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RageFuel "Muh defeatist attitude"

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I spoke to a guy who is a few years older than me (he is 35) and he is in the same exact situation I am in in regards to not being able to get pussy/gf, etc.

Yet he believes he is not a loser faggot like me, because he doesn't have a "defeatist attitude" about it, only loser faggots have a defeatist attitude, and that even if his situation with women is just as bad as mine, it doesn't matter, because his attitude isn't defeatist, therefore he isn't a loser faggot like me.

Yeah bro, you're totally not a loser because you choose not to be defeatist about your situation, good one bro.
 
What a coping idiot. Invite him here
 
The whole "defeatist attitude causes you to become incel" is complete bullshit. I was friends of friends with an emo kid who fucking cut his wrists like daily, dude had problems, don't know why, and he'd whine a lot. But guess what, the dude had a 9/10 hot blonde prime Stacy JB gf with big tits, and they were boyfriend/girlfriend throughout middle and high school. This is by far one of my favorite personal anecdotes to use.
 
I am not total looser, because that is betabuxxing stepdaddy cuck with roastie wifeoid. Non-defeatism can be cultured too
 
Yet he believes he is not a loser faggot like me, because he doesn't have a "defeatist attitude" about it, only loser faggots have a defeatist attitude, and that even if his situation with women is just as bad as mine, it doesn't matter, because his attitude isn't defeatist, therefore he isn't a loser faggot like me.

Those people are just extremly delusional. They do not want to see the truth.
 
Reminds me of boomer tier advice to like some little manlet being bullied by huge jocks... hey man just go up to the biggest one and punch him out. (like the boomer saw in a movie)
 
I spoke to a guy who is a few years older than me (he is 35) and he is in the same exact situation I am in in regards to not being able to get pussy/gf, etc.

Yet he believes he is not a loser faggot like me, because he doesn't have a "defeatist attitude" about it, only loser faggots have a defeatist attitude, and that even if his situation with women is just as bad as mine, it doesn't matter, because his attitude isn't defeatist, therefore he isn't a loser faggot like me.

Yeah bro, you're totally not a loser because you choose not to be defeatist about your situation, good one bro.


America spent a shit ton of money on public schools for programs to boost kids self-esteem. The 90s was all about that shit. "Believe in yourself"

Then a massive study was done on it all and found it makes zero difference whether you believe in yourself or not. It's all complete bullshit.
 
It's just like the people who say they don't "identify" as incel/FA. Meanwhile they've been rejected all their life, the best they can ever do is fuck fat girl who's very drunk and will want them gone as soon as she starts to sober up.

That's like a guy who's broke but says he doesn't identify as poor. JFL.
America spent a shit ton of money on public schools for programs to boost kids self-esteem. The 90s was all about that shit. "Believe in yourself"

Then a massive study was done on it all and found it makes zero difference whether you believe in yourself or not. It's all complete bullshit.
They noticed that chads and other winners in this world believed in themselves. So they thought believing in yourself makes you successful. But it's the other way around, successful people believe in themselves because of the constant positive experiences they've had.

A loser who believes in himself will just face the brutal reality ... or cope and disillusion himself.
 
Is there any remote reason to believe he might be able to improve. Like horrid teeth, saving up for dental surgery?
 
I love retards like this. He's gonna kill himself in 2 years max
 
Is there any remote reason to believe he might be able to improve. Like horrid teeth, saving up for dental surgery?

I asked him this.

When does he plan on having a wife? Children? Why isn't he out right now finding that woman? Why is he spending all of his free time online, playing video games? Why is he home every weekend? He never goes on dates, Oh I wonder why, is it because you just can't get a date? Oh then, why aren't you trying harder to get one? if you really thought that was important to you as you say it is for you, then why are you even online right now? Why not go outside like you claim is what a non loser does? Why do you claim to act like this superior successful normal person to me, but in reality you're barely any better than me? you have and do none of the things you claim is necessary to be successful, yet you act as if you are. Why do you do this? Why do you act this way?


His response: You're right, you know everything man (note he is saying this sarcastically, and refuses to address anything I told him). I believe this is his way of coping, to deflect everything. Anything you tell this guy, he just claims that you're projecting in some way or another, even though I am fully transparent with everything about me and that I am simply analyzing him and his own life and his own status and situation. Is it really that impossible to assess the persons lifestyle and current situation without projecting? The problem is he says a lot of things that would indicate that wants to be normal and not a loser, but anytime you question that facts based on his situation and lifestyle (which indicates that he is in fact a low status loser) he cannot address any of it and brushes it off simply as me "projecting", even though it HIS LIFE that I am analyzing under a microscope, not my own. If he was a cool fucking pussy slaying high status CHAD , then I would be able to see it and acknowledge very easily.
 
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This guy in addition to being incel in looks, seems not very intelligent. At least a relatively intelligent normie can come up with some sort of hard to believe explanation/justification.. or disagree with one tiny non-relevant point in your argument.. and keep the debate alive, like their life depended on it.

He is using projection in a ridiculous way.. like you are literally asking him why if he believes you have to get out there and try harder, why he isn't doing exactly that. (when you are not even trying or even believing that you have a chance anyway).

If you were projecting you would say.. hey man you are like me.. you know you have no chance so you are just having fun playing these online games.
 
Typical boomer trait.Just be positive and ignore reality br0.Just work hard and "focus on career"(bust your ass for some average pay job and take pride in it):soy::soy:
 
I don’t why you bother arguing with morons like these. It’s like talking to a brick wall. They won’t admit that they’re a failure because it’s a coping mechanism. Deep down knows he’s genetic trash but too afraid to admit it. The sooner you admit it, the faster you will be able to move on and become more accepting of your fate.
 
He's a retard and we don't need his kind fucking up this site.

Yes, incels should support our brothers, but to be a brother you have to be blackpilled. He's no different from the "I'm a virgin, but I'm not incel!" cucks on cucktears.
 
Send him to me. I have made two mid 30's virgins go into "major depressive relapse" after scientifically and sociologically injecting pure, pitch black, liquid blackpill directly into their hearts. Our mutual friend had to comfort them by saying that I was simply not human anymore and machine like in my approach to realistically explain the darkness of human nature and the futility of their coping and that I did not intend psychological harm... I think I am becoming the incel Hegesias of PS4 party chats...
 
Tried to blackpill some guys today. Guess what they said: "Stop being an average/below average man." Basically boomer-tier-advice. As an analogy: Just imagine a guy telling a literal retard, that he's a defeatist, because said retard claims, that he has no chance in a debate about physics with Stephen Hawkings. He isn't a defeatist, because he knows, that trying to compete against an intellecutal demigod as a retard is a Sisyphean Task. Nothing infuriates me more than the gaslighting against Incels. "Try harder, try harder, try harder!" - no, why should I? The results will still be the same.
 
Sounds like he's fit right in with IT.
 
He refuses to see the truth
 
If he means not defeatist in that he has hope because he can still make a diffERence then I'm all for it. If he means in terms of getting a foid, then fuck him.
 
Do i need to say how obvious is that your personal opinion on any situation won't change the situation itself nor an actual outcome of it, attitude meme is not even an argument, it's just thrown to make us shut up.
 

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