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Blackpill Most are born with high expectations and a fragile ego.

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That's why when a girl doesn't look your way, say she doesn't like some aspects about you, then you begin to panic in insecurity and wonder if you have what it takes to be the person you want to be.
A lot of the time a man/ dad is supposed to tell you to man up and pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
A lot of the blackpill stems here from trying to realize your place of not being handed everything. But many people get so much handed to them that if you were to talk about all of it, then all happy-clappy notions about equality/ love/ bluepill etc. would be gone.
I really wonder why looksmaxing/ ragemaxing/ darktriadmaxing aren't things here.
People should be socially engineered if they don't obey or give into you.
A lot of us are born with a sense of entitlement and wanting to be the bees kness. Defy this and you're just not being human.
Society wants to bluepill all humanity to stop us from having the same psyche as the rich/ powerful who all have this same mentality i am talking about.

Best thing to do is EFPR (ego fragility&pain resilience) max, rage max, perfectionism max, etc.
The more you give in, and the less insecure you become with the lower life quality you have then that's bad.
Better to be insecure about low life quality, than to be secure with things that lower your life quality.

If society treats you unfairly it's because they are hierarchical and you don't have the value that they like.
If you are born/ treated unfairly then it's okay for you to be unfair to others to take the power you should have. There's passive unfairness on you. So it's only fair.
You didn't choose the life. Universe chose it for you. If the universe is unfair to you then it's okay for you to be unfair to the universe.
Morality is 2nd to everything else which goes on in existence. The universe is amoral. Morals are subjective.
Biology may give us an inner compass of right and wrong as it does when choosing to think of dung as food or not.
But that exists only within us. There is no unifying sacred law from which all the universe is purposed after.
There are only accidental patterns/ physicals that were thrust upon us. In this lackluster infra-reality.
 
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So tldr

Bee yourself
 
So tldr

Bee yourself
Yeah that's totally what I said even though I indented the opposite with spaces to make it readable for you. So you could sarcastically skim over it.
 
Yes, I am literally a narcissist at this point, which is a double edged sword because my ego is extremely fragile (Which contributes heavily to my social anxiety), but at the same time I always believe and think I should have more (Even though I am a failure curry manlet lmao), never satisfied with anything etc.
 
If society treats you unfairly it's because they are hierarchical and you don't have the value that they like.
If you are born/ treated unfairly then it's okay for you to be unfair to others to take the power you should have. There's passive unfairness on you. So it's only fair.
You didn't choose the life. Universe chose it for you. If the universe is unfair to you then it's okay for you to be unfair to the universe.
Morality is 2nd to everything else which goes on in existence. The universe is amoral. Morals are subjective.
Biology may give us an inner compass of right and wrong as it does when choosing to think of dung as food or not.
But that exists only within us. There is no unifying sacred law from which all the universe is purposed after.
There are only accidental patterns/ physicals that were thrust upon us. In this lackluster infra-reality.
Its a shame only a select few realize this
 
A true blackpill indeed this is primal evolutionary thinking
 
A true blackpill indeed this is primal evolutionary thinking
Primal value distribution is more important than good or evil. Lying is a good example.
We lie when it's wrong but we don't feel bad. But lies are about things that give people perceptions that give US primal evolutionary hierarchical value.
It's wrong. But it's equally as immoral as stealing something from someone. We steal the truth from them (even when it's of no protection for them, but it's of good ego boost to us) than stealing something from their house, or a grocery store. Sometimes a truth can be far worse. We usually care more about the physical thing because there's an easier avenue to acknowledging something material than abstract.

Lying is the manner/ gesture of how we are hungry for image boost/ primal self-examination value over... being truthful/ real/ community focused. We technically do evil everyday. We only do "evil" for power gain when the huge hail-mary/ rush for power is using a method/ function that doesn't have a trace/ avenue of detectability.
It takes something to be apprehended to be answerable/ accountable.
We try and stop the avenues of apprehension.
The most insecure/ the most self loathing are typically the most self-accountable. And the more condition based when it comes to self love/ esteem.

We all fear us cumulatively being inferior. Only when we know we are collectively superior are we happy and in joy in existence. It's just a natural/ healthy systematic reaction to understanding progress when we are insecure.
 
