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Blackpill Modern music is 99% about relationships and sex

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Turning on the radio will result in a wave of depression since you can be sure that it will be about a relationship of sorts with the exception of a few songs. It is a sad reality but it shows the propensity of society to value relationships. Modern music or specifically pop music is a reflection of society and its values. Society downplays the benefits and prevalence of relationships yet pushes it into mainstream music which the majority approves. Quoting bigohmusic, "Music is the greatest communication in the world." [https://www.bigohmusic.com/music-now-vs-then/] This shows society's message of disapproval to the general population of anyone not leading a sexual lifestyle.

Of the top 100 songs: [https://www.billboard.com/charts/hot-100]
You'll be hard pressed to find one that makes no such reference.

Rap music is often the only break from such lyrics yet the underlying theme is "Money & Women" which is why even it is not completely clean of the relationship theme. This is a shift in the underlying motifs of music from the 80's and earlier where songs where meaningful and not just women and relationships but about friendship and happiness. That's not to say it never existed however quoting Odyssey, "The sentiment in music has changed from “Honey, I love you” to “I just want to kiss you down low.” [https://www.theodysseyonline.com/music-now-vs-then].

The general trend is towards the sexual aspects of a relationship and personally the future will see simply a description of the shallow act of sex with one or even multiple partners. Soon turning on the radio will cause a sense of repulsion.
 
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Rap is just music that blacks use to complain about how they are "Oppressed" when people like us complain, they call us "School Shooters"
 
That’s why I don’t listen to mainstream music or any music with lyrics.
 
"But life isn't all about relationships and sex bro, just stop listening 99% of music bro"
 
All modern media revolves around sex.
 
Anything dealing with these themes anno Current Year is almost certainly fetid shit anyway.

One must turn one's ears in other directions.



STERILE

Like staggering through a crowd of hostile bodies. Listen to that syncopation.
 
>radio
don't subject yourself to corporate conditioning.
 
One more reason why I prefer ambient and it's subgenres
 
Tbh all musics in the 20th century is about relationships and sex, just look at the lyrics to Beatles, Elvis, Abba, it's all about the most important thing, love.
 
Mainstream/normie pop music is potent ropefuel. Listen to electronic, metal, or classical.
 
Go lounge music !!!
 
All either has money,drugs, how much better they are than you or sex in it. I guarantee you will have a hard time finding something without that in it. No point being original if the standard formula makes you more money.
 
"sex doesnt matter that much bro"
 
Modern music is one of the many brainwashing tools they use for turning masses into promiscuous degenerates which in turn will destroy the family and stray us further away from God.
 
So it has always been.
We are missing out on a vital part of life in terms of life enjoyment.

You cannot live happily if you live in solitude.
 
>listening to music with lyrics
Plebs please.
 
Atleast modern rap is allowed to be openly sexist and call out how women are whores
 
Listen to prog rock; the genre was created with the intention of using lyrical themes different than love and relationships, such as science fiction, literature, and concept stories.
 
If you grew up in the 90s, you'd have found 99% of rock music from that era which was on the radio and TV music stations 24/7 had nothing to do with relationships.

I could post hundreds to thousands of examples.

eg.


^ Song about how today is the greatest day because things can't possibly get any worse


^ Song about feeling like a "man in a box" and blinded due to censorship in the media


^ Song about self destruction and the destructive forces that govern our nature


^Song about the on TV suicide of R. Budd Dwyer


^ Song about the real life kidnap, rape, and torture of a 14 year old girl by Gerald Arthur Friend

If the videos wouldn't automatically embed, I would post another 100.

You guys are just unfortunate to have not been able to grow up with grunge, which was the purest mainstream music genre from the perspective of avoiding relationship nonsense and focusing on the darker elements of our humanity.

It's a very strange and surreal feeling to hear a song like Polly on the radio knowing what it is. But I've heard in many times on many stations.

This is unfortunately also why many grunge singers have killed themselves. Many of them were heavy mentalcels. Bad for them. But made their music very relatable.
 
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>not listening to Yakuza OST 24/7
plebs
 
Tbh all musics in the 20th century is about relationships and sex, just look at the lyrics to Beatles, Elvis, Abba, it's all about the most important thing, love.
Funny thing for me... As I think love is itself just an illusion.
 
Modern music is one of the many brainwashing tools they use for turning masses into promiscuous degenerates which in turn will destroy the family and stray us further away from God.
 
Listen to prog rock; the genre was created with the intention of using lyrical themes different than love and relationships, such as science fiction, literature, and concept stories.

Excellent taste.



If you grew up in the 90s, you'd have found 99% of rock music from that era which was on the radio and TV music stations 24/7 had nothing to do with relationships.

