Men past their early 20s are basically boomers who don't understand how modern dating works

[mylifeistrash]

women who are around 18 grew up with smart phones. they always selected men via social media, instagram, etc.
in a younger foid's eyes, it's completely natural for women to do the selecting and men to shut the fuck up, be quiet and know their role as a non-chad
so when some PUA guy who is 10 years out of touch tries to approach a woman, she thinks "wtf is this? isn't this illegal?"


but older guys don't understand this. they were in their prime HS dating years before smart phones and hooking up via instagram got popular. a 26 year old male is the equivalent to a delusional baby boomer, giving his shitty outdated advice about meeting girls through social circle or going to the club.

if your advice doesn't involve being a chad and using instagram/tinder, then please shut the fuck up and don't give it. it will get some guy put in jail or his life ruined via #meToo

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

Older guys think being used as an ATM is what a proper relationship is, they dont even know how Chad has it.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

so when some PUA guy who is 10 years out of touch tries to approach a woman, she thinks "wtf is this? isn't this illegal?"

lol

 

[Mainländer]

I'm exactly like you said, a 30 yo boomer whose prime was in the pre-smartphone era, but since I kept going out recently, yeah, I noticed how much things changed. It's also tricky to "give tips" to people since everyone is from different countries here and the realities may vary slightly or even a lot.

But yeah, if you're not gl, clubs and bars are not for you. In the few times I encouraged people to approach here I always specified it should be done in open air events and places like that and that you shouldn't do it if you're sub 4 or from gigacucked countries where you can get jailed for eye rape or speech rape or whatever crazy shit feminists come up with.

 

[InMyCellInHell]

Your childhood will most likely act as a preview of the rest of your life when it comes to your social status. It's not always the case, but I'd like to believe far more often than not, it does.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Cold approaching foids is actually illegal in the UK and could land you in jail or on the sex offenders register.

 

[LastGerman]

But yeah, if you're not gl, clubs and bars are not for you. In the few times I encouraged people to approach here I always specified it should be done in open air events and places like that and that you shouldn't do it if you're sub 4 or from gigacucked countries where you can get jailed for eye rape or speech rape or whatever crazy shit feminists come up with.

I really do not get it. They say be confident and talk to females, but on the other hand they say do not bother them or creep them out... So, there is actually nothing we can do about it. Doomed if you do it and doomed if you do not do it.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

if your advice doesn't involve being a chad and using instagram/tinder, then please shut the fuck up and don't give it. it will get some guy put in jail or his life ruined via #meToo

Even on this forum you get clueless aspies who think you can get a gf by being "NT and low inhib".

 

[Cuyen]

Older guys think being used as an ATM is what a proper relationship is, they dont even know how Chad has it.

true lol

 

[GoonCel]

Cold approaching foids is actually illegal in the UK and could land you in jail or on the sex offenders register.

worst country in the west

 

[ChinaCurry]

Even on this forum you get clueless aspies who think you can get a gf by being "NT and low inhib".

why cant you? I dont think getting a.GF is hard, I think most people here who are 4+ could get one if they run beta game. I think if you are low inhib and NT you can get a.hook up as long as you are 6+, so that just proves us autists and spergs, as well as the truecels, have it worst

 

[Joelossus]

Older guys think being used as an ATM is what a proper relationship is, they dont even know how Chad has it.

That's what being a "real man" is in their eyes.

 

[frustratedhapa]

I'm 29 and trust me, I understand

 

[KingOfRome]

Even on this forum you get clueless aspies who think you can get a gf by being "NT and low inhib".

Their belief in this lie is a symptom of their mental handicap, and they should be pitied for it.

why cant you? I dont think getting a.GF is hard, I think most people here who are 4+ could get one if they run beta game. I think if you are low inhib and NT you can get a.hook up as long as you are 6+, so that just proves us autists and spergs, as well as the truecels, have it worst

You don't have to be anything if you're 6+. You're already good to go at that point; being NT and low inhib would just be capitalizing on what you already have. Nobody is 6+ and incel.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Social media is designed to make it easier to distinguish the popular from the unpopular.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

lmfao i managed to befriend a guy who is normal, good looking despite some NW, frequently has girls over and so on, and...

absolutely everything he does is based around the people he used to know in highschool, or college. either some girls he used to go to college with will come visit him and stay at his pace, or he'll visit his hometown to hangout with girls he used to go to school with, or he'll get a call from one of these people trying to set him up with someone and showing him FB pics of her.

he doesn't do shit to approach women, not at the gym, not at the bar, not on the street, nothing.
he uninstalled dating apps because he got no results from them.

his friends are doing worse and show much more obvious signs of having been approached by women rather than the other way around, they're tied up and without fail the women are older, shorter, wealthier, etc... clear signs of a woman selecting her boytoy rather than the man picking a cute young bride.

