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“If you’re girlfriend said this would it upset you?
You're a childless man.
You're dating a single mother of two children ages (12-14) with the biological father present & in the picture.
1. You don't get to see her much, usually once a week & often once every two weeks.
2. Your accommodating her busy schedule, with her kids, her job, her family etc & you can only get together on the days that best suit her.
3. You're willing to end your bloodline, because she doesn't want anymore more children.
4. You're willing to lose out on normal girlfriend experiences, such as random dates, romantic weekends away etc.
5. Your willing to do separate holidays abroad, because she wants to holiday with her children separatly & cannot afford a secondary holiday with you, unless you financially fund most of it.
6. You're willing to take on some financial burden, due to her being a low income single mother, such as paying for dates, and paying for trips etc (if & when that is possible)
7. Your willing to tolerate last minute date cancellations, because her child is sick.
8. Your willing to, take a risk and potentially end up with baby daddy drama, or other drama from the children if they dislike you.
One day you have a disagreement & she immediately, firmly lets you know that "her children will always come first" they will always be priority.
I agree.. they absolutely should come before the boyfriend. This is naturally understood my most men.
However would you feel upset if you're being reminded of this, if there is a disagreement/conflict or a scheduling issue??
Considering your making lots and lots of sacrifices already.”
