I understand Omni,i can relate to you.Even my parents laughted at my problems of bein bullied
be a man my dad said i don't wanna hear you no more about this things said my mom.
you are having struggles to get inserted in the school said my school psychologics -by the way the psychologist only went to school one day per week and we had to pay that shit-
I told my psychologist about my companions being bullies.But he only talked about me being shy,having social anxiety etc etc.I just stoped seeing him.Even one day i got really pissed and yelled in front of everyone,i yelled a companion of my grade and then the teacher,who was there and never did anything to at least give me a hand.
Guess what.I was called by the director.Me.Not the bullies LOL.
Man i tell you,one day i seated with my dad when i was older near 18 years.We talked about those things in the past so i told him look,you did things very bad.I understand you wasn't home most of days because you was the only one providing money to this house,but you had behaviours i don't tolerate.Even nowadays you laugh of some problems of mine.So what? When i was younger and you didn't care about my problems in school except aproving signatures,i used to hate you.I had resentment towards you.But now what i'm gonna do? Will i be resentment even until this day? No,i decided to forget about it and let it go.
So that's what i did OP,i slowly forget about that,his mistakes.Because even in the present sometimes he act like nothing happened.So i just ignore him,even when he talk to me sometimes.I don't care.You will leave things go slowly,time passing will teach you that.You can't live stressed all your life man,is tiring.