
Sheogorath
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I Cheated on My Boyfriend with My Rapist
By seducing my assaulter, I was reclaiming the control I’d lost over my body and identity.

Lana Hoch in 2018 said:I knew I should be ashamed and, frankly, worried that my boyfriend—who I’d been with for a year and would go on to date for another three—would find out. But I was neither. Instead, I felt like I’d scratched a hard-to-reach itch. Cheating wasn’t something I took lightly, but whatever deep-seated need I’d satisfied that night was more important than fidelity.
When do men write stuff like this?