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I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.

I see normies messaging girls all the time. Asking how their day has been, what their food is, and other trivial nonsense, you know how much normies love insufferable small talk. It’s just so cringe and unnatural to me especially when both parties are well aware of the fact that the man is only doing it PURELY because he wants to get in her pants.

You have to understand, she’s not going to date you, she is never going to fuck you, you’re just being another emotional tampon for her just so she can freely empty all her feelings and problems on you and use you as her free therapist and beyond that, she’s not interested in you, not even in the slightest.

So what do you gain from this? Sincerely, how is this profitable in any way? Does it help you cope, knowing you’re talking to the opposite sex while your better looking peers are fucking them?

Most girls don’t even want normal looking men to talk to them, let alone ugly men. You’re wasting your time but of course, even after being ghosted for the 500th time after 50 years of chatting with her, you won’t learn your lesson. You might act all tough and anti-simp on here, but deep down, you’re just like every other man in this shitty fucking world, desperate for female attention and validation. Pathetic.
 
Yeah… basically every foid online (apps, discord, Reddit) is looking for either emotional or financial simps. Even just matching and saying hi to them, we give them free validation, as if they don’t have enough.

Does it help you cope, knowing you’re talking to the opposite sex while your better looking peers are fucking them?

The brutal truth.
 
The only thing you should say to a femoid is "Suck my dick".
 
They fill the role of orbiters in hope that foid will eventually show mercy and allow him to pity sex on a few occasions, which usually happens after: (1) her previous HTN / Chadlite partner is done with her, or (2) her current partner is an oofy doofy / betabux normie

Otherwise they're white knights who only serve to jest, linguistically comfort and protect the majestic female who'll rarely or never let them fuck. But she'll let other men (HTNs and above) who aren't much of jesters / white knights to fuck her more, than the men (below HTN) who jestermax / white knight for her

IMO the vast majority of women are intellectually basic creatures. There's nothing to talk to them about, except when your intention is to decode her mindset, her method of reasoning and her thought patterns. The "talking phase" with females is just melodrama. Either you're fucking or you're not
 
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It’s just so cringe and unnatural to me especially when both parties are well aware of the fact that the man is only doing it PURELY because he wants to get in her pants.

A lot of women can tell this is happening to and it's why the ghosting happens.
 
I usually get really violent when talking to women.
 
as if they don’t have enough.
They don’t. The simple answer to this is that they are NEVER satisfied with the amount of attention they are presented with. Even on this forum where everything is predominantly dedicated to men, they’re trying their best to make it about themselves. Notice how badly the ones on r/inceltear invent fallacious screenshots of “misogynistic” men messaging them; they even love pretending that they are receiving validation, even if it is negative.
 
They fill the role of orbiters in hope that foid will eventually show mercy and allow him to pity sex on a few occasions, which usually happens after: (1) her previous HTN / Chadlite partner is done with her, or (2) her current partner is an oofy doofy / betabux normie
There is nothing more plaintive than this.

IMO the vast majority of women are intellectually basic creatures.
We shouldn’t generalize like this. I fully agree that on average, men are far more productive and competent than women will ever be (anyone else with half a fucking brain would also agree) but even I’d argue that not all women are intellectually inferior, purely because that is simply not realistic. It just so happens that they lack sufficient amount of motivation required to be ANYTHING but themselves. When you’re living in a society that ceaselessly pedestalizes you, then you’d see no reason to contribute to it. Women are constantly praised due to the candid fact that they’re inherently more valuable and therefor they see NO reason to create any further value within themselves, making them look like “basic creatures.”

The "talking phase" with females is just melodrama. Either you're fucking or you're not
Correct. No such thing as “game” or “pick-up lines.” You’re either fuckable or not. End of story.

it's why the ghosting happens.
They don’t mind it but only as long as the man is good looking and it’s not like women are not inclined to this as well, it’s not just men. Feel free to chadfish it for yourself. They’d do anything as long as it yields being wrangled by chad for 5 milliseconds.
 
This is why I made a vow to never talk to foids online unless it's to troll them. By talking to them they get what they crave the most (attention) while I get nothing.
 
