Nordicel94
Pancake-faced viking-cel
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"Just have a good personality bro".
Most people have a "good personality" in the sense that they have a basic level och kindness, politness and empathy. So a guy with "a good personality" is competing with most other guys and more importantly guys who are better looking than him who have a "good personality".
Having a "good personality" isn't really something you can scale up either. Being extremely kind, extremely polite or empathetic doesn't come natural to most people and more importantly, it's not seen as exciting, it almost becomes farcical.
I think what can best describe what normies mean with a "good personality" is when they think of that one extremely extroverted guy they know who is the life of the party and does wild stuff. That's where they get the "I know a 5'8 guy who slays because of his good personality". They don't mean a regular "good guy", they mean someone who entertains them.
This type of personality is 1 in a 1000 though. You don't get several life of the party-guys at the same party.
Bottom line, "a good personality" is meaningless because most other guys have "a good personality". Having "a good personality" is easy. It if it were a winning strategy foids wouldn't date toxic Chads. Looks win everytime.
What "a good personality" means coming from normies is "an extraordinary personality". This requires you to be NT, low-inhib, funny and wild. This personality type is not attainable for a regular guy, our personalities are pretty much set in stone before puberty.
And of course, putting this personality on a 6'3 Chad, that's when you get the biggest slayers on Earth.
Most people have a "good personality" in the sense that they have a basic level och kindness, politness and empathy. So a guy with "a good personality" is competing with most other guys and more importantly guys who are better looking than him who have a "good personality".
Having a "good personality" isn't really something you can scale up either. Being extremely kind, extremely polite or empathetic doesn't come natural to most people and more importantly, it's not seen as exciting, it almost becomes farcical.
I think what can best describe what normies mean with a "good personality" is when they think of that one extremely extroverted guy they know who is the life of the party and does wild stuff. That's where they get the "I know a 5'8 guy who slays because of his good personality". They don't mean a regular "good guy", they mean someone who entertains them.
This type of personality is 1 in a 1000 though. You don't get several life of the party-guys at the same party.
Bottom line, "a good personality" is meaningless because most other guys have "a good personality". Having "a good personality" is easy. It if it were a winning strategy foids wouldn't date toxic Chads. Looks win everytime.
What "a good personality" means coming from normies is "an extraordinary personality". This requires you to be NT, low-inhib, funny and wild. This personality type is not attainable for a regular guy, our personalities are pretty much set in stone before puberty.
And of course, putting this personality on a 6'3 Chad, that's when you get the biggest slayers on Earth.