 

[mylifeistrash]

lmfao i managed to befriend a guy who is normal, good looking despite some NW, frequently has girls over and so on, and...

absolutely everything he does is based around the people he used to know in highschool, or college. either some girls he used to go to college with will come visit him and stay at his pace, or he'll visit his hometown to hangout with girls he used to go to school with, or he'll get a call from one of these people trying to set him up with someone and showing him FB pics of her.

he doesn't do shit to approach women, not at the gym, not at the bar, not on the street, nothing.
he uninstalled dating apps because he got no results from them.

his friends are doing worse and show much more obvious signs of having been approached by women rather than the other way around, they're tied up and without fail the women are older, shorter, wealthier, etc... clear signs of a woman selecting her boytoy rather than the man picking a cute young bride.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

uninstall's last podcasts are about how he gets increasingly nasty reactions from approaching now

Fuck normies by Uninstall

Fuck normies

anchor.fm

 

[Arch Anemone]

but older guys don't understand this. they were in their prime HS dating years before smart phones and hooking up via instagram got popular. a 26 year old male is the equivalent to a delusional baby boomer, giving his shitty outdated advice about meeting girls through social circle or going to the club.

I'm 42, I started spreading the blackpill around 2009 when the original okcupid statistics were released.

Before then I had an idea things were changing, as far back as the 90s, but I didn't have any proof. In the past 10 years has done nothing but strengthen and validate my observations of pre-internet to internet.

I don't want to blow my own horn, but I predicted this 10 years ago. I have written proof online that goes back to 2012 when I was warning that there was a real problem and normies would rebuff me. They would literally laugh at my predictions. I predicted Elliot. I predicted Alek.

I saw the bullied start taking things into their own hands when Columbine happened. That was my wake up call. I just saw things getting worse and worse.

Nothing changes the world like the angry young man.

I'm old now. Nobody cares about me. I'll probably be nothing but another suicide statistic that will be ignored, or I might have stroke before I get the guts.

But still, I write and fight because I know the pain you feel. There is a problem, and I don't know how to solve it, but we can't ignore it as a society any longer.

 

[Deleted member 19236]

she thinks "wtf is this? isn't this illegal?"

Every day in my life.

 

[ihaveno1]

this is so true, anyone who didn't go through high school with social media and smartphones being huge things were living in a completely different realty

 

[Deleted member 14382]

worst country in the west

And, this is the country that has criticized the middle east for having a backwards ideology on dating. Fucking hypocrites.

I'm 42, I started spreading the blackpill around 2009 when the original okcupid statistics were released.

Before then I had an idea things were changing, as far back as the 90s, but I didn't have any proof. In the past 10 years has done nothing but strengthen and validate my observations of pre-internet to internet.

I don't want to blow my own horn, but I predicted this 10 years ago. I have written proof online that goes back to 2012 when I was warning that there was a real problem and normies would rebuff me. They would literally laugh at my predictions. I predicted Elliot. I predicted Alek.

I saw the bullied start taking things into their own hands when Columbine happened. That was my wake up call. I just saw things getting worse and worse.

Nothing changes the world like the angry young man.

I'm old now. Nobody cares about me. I'll probably be nothing but another suicide statistic that will be ignored, or I might have stroke before I get the guts.

But still, I write and fight because I know the pain you feel. There is a problem, and I don't know how to solve it, but we can't ignore it as a society any longer.

I'm 49, and I was one of the first openly misogynist blackpillers way back in 1989. This was a time when NO ONE expressed these sentiments, and most guys were heavily bluepilled. Everyone thought I was mentally ill back then. People told my parents I needed therapy. Now, 30 years later, it turns out I was right all along. I was the sane one, and everyone else needed therapy!