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when you accept that LDARing is your destiny this is not a problem
 
Cope. Every single woman looks down on me. I'm used to having zero intrinsic value since adolescence
 
when you accept that LDARing is your destiny this is not a problem
Death is your destiny then. Because that would certify you are unfit for life, and need the insulation of society to sustain you. You are unbuilt for exploration/ conquest/ general positive judgment.
You should be ashamed. Insecurity with a Darwinial style of self criticism is good for people. It will kill the weak and make us all strong.
Normies can't contextualize the scientific sourcing behind their insecurity.
Cope. Every single woman looks down on me. I'm used to having zero intrinsic value since adolescence
Oh sure you can, but that's because you have no zeal to fight for yourself. This post is for the strong. The human brain has more possible connections than there are particles in all the universe. So people like you are just meant to be peasants and peripherals./
You don't even know if you wren't born with high expectations because life disappointed you too fast before you could remember/ self conceptualize.
 
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Narcissism-maxxing is probably the best idea I've ever heard. I've been beaten down so much and feel so damn worthless that it's hard to Statusmaxx or careermaxx when you feel nothing but shit about yourself and your abilities. :feelsbadman: Who the fuck will believe in you if you don't believe in yourself?

Anyone have any advice on how to go by this?
 
Narcissism-maxxing is probably the best idea I've ever heard. I've been beaten down so much and feel so damn worthless that it's hard to Statusmaxx or careermaxx when you feel nothing but shit about yourself and your abilities. :feelsbadman: Who the fuck will believe in you if you don't believe in yourself?

Anyone have any advice on how to go by this?
It helps if your mom/ parents spoiled you constantly like ER.
It helps if you choose to emulate dark triad personalities, and constantly want to one up people.
It helps if you want to have self criticism control through intellectualization/ being robotic/ choosing to carefully let something into your mind at a certain time.
Work off of ego-boost, with a sociopathic mindset that cares more about being powerful than being self-honest. Like how most Asians/ Jews do when they STEM career max boost thinking they are gonna become like a fat cat in a top hat.
Anger is only good if the Ego boost you get from it gives you destress from the heavy output than stress.
That takes a lot needing to go for you depending on the success/ expectation/ power you want to have.
If not that, then accept you were given an unfair existence, and that should enable you to feel justified in being unfair to the universe, and then take as much as you can.
 
It helps if your mom/ parents spoiled you constantly like ER.
Nope. They think I'm shit for not wanting to go to a third tier medical school and go a different STEM route.

It helps if you choose to emulate dark triad personalities, and constantly want to one up people.
I always want to one up people.

It helps if you want to have self criticism control through intellectualization/ being robotic/ choosing to carefully let something into your mind at a certain time.
This is my main problem. Because of lack of success and mental beatdown from my parents, I self-critize HARSHLY to almost the point of crippling perfectionist tendancies. I need to break out of this and just create and fail until I get it right or simply crash and burn at my mediocrity. It leads to severe depression.

Work off of ego-boost, with a sociopathic mindset that cares more about being powerful than being self-honest. Like how most Asians/ Jews do when they STEM career max boost thinking they are gonna become like a fat cat in a top hat.
I'm a curry and had this mindset in high school. College fucked me up cause I took a difficult major and worked to support myself. I thought my memorization skills in high school would be enough for college. Led to me having a fucked up GPA. Managed to take a few classes after graduating and got into Caribbean med schools, but decided to do a Master's program at a top 25 STEM school instead.

Anger is only good if the Ego boost you get from it gives you destress from the heavy output than stress.
Sadly a lot of my drive comes from this as well.


Thanks OP. This was a good exercise in mindfulness and proper self critique. I need to hone in on how to not be over critical of myself. Not sure how yet.
 