I could post hundreds to thousands of examples.

eg.


^ Song about how today is the greatest day because things can't possibly get any worse


^ Song about feeling like a "man in a box" and blinded due to censorship in the media


^ Song about self destruction and the destructive forces that govern our nature


^Song about the on TV suicide of R. Budd Dwyer


^ Song about the real life kidnap, rape, and torture of a 14 year old girl by Gerald Arthur Friend

If the videos wouldn't automatically embed, I would post another 100.

You guys are just unfortunate to have not been able to grow up with grunge, which was the purest mainstream music genre from the perspective of avoiding relationship nonsense and focusing on the darker elements of our humanity.

It's a very strange and surreal feeling to hear a song like Polly on the radio knowing what it is. But I've heard in many times on many stations.

This is unfortunately also why many grunge singers have killed themselves. Many of them were heavy mentalcels. Bad for them. But made their music very relatable.

Likewise. And a lot of this stuff was the culturally dominant, most popular music of its time.



Most of my favorite music was probably made in the 90s.

Anyone bothered by the excessive focus popular music places on love should be happy to know there's a song specifically addressing this issue:



Love crops up quite a lot as something to sing about
Cos most groups make most of their songs about falling in love
Or how happy they are to be in love
You occasionally wonder why these groups do sing about it all the time -
It's because these groups think there's something very special about it
Either that or else it's because everybody else sings about it and always has
You know to burst into song you have to be inspired
And nothing inspires quite like love

These groups and singers think that they appeal to everyone
By singing about love because apparently everyone has or can love
Or so they would have you believe anyway
But these groups seem to go along with what, the belief
That love is deep in everyone's personality
I don't think we're saying there's anything wrong with love
We just don't think that what goes on between two people
Should be shrouded with mystery.


And these themes can even be alright when they appear in the context of imploding relationships:

 
All music revolves around sex and relationships from the beginning of time because its the best feeling in the world
 
Popular music has been always fucking shit, that's why i prefer to listen less popular bands because otherwise 99.99% of the time popular music is about love, sex or activities things which says a lot about their artistic value which is 0. You should do the same and listen to band that talk about isolation, depression, politics and philosophy.
 
You have children listening to genius lyrics like "I wanna fuck you hard on the sink." And people think this has no effect on them.
 
it's impossible to stop reminding yourself of your inceldom unless you go full on hermit.
 
I could never get into of music as a teenager the same way my peers did. I enjoyed the melodies and sound dynamics of a lot of songs, but only a few songs would have an emotional impact on me (e.g. Oasis- Supersonic, Johnny Cash - Hurt). I never got the sentiment most songs are supposed to inspire in the listener.
I think this is partly because I am not a particularly emotional person, but also because I can't really imagine or relate to emotions emanating from romance and heartbreak.
 
Turning on the radio will result in a wave of depression since you can be sure that it will be about a relationship of sorts with the exception of a few songs. It is a sad reality but it shows the propensity of society to value relationships. Modern music or specifically pop music is a reflection of society and its values. Society downplays the benefits and prevalence of relationships yet pushes it into mainstream music which the majority approves. Quoting bigohmusic, "Music is the greatest communication in the world." [https://www.bigohmusic.com/music-now-vs-then/] This shows society's message of disapproval to the general population of anyone not leading a sexual lifestyle.

Of the top 100 songs: [https://www.billboard.com/charts/hot-100]
You'll be hard pressed to find one that makes no such reference.

Rap music is often the only break from such lyrics yet the underlying theme is "Money & Women" which is why even it is not completely clean of the relationship theme. This is a shift in the underlying motifs of music from the 80's and earlier where songs where meaningful and not just women and relationships but about friendship and happiness. That's not to say it never existed however quoting Odyssey, "The sentiment in music has changed from “Honey, I love you” to “I just want to kiss you down low.” [https://www.theodysseyonline.com/music-now-vs-then].

The general trend is towards the sexual aspects of a relationship and personally the future will see simply a description of the shallow act of sex with one or even multiple partners. Soon turning on the radio will cause a sense of repulsion.

Yes, the overwhelming majority of modern music concerns love, sex and romantic relationships. Should that come as any surprise, considering that the vast majority of all artistic endeavors, both ancient and recent, were dedicated to the erotic. That musicians still rhapsodize about what musicians always have and always will shouldn't be any great surprise, should it? Dante endured his travails through Hell, guided by grim Virgil, for the sake of Beatrice who would one day lead him by the hand through Heaven. After sealing his pact with Mephistopheles, the Faust who once claimed that he would be willing to sell his soul to learn the mechanisms that drove the stars in their mysterious courses demanded to become young again so he could seduce a pretty woman who caught his eye. Because, let's be honest, what are the mysteries of the universe compared to the embrace of a woman who wants to embrace you? Ancient, desperate and half-insane, it wasn't God that Faustus prayed to for salvation but rather the Spirit of Nature because, regardless of how intelligent we would like to consider ourselves, the voluptuous pleasures of the Garden are infinitely more tantalizing than the nebulous joys of a Heaven forbidden to things born constrained by little prisons fashioned from flesh, blood and bone.