To the site's creators: I did NOT edit this post! Why does it say that in the lower right?? You took it upon yourselves to merge my posts, and that registered as an "edit". Flawed system. Consider fixing it.

 

[Deleted member 18435]

I really do not get it. They say be confident and talk to females, but on the other hand they say do not bother them or creep them out... So, there is actually nothing we can do about it. Doomed if you do it and doomed if you do not do it.

Meanwhile other guys get their seemingly longterm girlfriends naturally/effortlessly. "Just exist as a desirable male bro" JFL. It makes perfect sense why certain men choose to not interact as much with women when the lackluster treatment compared to others and rejection is basically always guaranteed.

 

[ChinaCurry]

Their belief in this lie is a symptom of their mental handicap, and they should be pitied for it.

You don't have to be anything if you're 6+. You're already good to go at that point; being NT and low inhib would just be capitalizing on what you already have. Nobody is 6+ and incel.

No I'm saying if u r 6+, but a sperg, then u will be incel

 

[ovrload]

26 year old male is the equivalent to a delusional baby boomer, giving his shitty outdated advice about meeting girls through social circle or going to the club.

i never been to a club in my life and im 26 next month JFL.

 

[acnescarcel]

for some reason the boomer meme makes me lol hard

 

[ovrload]

worst country in the west

tbh you know you're not attractive enough to females if you have to cold approach. this is the brutal reality for men.

 

[Bakura806]

JFL this is so true as an ugly man you must know your place in society and never step out of line.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

To the site's creators: I did NOT edit this post! Why does it say that in the lower right?? You took it upon yourselves to merge my posts, and that registered as an "edit". Flawed system. Consider fixing it.

 

[Ultimate Brohan]

"Giving his shitty outdated advice about meeting girls through social circle or going to the club."

Only works for Chad.

 

[ovrload]

"Giving his shitty outdated advice about meeting girls through social circle or going to the club."

Only works for Chad.

i dont know why manlets go to the clubs, even good looking manlets struggle when theres 6'4 chads on the prowl.

 

[Evildоer]

We have it much worse than any generation before us.

 

[Deleted member 14382]

"I'm not gonna let this become another factor that CONTRIBUTES to me being an ineffectual NOTHING for the rest of my life!"

 

[Gymcelled]

Almost 25 and I agree. The internet changed so much in 10-15 years.

For the younger ones here, let me tell you that before social media became a thing, everyone had the complete opposite attitude online.
Everyone would constantly say

NEVER GIVE YOUR NAME OR ANY INFO TO ANYONE ONLINE
NEVER TRUST ANYONE
NEVER UPLOAD ANY PICTURES OF YOURSELF

And in just a few yours everything flipped. People started talking about their entire life, uploading thousands of pictures, even very personal ones with their friends and families.

All of a sudden the internet was no longer for work, porn or nerds. Now everyone was on it. The entire culture changed.

The internet went from being the wild west filled with anonymous people to a normie clubhouse.

 

[blackcel]

The most legit advice for anyone who is a fakecel i s to just ignore women and do shit that involves interacting with other women. Eventually you will find some girl that is into you. Of course you can't be an autist, join a sewing class or some shit, never talk to anyone, and expect a girl to randomly throw herself at you. It is true that it is over if you actually have to try, but women do drop hints when they are interested.

 

[Gymcelled]

The most legit advice for anyone who is a fakecel i s to just ignore women and do shit that involves interacting with other women. Eventually you will find some girl that is into you. Of course you can't be an autist, join a sewing class or some shit, never talk to anyone, and expect a girl to randomly throw herself at you. It is true that it is over if you actually have to try, but women do drop hints when they are interested.

The problem is that normies think that that's legit how it works for EVERYONE. Eventually someone is attracted to you right? Eventually the both of you just click?

But no, that's not how it works for some of us and they'll never accept it.

That's why they immediately come up with the basement dweller and the "you don't shower" thing. In their mind there's only two solutions

1) You never leave your house. That's why you're not getting women haha! You don't interact with them! If you did you'd find one who likes you.

2) So you do leave your house huh? Well ... you must stink then, take a shower bro. That's right, they're so incapable of abstract thought that when you tell them people are repulsed by you the only thing they can come up with is stench. That's the least abstract concept so they latch onto it.

