it starts to hurt around the hole and then hold for a bit. Repeat every daily until your happy with the result.

Yeah tried that but it is just way too bad. I will probably be looking into stretching rings or something like that. If people manage to stretch 3 cm holes into their ears I should be able to stretch the foreskin this way. If all else fails I will probably go for circumcision but it is a last resort.
 
Good luck! Stretch that stretchy foreskin til it can hold a couple of hershey kisses in there.

What are your standards for a female companion? Will you accept a beta-bucks situation?

Well if I spend a full year losing weight which will be very hard and working out then I will not accept a woman who does not invest at least some effort into herself.
I don't care about age too much (I think women my age are also more likely to be mentally mature which is very valuable) so if she is about my age that will be fine.

And I expect her to be able to take care of herself. Afterall that is what I am expected to bring to the table, too so it's only fair. If I can not live a NEET lifestyle then neither can she. I think wanting from a woman the same that they want from you is reasonable. So no betabuxing.

She doesn't necessarily need to be on par education wise. Nor does she need to be rich or a model. She must just meet her own standards.
Just Go ER boyo

Sorry, I won't :feelshaha:
 
Good luck brother
 
I like it. Good luck on, OP.
 
Good luck OP, If you ever need words of encouragement feel free to contact me, I'm also working in improving my body.
 
I wanted to comment on one point in noticed in your blog:

I will read a lot of literature and watch videos on how to communicate with women and where to meet them. Note that I am skeptical of PUA as it seems to be manipulative in a way. Still I will read their books simply to see how they are operating.

My advice would be to not become too bogged down in literature/videos/theory. The only way you can improve talking to women and gaining valuable reference experience is through action, not words. It's easy to read words on a computer screen or watch videos of other people approaching. It's not so easy to go out onto the street and do it yourself.

You're better off just going out and getting started as soon as possible.

Good luck, and let us know how you get on.
 
I wanted to comment on one point in noticed in your blog:

I will read a lot of literature and watch videos on how to communicate with women and where to meet them. Note that I am skeptical of PUA as it seems to be manipulative in a way. Still I will read their books simply to see how they are operating.

My advice would be to not become too bogged down in literature/videos/theory. The only way you can improve talking to women and gaining valuable reference experience is through action, not words. It's easy to read words on a computer screen or watch videos of other people approaching. It's not so easy to go out onto the street and do it yourself.

You're better off just going out and getting started as soon as possible.

Good luck, and let us know how you get on.

True of course only during the long phase while I optimize my looks I will have a lot of time since I wont start approaching until I am looksmaxxed. In the past I approached at 70 percent looksmaxx with zero success so its a waste of time.
 
What do you mean by final ?
 
What do you mean by final ?

That if I reach 100% looksmaxx and seriously try approaching on all different available methods then I will once and for all accept that I am truecel and be done with trying to approach women for the rest of my life.
 
True of course only during the long phase while I optimize my looks I will have a lot of time since I wont start approaching until I am looksmaxxed. In the past I approached at 70 percent looksmaxx with zero success so its a waste of time.
What do you define as looksmaxxed?

If you're talking about fashion, it doesn't mean shit. Sure, it goes without saying that it's best not to go out approaching wearing a hoody five sizes too big and stained sweatpants that you've worn to bed for a week. But there's also no point in spending a fortune on designer clothes in the hope it'll increase your chances. Because it won't. It won't change your face.

If you're talking about losing weight, I wouldn't wait until you've done so. Start approaching when you're still in the process of losing weight instead of putting it off. Then by the time you're at your desired weight, you'll have some reference experience under your belt that should give you the confidence to keep doing it.

I'm very tall and slim. And I'm still constantly rejected when I approach because I have a sub-par face.
 
Good luck bro. Your story is interesting and I wish you luck as you still have hope :feelsokman:
 
I admire your coping skills.
 
That if I reach 100% looksmaxx and seriously try approaching on all different available methods then I will once and for all accept that I am truecel and be done with trying to approach women for the rest of my life.
Everyone should do this
 
Today I started losing weight and I was very busy the last couple of days cleaning up my place. I need to clean things up so I have a free mind for what is ahead of me and so I can buy an ergometer (not sure if that is the right english word).

I have posted an update on the blog, too with a lot more details.

Everyone should do this

Yes, I am sure many of the people here are not really incel and could solve their problem if they really tried. There are truecels, yes, I am not denying that. But you should not consider yourself one unless you have made very sure.
 

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