While I agree with this for the most part, I think they would be a hell lot more considerate if the virgin in question was a chad, and they would even find the fact that chad never had sex "cute" or even "hotter", many would willingly teach him "the ways of sex" and feel great about it especially if she was chad's "first", so they would feel special
Women feeling "turned off" by virgins is the equivalent of women disliking to be approached by "creepy" guys (aka ugly dudes), they subconsciously know that older virgin men equals ugly/unattractive men, since good looking men often lose their virginity sooner.