And if you tell them that yes, you leave your house and don't stink then they'll just say oh yeh well you're a terrible person. Ignoring the fact that murderous psychopaths are extremely successful. Ignoring the tinder catfish using pedos, nazis etc. Ignoring the fact that there are studies out there showing that aggression, dominance etc are positive traits in the eyes of women.

 

[blackcel]

The problem is that normies think that that's legit how it works for EVERYONE. Eventually someone is attracted to you right? Eventually the both of you just click?

But no, that's not how it works for some of us and they'll never accept it.

That's why they immediately come up with the basement dweller and the "you don't shower" thing. In their mind there's only two solutions

1) You never leave your house. That's why you're not getting women haha! You don't interact with them! If you did you'd find one who likes you.

2) So you do leave your house huh? Well ... you must stink then, take a shower bro. That's right, they're so incapable of abstract thought that when you tell them people are repulsed by you the only thing they can come up with is stench. That's the least abstract concept so they latch onto it.

And if you tell them that yes, you leave your house and don't stink then they'll just say oh yeh well you're a terrible person. Ignoring the fact that murderous psychopaths are extremely successful. Ignoring the tinder catfish using pedos, nazis etc. Ignoring the fact that there are studies out there showing that aggression, dominance etc are positive traits in the eyes of women.

Yep, it is so easy for normies that they are simply incapable of understanding as to how someone can be an incel.

This is also why I hate all of the fakecels here who never even fucking tried because they have low self esteem. Legit just go outside, be NT, don't be a tryhard, interact with people and your fakecel ass will eventually find a gf. Or at least one girl who is willing to sleep with you.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

For the younger ones here, let me tell you that before social media became a thing, everyone had the complete opposite attitude online.
Everyone would constantly say

NEVER GIVE YOUR NAME OR ANY INFO TO ANYONE ONLINE
NEVER TRUST ANYONE
NEVER UPLOAD ANY PICTURES OF YOURSELF

Yeah, I remember this being the case when I still was a little kid and the internet had just become mainstream. Now, people have thrown all of that out of the window and children are being encouraged to make social media profiles where they cover every detail of their lives. The moment people started using their real names as usernames was the day the internet died.

 

[Gymcelled]

Yep, it is so easy for normies that they are simply incapable of understanding as to how someone can be an incel.

This is also why I hate all of the fakecels here who never even fucking tried because they have low self esteem. Legit just go outside, be NT, don't be a tryhard, interact with people and your fakecel ass will eventually find a gf. Or at least one girl who is willing to sleep with you.

Meanwhile there's people like us. Not once in my life have I ever gotten a single IOI.

 

[Deleted member 14382]

The problem is that normies think that that's legit how it works for EVERYONE. Eventually someone is attracted to you right? Eventually the both of you just click?

But no, that's not how it works for some of us and they'll never accept it.

That's why they immediately come up with the basement dweller and the "you don't shower" thing. In their mind there's only two solutions

1) You never leave your house. That's why you're not getting women haha! You don't interact with them! If you did you'd find one who likes you.

2) So you do leave your house huh? Well ... you must stink then, take a shower bro. That's right, they're so incapable of abstract thought that when you tell them people are repulsed by you the only thing they can come up with is stench. That's the least abstract concept so they latch onto it.

And if you tell them that yes, you leave your house and don't stink then they'll just say oh yeh well you're a terrible person. Ignoring the fact that murderous psychopaths are extremely successful. Ignoring the tinder catfish using pedos, nazis etc. Ignoring the fact that there are studies out there showing that aggression, dominance etc are positive traits in the eyes of women.

It's very simple, really. If you step outside your house, and women aren't immediately looking at you, then they don't want to look at you.

Contrary to popular belief, human mating is not a "numbers game". If 5 women don't find you attractive, the next 500 women won't like you either due to the fact that female sexual preference in men is monolithic. They're all the fucking same. All over the world. How a handful of women react toward you is a proxy for how ALL women will react towards you. Period.

So, you can "leave your house" all you want. It won't take long for you to realize that you're an undesirable. Unless you're a Baby Boomer, that is. In that case, you'll continue playing your "numbers game" ad nauseum with zero results.

 

[Gymcelled]

It's very simple, really. If you step outside your house, and women aren't immediately looking at you, then they don't want to look at you.