This is why I made a vow to never talk to foids online unless it's to troll them. By talking to them they get what they crave the most (attention) while I get nothing.
Based.
 
After over a decade of social media, the men who still try to hit on foids via DMs or validate their online presence in any other shape or form (liking their pics or comment etc.) are the most pathetic.
 
Eh, if you take long enough, even if it's with guys and even if it's platonic you still get ghosted lol, it's hard to keep up any contact
 
I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.

I see normies messaging girls all the time. Asking how their day has been, what their food is, and other trivial nonsense, you know how much normies love insufferable small talk. It’s just so cringe and unnatural to me especially when both parties are well aware of the fact that the man is only doing it PURELY because he wants to get in her pants.


:chad: :chad: :chad: :chad: :chad:
 
FACTS 1000%

THIS IS WHY THE REDPILL IS SHIT
 
This is why I made a vow to never talk to foids online unless it's to troll them. By talking to them they get what they crave the most (attention) while I get nothing.
that's a great avi conceptually. Though as a hentai rapeman could have been much more rapey
 
I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.

I see normies messaging girls all the time. Asking how their day has been, what their food is, and other trivial nonsense, you know how much normies love insufferable small talk. It’s just so cringe and unnatural to me especially when both parties are well aware of the fact that the man is only doing it PURELY because he wants to get in her pants.

You have to understand, she’s not going to date you, she is never going to fuck you, you’re just being another emotional tampon for her just so she can freely empty all her feelings and problems on you and use you as her free therapist and beyond that, she’s not interested in you, not even in the slightest.

So what do you gain from this? Sincerely, how is this profitable in any way? Does it help you cope, knowing you’re talking to the opposite sex while your better looking peers are fucking them?

Most girls don’t even want normal looking men to talk to them, let alone ugly men. You’re wasting your time but of course, even after being ghosted for the 500th time after 50 years of chatting with her, you won’t learn your lesson. You might act all tough and anti-simp on here, but deep down, you’re just like every other man in this shitty fucking world, desperate for female attention and validation. Pathetic.

View: https://youtube.com/shorts/_vNbRPVMh64?feature=share


View: https://youtube.com/shorts/oLE1Mlw5ikg?feature=share
 
Tinder came along in 2012 and killed any notions of hope. Only fools would be messaging expecting anything back now.
 
Preprogrammed behavior, I blame Walt Disney and Hollywood for this coupled with MKULTRA and jewish influence
 
I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.

I see normies messaging girls all the time. Asking how their day has been, what their food is, and other trivial nonsense, you know how much normies love insufferable small talk. It’s just so cringe and unnatural to me especially when both parties are well aware of the fact that the man is only doing it PURELY because he wants to get in her pants.

You have to understand, she’s not going to date you, she is never going to fuck you, you’re just being another emotional tampon for her just so she can freely empty all her feelings and problems on you and use you as her free therapist and beyond that, she’s not interested in you, not even in the slightest.

So what do you gain from this? Sincerely, how is this profitable in any way? Does it help you cope, knowing you’re talking to the opposite sex while your better looking peers are fucking them?

Most girls don’t even want normal looking men to talk to them, let alone ugly men. You’re wasting your time but of course, even after being ghosted for the 500th time after 50 years of chatting with her, you won’t learn your lesson. You might act all tough and anti-simp on here, but deep down, you’re just like every other man in this shitty fucking world, desperate for female attention and validation. Pathetic.
High iq
 
There are men on discord who call girls that they never saw irl and never will "my girlfriend" or (when they get ghosted) "my ex".

Dude she's not your ex and you weren't in a relationship for a year cause she sent you (and who knows how many others) feet pictures with a flat ass barely visible. Wake up cuck it's not even that things went wrong and you broke up, she already decided from the beginning you were a meme and would never ever even consider taking an airplane for simp number 46344. Women do these things for Chad only and if you're on discord in the first place you're not a Chad.

Fucking simpletons jfl at them
 
I agree ever since I took the bp I do not chat to foids other than for work purposes at best. I wish I could work in a less foid environment though.
 
You guys don’t get it.

500 years from now nothing will be different. Everyone is blackpilled and they all still talk to women and humor them.

Go to Saudi Arabia or something if you’re looking for a change in scenery.

