My dad says I ruined my life with weed

[curryboy420]

He says that if I never smoked weed then I would have passed university and got a wife and money and everything. Did I fuck my life up by becoming a drug addict and this is all my fault. I don't know anymore because I started smoking a long time ago at 16. There was a lot of reasons why I kept smoking though. I don't know. What do you guys think did I ruin my life because of weed? When I was in India I didn't smoke for 30 days and I felt barely any different. I also quit in uni for 2 weeks and felt nothing different. I feel like weed helped me sleep and relax and eat but it also has negatives. It's too much to write down, what are your guys thoughts, did I ruin my brain and body and become a loser from my own choices?

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

Your genetics ruined your life, the weed just provided a temporary comfort.

 

[kaijicel]

honestly its probably not the main reason, but ig it could have affected you negatively. depends on the person.

also depends on how much you smoked ig

 

[JKlancecaster069]

No if you're a sub5 male you'll lose no matter what.

 

[proudweeb]

My dad smokes weed and then he rambles very loudly for literally hours about autist shit like model trains

 

[4 eyes nolife]

The moment you were born it was over

 

[Grodd]

No if you're a sub5 male you'll lose no matter what.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Typical case of cause and effect reversal. They see someone struggling and just blame whatever habit they pick up along the way instead of looking at the real reasons. Weed wasn’t the cause of your problems, it was a coping mechanism for problems that were already there.

 

[curryboy420]

The moment you were born it was over

No if you're a sub5 male you'll lose no matter what.

I feel sad knowing it was probably always over from the beginning for factors out of my control

 

[Karakol96]

chad smokes weed daily and makes 200k a year with 3 wives and 5children each

 

[Emba]

Weed can indeed make one too lazy to GAF about more important stuff in life...

However, most likely you were already doomed to be a stupid lazycel. Because, wtf else is their to do anyway?

 

[BornToLose]

Your genetics ruined your life, the weed just provided a temporary comfort.

 

[Emba]

@Weed thoughts?

 

[dextercel]

your life was ruined the moment you came out the womb.

if anything, the weed helps numb the excruciating pain

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

What do you guys think did I ruin my life because of weed?

Lmao
While I was in the homeless shelter, I've seen some guys there who were doing hard drugs and yet they had girlfriends because these guys were attractive.
Maybe you've ruined the chance of a good career, but that probably wouldn't have gotten you a wife if you're really a truecel. Maybe you wouldn't even have had a career/money because that also requires good looks and social skills, which are strongly linked to appearance

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Typical case of cause and effect reversal. They see someone struggling and just blame whatever habit they pick up along the way instead of looking at the real reasons. Weed wasn’t the cause of your problems, it was a coping mechanism for problems that were already there.

 

[unborndegenerate]

He says that if I never smoked weed then I would have passed university and got a wife and money and everything. Did I fuck my life up by becoming a drug addict and this is all my fault. I don't know anymore because I started smoking a long time ago at 16. There was a lot of reasons why I kept smoking though. I don't know. What do you guys think did I ruin my life because of weed? When I was in India I didn't smoke for 30 days and I felt barely any different. I also quit in uni for 2 weeks and felt nothing different. I feel like weed helped me sleep and relax and eat but it also has negatives. It's too much to write down, what are your guys thoughts, did I ruin my brain and body and become a loser from my own choices?

weed is the effect of the misery already existing in your life rather than the cause of it.

 

[Watson96]

He says that if I never smoked weed then I would have passed university and got a wife and money and everything. Did I fuck my life up by becoming a drug addict and this is all my fault. I don't know anymore because I started smoking a long time ago at 16. There was a lot of reasons why I kept smoking though. I don't know. What do you guys think did I ruin my life because of weed? When I was in India I didn't smoke for 30 days and I felt barely any different. I also quit in uni for 2 weeks and felt nothing different. I feel like weed helped me sleep and relax and eat but it also has negatives. It's too much to write down, what are your guys thoughts, did I ruin my brain and body and become a loser from my own choices?

I smoke and graduated and make good money. still a hopeless incel. the motivator has to be before you do these things. I knew I just didn't want to be dirt poor so I got a two year degree. but in a society where you as a man aren't valued unless you're chad it is understandable why people don't try to achieve more and I don't blame them. smoking weed has NOTHING to do with it.

 

[WeirdoDesperado]

Normie sexhavers smoke shitton of weed yet they have good sources of income and they're valued by people around them. It's probably the inceldom. Normies would lose their shit and definitely not finish their education, becoming jobless, if they lost their access to sex and intimacy early enough. I don't smoke weed as I don't have an access to it and drink almost never, still I LDAR, can't find a job and dropped out from schools after secondary school. I didn't make it even close to university.

 

[flippedroaches14]

the reality of life is miserable. Thats why so many people smoke. And i dont see a problem with it as long as you aren't a complete stoner loser. However, if you already are a loser, then why not. might Aswell numb the pain

 

[Just say NIGGER!]

People confuse the symptoms of the problem with it's cause.