It helps if your mom/ parents spoiled you constantly like ER.
It helps if you choose to emulate dark triad personalities, and constantly want to one up people.
It helps if you want to have self criticism control through intellectualization/ being robotic/ choosing to carefully let something into your mind at a certain time.
Work off of ego-boost, with a sociopathic mindset that cares more about being powerful than being self-honest. Like how most Asians/ Jews do when they STEM career max boost thinking they are gonna become like a fat cat in a top hat.
Anger is only good if the Ego boost you get from it gives you destress from the heavy output than stress.
That takes a lot needing to go for you depending on the success/ expectation/ power you want to have.
If not that, then accept you were given an unfair existence, and that should enable you to feel justified in being unfair to the universe, and then take as much as you can.


I think lacking in morals is fine. I regularly shoplift and don't go out of my way to help others at any point unless it is beneficial. I have only been caught shoplifting once but that was due to inexperience at the time. Regarding taking advantage of dark triad, I think this is not talked about because incels are weak and passive individuals. They have no balls and no courage. It's the very rare few like ER who will actually have the balls to do something extreme. I guess he could have probably achieved quite a lot with his low inhib but he had too low IQ to think up anything. I would say my IQ isn't quite there to take advantage of my slightly lower inhib than most people. I think its probably something I have to sit down and think what do I want to achieve and then ruthlessly map out how to get what I want and ask myself if I really have the low inhib to get it. For example engaging in petty theft is a good way to get some casual free goods but could I scale up and engage in larger theft? Possibly but I don't have the IQ to do so. I think what is lacking is an organized group of incels. Any incel who is low inhib and actively would dark triad max is probably 1/1000 so he is never going to find another incel to team up with. Of course im not advocating murders or anything immensely bad but I'm saying that more can be achieved together with a like minded incel. However, I still think individual low inhib incels can dark triad max and take steps to improve their lives. I feel like 99% of incels on here are just passive weaklings who will never achieve anything or do anything and will just sustain themselves as leeches on their parents and families. I don't mind leeching in terms of morality as I certainly leech off my parents also.

Perhaps I'm blue pilled in that I feel like I can achieve more than I currently am achieving. I know I have the low inhib level but I don't think I have the IQ
 
I think lacking in morals is fine. I regularly shoplift and don't go out of my way to help others at any point unless it is beneficial. I have only been caught shoplifting once but that was due to inexperience at the time. Regarding taking advantage of dark triad, I think this is not talked about because incels are weak and passive individuals. They have no balls and no courage. It's the very rare few like ER who will actually have the balls to do something extreme. I guess he could have probably achieved quite a lot with his low inhib but he had too low IQ to think up anything. I would say my IQ isn't quite there to take advantage of my slightly lower inhib than most people. I think its probably something I have to sit down and think what do I want to achieve and then ruthlessly map out how to get what I want and ask myself if I really have the low inhib to get it. For example engaging in petty theft is a good way to get some casual free goods but could I scale up and engage in larger theft? Possibly but I don't have the IQ to do so. I think what is lacking is an organized group of incels. Any incel who is low inhib and actively would dark triad max is probably 1/1000 so he is never going to find another incel to team up with. Of course im not advocating murders or anything immensely bad but I'm saying that more can be achieved together with a like minded incel. However, I still think individual low inhib incels can dark triad max and take steps to improve their lives. I feel like 99% of incels on here are just passive weaklings who will never achieve anything or do anything and will just sustain themselves as leeches on their parents and families. I don't mind leeching in terms of morality as I certainly leech off my parents also.

Perhaps I'm blue pilled in that I feel like I can achieve more than I currently am achieving. I know I have the low inhib level but I don't think I have the IQ
They say the higher the IQ, the heavier the heart due to the fact that the high IQ can have high empathy in many situations when plotting schemes. That's why races like the white race who are the most intelligent from evolutionary boosting have been heldback.
But you find rare geniuses like the jews who have no empathy, and thus no inhibitions/ heavyheartedness wehn trying to mine for their own power.

Many of mankind is lcoked down by pretty fallacious notions of what preservces mankind. I think a part of us hold back because we want the egoboost of love/ kindness. WE LIE yet we say we want to have real love?
No. We want the egoboost of achievement. Even those in the best graces lie to their friends.
Friendships/ relationships are all egoboosts.
But the ego is what holds us back and makes us not want to start pillaging society.
In my opinion ego is worthless because you're just imposing value for people based on... people who like you only for exchange value. The very process of socialization is selfish, ignoble, and cruel to those who have no value. It's just not often said because looking at dark/ shameful logistics like this are for buzzkill blackpill party pooper losers.