Our musicians sing about love and romance because that's the mystery appropriate for us. That's the echo of Heaven's endless song that we should have been granted license to listen to. It was supposed to be our little taste of Paradise as men condemned to live our brief, brutal little lives down here ensared in the folds of the Veil of Tears. We were meant to find our mates and, on occasion, lose them. We were supposed to have wives and fight with them and, for good or for evil, possibly reconcile with them. Human beings compose songs for the ears of fellow human beings and the closest our race can ever hope to come to the divine is participating in the mysteries of creation. "Be fruitful and multiply" was the first commandment God gave to man and every work of poetry has been nothing more than a variation upon this oldest of themes. Semjaza fell for the sake of love because, when Enoch the man felt inspired to tell the story of an angel, he couldn't help but imagine an angel who sacrificed the joys of Heaven for a pretty woman and the children he fathered with her. Pathetic thing though he was, nothing more than a miserable worm when scrutinized by the eyes of the Most High, the love of his own children granted Semjaza the courage to stand up before God Himself.

To be loved and, through this strange miracle, participate in God's nature as creator is the closest to divinity men can ever hope to approach. So our poets compose rhymes in honor of this messy little mystery, artists paint their great works dedicated to its power, and our mystics who want to speak of union with the divine have no choice but to make use of erotic metaphors. Even those damned to Hell recognize the beauty of Heaven's music. Perhaps that's why they scream so loudly; having been denied the privilege of lending their voices to the choir by virtue of their ugliness, they cry loudly enough to drown the sound of its beauty out.
 
Love and sex (the two must go together) is the closest thing normal people can have to experience something of the Absolute, but it isn't the only way. You mention Dante but it is worth pointing out that he only uses Beatrice as a mean to an end. When realization of the divine has been achieved, she is left behind.

It goes without saying that the greatest music has nothing whatsoever to do with the erotic. That was the case in ancient times, but also in recent history:




And in modern times you'll find music nominally referencing love but the focus of which is of quite a different nature:



Jazz melodies are culled from the popular music of the early 20th century, which was all about romance and love, but jazz itself has nothing to do with this.
 
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I'm not interested in R&B, pop or whatever other stuff is in the mainstream right now. So I don't really listen to radio at all.

I do like listening to heavy metal songs, even j-rock and j-metal. Not being able to understand what they are saying most of the time is part of the allure since it keeps their voices from becoming too distracting (words in a song usually mean nothing to me anyway).
 
It's funny, there were very few love songs written before the 20th century. I can't think of even one love song by Bach. Most of his music was about his love for God, not his love for some skank.

 
"Realcel"
Seems legit
 
Ever since the sexual revolution there has been a lot of sex in music probably more or less starting with Elvis.
I would say the main problem now is the dominant genres are pop and rap music and pop has always been garbage while rap has always been about degenerate hood shit so that's why every fucking song is about sex.

When rock was popular I would say maybe 50% of songs involved sex or relationships now it's like 95%.
 
Radio stations poll thousands of people to find out which song they are most likely to switch to a different station. This explains the entire problem. In the 90s you could make a song about say freedom. Let us say it was a topic that 10% of the people were moved by. They would then go buy your CD and if no other band made a song about freedom then you would have a huge hit because 10 percent of everybody is a fucking large amount of people. So that song would then make it to the charts.
But now that they poll people and play only songs that get the largest amount of votes you won't have songs that greatly speak to a lot of people like Nirvana. You will only have songs that somewhat speak to everybody. And this applies to love songs more than anything because love is a topic that applies to everyone in some way.
The main problem and difference to the 90s and before is just how radio stations determine what they play.
 
I've spent a lot of time as a neet listening to countless albums, trying to understand music - all kinds of music, trying to analyze it from a universal perspective.

I've figured that almost all popular music is a type of emotional manipulation.

When people listen to music over a period of time they should step back and ask themselves if the music they listen to is making them happy. Often the music you think you enjoy is only enjoyable to you because it is creating an emotional trigger in you.

Another reason why music is so appealing is because of it's kinetic energy, it has tension and build ups and a release. I like to listen to this rather than music that relies on emotion.

Personally I don't care too much about the lyrics though...unless it really sappy.
 
work in retail while normie music play on :feelsree:
 
You can omit "modern" and it would still hold true.
 

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