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Story My answer to "If you just look around, you'll see ugly or short guys with girlfriends!"

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It's common advice I've received from relatives and even from therapists (when I used to go and believe in them - they're next to useless)

Yes, I see guys that are not leading man material with girlfriends or wives
Yes, I have seen guys shorter than their girlfriends

The OK looking guys have passable faces that don't make foids recoil in disgust
The short guys make it up for having Chad-tier features

What a lot of the people trying to "encourage" me with saying that is that I'm disgustingly, hopelessly ugly, but relatives are in denial of this, and normies are too fake and polite to admit this.
 
Most people don't really understand the saying

"it's easier said than done"

They just wanna spam you with solutions to stroke their massive egos, they get an ego trip from trying to be this savior figure

at least that's how it is with my dogshit family
 
I see short balding indian janitors with girlfriends !
 
In my lifetime i never saw a guy that i mog with a wife/gf. The worst i saw, theyre mostly better looking and always taller and richer than me.
 
Survival bias. If out of 1,000 average guys 50 score a gf then you cant really say relationships are a trend
 
It is a stupid platitude normies throw at you to dismiss your suffering. Even if what they are saying is true in some cases, an exception to the norm doesn't disprove it. That, and also the fact that many of these ugly/short guys are in exploitative and one-sided relationships.
 
It is a stupid platitude normies throw at you to dismiss your suffering. Even if what they are saying is true in some cases, an exception to the norm doesn't disprove it. That, and also the fact that many of these ugly/short guys are in exploitative and one-sided relationships.
 
The statement "If you just look around, you'll see ugly or short guys with girlfriends!" is statistically flawed because it relies on non-random sampling and anecdotal evidence, observing rare outliers that deviate from the central tendency of dating dynamics. It also ignores the negative correlation between short stature or physical unattractiveness and dating success as shown in studies, suffers from confirmation bias and the availability heuristic by overestimating the frequency of these rare cases, and disregards systemic issues such as heightism and lookism, which are well-documented to disproportionately disadvantage less attractive or shorter men in dating markets dominated by highly selective preferences.
 
It's paradoxical, ugly tall guys have gf or short chad/chadlites with gf too as you quoted... we are just fucking ugly, we realize that.

But those normfags fuckers need to remembering us so :feelsbadman:
 
Just be financially and emotionally abused by a woman theory. As far as we know, these women could be severely mentally ill, thus they had to settle for an ugly guy because all the guys who can have their pickings didn't want these women. Women with BPD, narcissism, sociopathy, psychopathy, histrionic women... these women can't get Chad because Chad doesn't approve their shitty personalities, so these women have to settle eventually.

Also just because a woman is with a man, it doesn't prove anything. These women could be using these men for money. Its a lot more common than people think.

If you see an ugly man with a woman, believe me, women are so narcissistic and sociopathic, that she has to be taking advantage of him somehow. If you see an ugly man with a woman, you see someone who is being abused behind closed doors.
 
It's frustrating still hearing this gaslighting from normies because I have seen it myself in numerous demographic studies. Men dating up in looks seriously NEVER happens.
 
Plus, all the ugly guys with gfs are betabuxxes or/and get cucked everytime the foid goes out alone
 
Survival bias. If out of 1,000 average guys 50 score a gf then you cant really say relationships are a trend
The statement "If you just look around, you'll see ugly or short guys with girlfriends!" is statistically flawed because it relies on non-random sampling and anecdotal evidence, observing rare outliers that deviate from the central tendency of dating dynamics. It also ignores the negative correlation between short stature or physical unattractiveness and dating success as shown in studies, suffers from confirmation bias and the availability heuristic by overestimating the frequency of these rare cases, and disregards systemic issues such as heightism and lookism, which are well-documented to disproportionately disadvantage less attractive or shorter men in dating markets dominated by highly selective preferences.
Exactly. But unfortunately, your average normtard has a poor understanding of statistics, and interprets sightings and anecdotes as reality. Its similar to how people see something in the news and believe its commonplace
 
I have never seen a couple in my life that is not blackpill
Either the guy is Chad or he is darktriadmaxxed
 
It's common advice I've received from relatives and even from therapists (when I used to go and believe in them - they're next to useless)

Yes, I see guys that are not leading man material with girlfriends or wives
Yes, I have seen guys shorter than their girlfriends

The OK looking guys have passable faces that don't make foids recoil in disgust
The short guys make it up for having Chad-tier features

What a lot of the people trying to "encourage" me with saying that is that I'm disgustingly, hopelessly ugly, but relatives are in denial of this, and normies are too fake and polite to admit this.
they aren’t in our shoes they’ll never understand It’s like making a rich guy understand about being homeless but no all they say is get a job when in reality it’s not that easy
 
Dont forget that they rate height and face way different than men. For them, 5'9ft is already short and a MTN is ugly
 
It's frustrating still hearing this gaslighting from normies because I have seen it myself in numerous demographic studies. Men dating up in looks seriously NEVER happens.
Jfl at assuming normies underrated science
 
Plus, all the ugly guys with gfs are betabuxxes or/and get cucked everytime the foid goes out alone
true because they know he doesnt have any options so its basically one sided relationship for her
she has all the power
 
true because they know he doesnt have any options so its basically one sided relationship for her
she has all the power
and they end up in polyamorous relationship or similar bs :lul:
 
So what? It means nothing when you look at the statistic from labs that do paternity tests.

Around 33% of all paternity tests are N E G A T I V E and those are the official numbers, from supposed fathers who decided to do such a test.

So, these sub 8 guys may be getting some pitty fuck, but they are very likely not reproducing.
That these bitches reserve for Chad / Tyrone or Chang.
Even if you manage to get a relationship with a foid, without offspring it is meaningless. And if she gets pregnant it remains to be seen as to whether it is your child or not.
But of course, even if it does end up being your child, who can guarantee you that she did not / does not cheat behind your back?
 
The statement "If you just look around, you'll see ugly or short guys with girlfriends!" is statistically flawed because it relies on non-random sampling and anecdotal evidence, observing rare outliers that deviate from the central tendency of dating dynamics. It also ignores the negative correlation between short stature or physical unattractiveness and dating success as shown in studies, suffers from confirmation bias and the availability heuristic by overestimating the frequency of these rare cases, and disregards systemic issues such as heightism and lookism, which are well-documented to disproportionately disadvantage less attractive or shorter men in dating markets dominated by highly selective preferences.
Nice read. I like it.
 

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