Morals have always been behind the majority of societal/ human behavior. Morals are put-on face.
To say that you should be entitled ot be unfair because mankind has been unfair to oyou is not based on conventions of morality.
It's based on the way the primal hierarchy/ societal hierarchy distributes value .WHen soemoen has been given more than you then it's a genetic priority to self-sustain/ get even/ get great with a place through means that are no less unfair than what you're going to do.
 
They say the higher the IQ, the heavier the heart due to the fact that the high IQ can have high empathy in many situations when plotting schemes. That's why races like the white race who are the most intelligent from evolutionary boosting have been heldback.
But you find rare geniuses like the jews who have no empathy, and thus no inhibitions/ heavyheartedness wehn trying to mine for their own power.

Many of mankind is lcoked down by pretty fallacious notions of what preservces mankind. I think a part of us hold back because we want the egoboost of love/ kindness. WE LIE yet we say we want to have real love?
No. We want the egoboost of achievement. Even those in the best graces lie to their friends.
Friendships/ relationships are all egoboosts.
But the ego is what holds us back and makes us not want to start pillaging society.
In my opinion ego is worthless because you're just imposing value for people based on... people who like you only for exchange value. The very process of socialization is selfish, ignoble, and cruel to those who have no value. It's just not often said because looking at dark/ shameful logistics like this are for buzzkill blackpill party pooper losers.

Morals have always been behind the majority of societal/ human behavior. Morals are put-on face.
To say that you should be entitled ot be unfair because mankind has been unfair to oyou is not based on conventions of morality.
It's based on the way the primal hierarchy/ societal hierarchy distributes value .WHen soemoen has been given more than you then it's a genetic priority to self-sustain/ get even/ get great with a place through means that are no less unfair than what you're going to do.


It's funny how it's taken as a given that women target rich and powerful men but if an incel targets rich women then he's the scum of the earth.
 
It's funny how it's taken as a given that women target rich and powerful men but if an incel targets rich women then he's the scum of the earth.
deeply ingrained prehistoric primality.
Also because of victim culture/ humanitarian headway. But it's not anti-humanitarian for a guy who is ugly alone to seek out women who are rich. How he will treat them will be dependent on it.
It may come from halo effect, bad looks = bad intentions. Or genetic preservation where the elites shouldn't be with the lowborns.

They think women need as much elevation as society can give.
Now men are the disenfranchised. But the narrative that is the most humanitarian will always pervade. Too many dudebro-coachers/ virtue signallers/ nonwhite leftists/ etc.
 
Primal value distribution is more important than good or evil. Lying is a good example.
We lie when it's wrong but we don't feel bad. But lies are about things that give people perceptions that give US primal evolutionary hierarchical value.
It's wrong. But it's equally as immoral as stealing something from someone. We steal the truth from them (even when it's of no protection for them, but it's of good ego boost to us) than stealing something from their house, or a grocery store. Sometimes a truth can be far worse. We usually care more about the physical thing because there's an easier avenue to acknowledging something material than abstract.

Lying is the manner/ gesture of how we are hungry for image boost/ primal self-examination value over... being truthful/ real/ community focused. We technically do evil everyday. We only do "evil" for power gain when the huge hail-mary/ rush for power is using a method/ function that doesn't have a trace/ avenue of detectability.
It takes something to be apprehended to be answerable/ accountable.
We try and stop the avenues of apprehension.
The most insecure/ the most self loathing are typically the most self-accountable. And the more condition based when it comes to self love/ esteem.

We all fear us cumulatively being inferior. Only when we know we are collectively superior are we happy and in joy in existence. It's just a natural/ healthy systematic reaction to understanding progress when we are insecure.

lying is merely humans attributing morals to the evolutionary strategy of deception

those who deceive are likely to suceed because evolution is about 1) proving fitness and 2) deceiving others that you are fit to mate
They say the higher the IQ, the heavier the heart due to the fact that the high IQ can have high empathy in many situations when plotting schemes. That's why races like the white race who are the most intelligent from evolutionary boosting have been heldback.
But you find rare geniuses like the jews who have no empathy, and thus no inhibitions/ heavyheartedness wehn trying to mine for their own power.