Contrary to popular belief, human mating is not a "numbers game". If 5 women don't find you attractive, the next 500 women won't like you either due to the fact that female sexual preference in men is monolithic. They're all the fucking same. All over the world. How a handful of women react toward you is a proxy for how ALL women will react towards you. Period.

So, you can "leave your house" all you want. It won't take long for you to realize that you're an undesirable. Unless you're a Baby Boomer, that is. In that case, you'll continue playing your "numbers game" ad nauseum with zero results.

Also I'd like to add that there's a spiral effect. The more successful you are, the more wanted you are.
There are studies showing that when a given male becomes married, has a gf, or bangs a lot he's seen as more desirable.

If you're kissless virgin you get the opposite effect. No women ever thinks you're worth it.

 

[Deleted member 14382]

Meanwhile there's people like us. Not once in my life have I ever gotten a single IOI.

Just lower your standards, brah.....

 

[Captvic]

High IQ thread.

 

[Gymcelled]

Just lower your standards, brah.....

Yeah again that just shows how women can't think differently. When they can't get chad/chadlite they just go for average guys etc

They just cannot comprehend the idea of everyone being repulsed by you.

 

[StormlitAqua]

I'm in a couple far right/WN discord servers, and in one I have chats with a 29 year old dude who claims it's my fault I'm incel. He himself is about 5'7, colored (portugese/Latin lover), and claims to be attractive to women (likely related to the color).

I told him about my 3 attempts on tinder and 1 on bumble and about how my 800-1200ish swipes netted me a total of 0 matches, and the first thing he asks: "What's your bio?". I told him it was short, only put my height, interests, and my occupation. He fuddled around and really gave me no solid answer. He ended u pasking about the pics, then somehow came to cope that taking a picture with a puppy that "wasn't mine" was bad.

I think that sums up your point succinctly... how someone just 5 years older that I be so lost. It's INSANE how fast and rigidly things changed. The combination of leftist morality perversion and technology hit one generation and not the next.

Good thread MLIT.

 

[Deleted member 14382]

Yeah again that just shows how women can't think differently. When they can't get chad/chadlite they just go for average guys etc

They just cannot comprehend the idea of everyone being repulsed by you.

The reality is that a woman's looks is NOT correlated with her sexual preferences. Foids are not attracted to their looksmatch. Just because a woman is ugly doesn't mean she desires an ugly male. This is obvious to us, but most normie idiots have a hard time wrapping their pea-sized brains around this simple concept.

 

[Gymcelled]

I told him about my 3 attempts on tinder and 1 on bumble and about how my 800-1200ish swipes netted me a total of 0 matches, and the first thing he asks: "What's your bio?". I told him it was short, only put my height, interests, and my occupation. He fuddled around and really gave me no solid answer. He ended u pasking about the pics, then somehow came to cope that taking a picture with a puppy that "wasn't mine" was bad.

Ah yes, I'm sure those 1200 women were so angry about the puppy picture. That must be it. JFL

 

[RopeMaXXer]

That graph showing rapid gains in online dating being the way people meet opposite gender completely defeated me and left me with a gaping anus.
The fuck am I supposed to do once the only socially acceptable way to find a partner is by playing a swiping eugenics simulator? I already tried, I get 0 matches, do I get to reroll or something?
lmfao

 

[StormlitAqua]

Ah yes, I'm sure those 1200 women were so angry about the puppy picture. That must be it. JFL

See that puppy pic is my ultimate NT normalfag rebuttal. It's a picture of me holding a baby pit bull puppy. It was not mine, but it was someone's at some party (New Year's i think? Or maybe for the Mayweather/McGregor fight? Halloween? Don't remember). The little bastard is cute as fuck (the dog). NT fags love to claim that you need pictures of you being social and doing stuff and that women love men with dogs and shit, but it all goes out the window when a short white man with a 54mm IPD is holding the little bull.

 

[KingOfRome]

No I'm saying if u r 6+, but a sperg, then u will be incel

Not the case. You'll be relatable to spergy females, and you'll be good-looking enough to pass the hypergamy threshold despite not being NT. Your autism might even be considered cute by NT females if it's mild.

Problem is spergs tend to be ugly, like around a 4/10. Bad genes come in packages.