IceMan2000
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View: https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianParentStories/comments/1gzc30m/i_think_my_brother_is_an_asian_male_incel/
I saw a post about AMI today, and felt like sharing about the stories and concerns of my own brother. For reference, I'm 27F, and he's 25M.
Over the last few years, my brother has started to be more vocal about wanting a girlfriend, but I honestly don't think he'll get one anytime soon. This year, I've heard a lot of stories about him making attempts at asking his crushes out but the ways he does it come off creepy and forceful. As if he expects a chance/date.
Over the summer, I found out that, as the leader of some committee/organization he's in, he used his power to not book a hotel room for one of the members because that member told his crush at the time, truths about my brother's behavior and personality. It wasn't until he was ostracized and people stopped befriending him that he apologized to the guy and booked the hotel room, but honestly, that incident ruined his rep.
At home, he's not much nicer to his own sister either and his expectations of me are stupid. As his sister, as a woman, and as a person.
Right now, my mom is away for several weeks visiting my grandmother. He doesn't cook, he doesn't wash the dishes, he doesn't monitor what needs to be done around the house. I work 40 hours a week, and I come home to a mess that I have to clean up. I could NOT clean it up. But it's my living space too, so I end up doing it for myself. I've called my mom about this, and even after, he suggests that we do things together no matter the simplest of jobs. Even taking out the pile of recycling, he believes needs to be a 2 person job, and he refuses to make 2 trips.
He is so entitled, spoiled, and lazy. Unfortunately, my mom babies him, and prefers him because he has a more "AP approved" career so I often lose arguments. But, I guarantee that this blind behavior is gonna make his 1st girlfriend run for the hills.
Edit: His career is in business. All his past 3 coops have been in HR management. He's got 1 last semester left, but he does extremely well in school. I mean, of course he does, our mom doesn't ever give him responsibilities so he has tons of time to study.
Jfl, venting about his brother and she just has to call him an incel.
"You have no worth without a gf inky"I guarantee that this blind behavior is gonna make his 1st girlfriend run for the hills.