Many of mankind is lcoked down by pretty fallacious notions of what preservces mankind. I think a part of us hold back because we want the egoboost of love/ kindness. WE LIE yet we say we want to have real love?
No. We want the egoboost of achievement. Even those in the best graces lie to their friends.
Friendships/ relationships are all egoboosts.
But the ego is what holds us back and makes us not want to start pillaging society.
In my opinion ego is worthless because you're just imposing value for people based on... people who like you only for exchange value. The very process of socialization is selfish, ignoble, and cruel to those who have no value. It's just not often said because looking at dark/ shameful logistics like this are for buzzkill blackpill party pooper losers.

Morals have always been behind the majority of societal/ human behavior. Morals are put-on face.
To say that you should be entitled ot be unfair because mankind has been unfair to oyou is not based on conventions of morality.
It's based on the way the primal hierarchy/ societal hierarchy distributes value .WHen soemoen has been given more than you then it's a genetic priority to self-sustain/ get even/ get great with a place through means that are no less unfair than what you're going to do.

incorrect. it is law and agrarian society that prevents humans from killing each other. it is the existence of guns and tanks that close out evolutionary advantages that prevents us from killing each other. raids to kill and loot stopped the moment mustard gas and nuclear weapons were pointed and both sides were wealthly enough that warring meant risking their own lives for little gain.

examine aboriginals, raids and warring still occurs due to the lack human restrictions such as law, agriculture, social order and weapons that neutralize the benefits of raiding others
 
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Your posts are usually very autistic but I like this one. A shattered ego is one of the reasons why our lives are shit
 
lying is merely humans attributing morals to the evolutionary strategy of deception

those who deceive are likely to suceed because evolution is about 1) proving fitness and 2) deceiving others that you are fit to mate


incorrect. it is law and agrarian society that prevents humans from killing each other. it is the existence of guns and tanks that close out evolutionary advantages that prevents us from killing each other. raids to kill and loot stopped the moment mustard gas and nuclear weapons were pointed and both sides were wealthly enough that warring meant risking their own lives for little gain.

examine aboriginals, raids and warring still occurs due to the lack human restrictions such as law, agriculture, social order and weapons that neutralize the benefits of raiding others
Your initial response to my first string of sentences didn't contrast what I said.

Stalemating and deadlocking are obviously the main reasons that people don't do things that are of advantage. Benefit and detriment. You're contrasting what I think is self explanatory with just a different format of how it would be illustrated if put to light.
Your posts are usually very autistic but I like this one. A shattered ego is one of the reasons why our lives are shit
Well don't just have it as a lost cause lmao. Pm me if you wanna have me clarify it. All my posts come from a very same kind of reasoning as this.
I'm just wondering which one probably imprinted the biggest impression that made you think it was autistic.






K, so
Some are very heavyhearted. Don't deny that. But it's all predicated on notions that have nothing really to do with loving all the community of humanity. Halo effect is extremely dominant in the judgment systems of the genral population. Girls who are trained to act like selective sluts, but also with the personality of cutie pies are huge evidence that they like to be empathetic, but low key judgmental.
Harley Quinn is an example of a spunky/ laidback outer image, but one that has a lot of underlying selectivity also.
Being like a han solo where you're an asshole with a heart of gold... that's kind of the prevailing theme, but that's just the best possible surface explanation for the judgment of people. It's a go-to evasion mechanism.

Many of us are born heavyhearted but I think that's just a defense mechanism in most poeple's cases so we can pussyfoot to elitehood. The higher the IQ then it's typical that usually the more deeply you can feel the plights/ issues of others. This may have a high chance to hit empathy/ sympathy recepticles in the mind. But OVERALL they can be easily subverted through intellectualization (passive intellectualization, or having intelligence, and our capacity to think layers our emotions. It's not really an action so much as a passive state. It could make us have a propensity to be hard/ difficult/ overly organizational with oruselves. This could make people more superficial/ snooty/ unfeeling as well.
 
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