The only thing you’re doing is secluding yourself from women by not talking to them, your conversational skills are not being used, your social tact diminishes. Whatever opportunity there may have been drops to 0.

You are the only one losing in this scenario and yet you think you’re getting one over on them by not “simping” for them by talking to them :feelshaha:

Online chatting is the best it gets. You’re anonymous.

INB4 I’m banned by an 85 IQ mod for telling you the truth because they don’t even know what bluepill and blackpill are anymore.
 
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Women are servants to men. We obtain resources and they take care of children. When a man comes home from work he should be able to do whatever he wants including saying nothing at all except for "get on your knees bitch" if he pleases
 
Eh, if you take long enough, even if it's with guys and even if it's platonic you still get ghosted lol, it's hard to keep up any contact
True.
You guys don’t get it.

500 years from now nothing will be different. Everyone is blackpilled and they all still talk to women and humor them.

Go to Saudi Arabia or something if you’re looking for a change in scenery.

The only thing you’re doing is secluding yourself from women by not talking to them, your conversational skills are not being used, your social tact diminishes. Whatever opportunity there may have been drops to 0.

You are the only one losing in this scenario and yet you think you’re getting one over on them by not “simping” for them by talking to them :feelshaha:

Online chatting is the best it gets. You’re anonymous.

INB4 I’m banned by an 85 IQ mod for telling you the truth because they don’t even know what bluepill and blackpill are anymore.
I don't have experience in dating apps, but I think that online dating talk is worthless unless it quickly leads to a meaningful encounter. If you're texting, it should be in the run-up to dining.
 
I remember my blue pill days and doing just that, sitting around like a cuck and just being friendly and a good listener but being too afraid to say anything even remotely flirtatious. It got me nowhere and the foid just threw me in the trash once she realised I had romantic intentions without even a fleeting word or goodbye. Months of talking and just like that...ghosted and gone.

They are soulless creatures that we only pursue due to biological urges, meanwhile they don't give a flying fuck about you. Unlike some cucks, I wisened up quickly to that revelation.
 
I remember my blue pill days and doing just that, sitting around like a cuck and just being friendly and a good listener but being too afraid to say anything even remotely flirtatious. It got me nowhere and the foid just threw me in the trash once she realised I had romantic intentions without even a fleeting word or goodbye. Months of talking and just like that...ghosted and gone.

They are soulless creatures that we only pursue due to biological urges, meanwhile they don't give a flying fuck about you. Unlike some cucks, I wisened up quickly to that revelation.
Yeah, the standard advice was to not come across as too available but of course the foid had written you off the second she'd laid eyes on you, you just didn't know it.
 
when PUA was all the rage back in 2010-2015 i always knew i would never stand a chance because of my social phobia. anyway, i intuited right. had i not been socially phobic i would have been another dupe.
 
Same. I avoid the foid at all costs. And if I add someone in a video game and find out they're a woman I block them. Nothing good comes from interacting with women
 
The brutal truth.

There's something unknown?

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1691785899499
 
This is why I made a vow to never talk to foids online unless it's to troll them. By talking to them they get what they crave the most (attention) while I get nothing.
Very based, its putrid steaming bullshit that we are still expected to approach or put up with systematic exploitation from these saggy hags that arent even comfortable with their selves
 
I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.

Volcels.is.


So what do you gain from this? Sincerely, how is this profitable in any way? Does it help you cope, knowing you’re talking to the opposite sex while your better looking peers are fucking them?

Because if you've never put it to the test, all of your theories about your face/race/height are just... theories.


but deep down, you’re just like every other man in this shitty fucking world, desperate for female attention and validation. Pathetic.

It sounds like you think it's a GOOD thing that you do not have any contact with women. So why are you even here? Go and MGTOW with the other MGTOWs.
 
I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.

I see normies messaging girls all the time. Asking how their day has been, what their food is, and other trivial nonsense, you know how much normies love insufferable small talk. It’s just so cringe and unnatural to me especially when both parties are well aware of the fact that the man is only doing it PURELY because he wants to get in her pants.

You have to understand, she’s not going to date you, she is never going to fuck you, you’re just being another emotional tampon for her just so she can freely empty all her feelings and problems on you and use you as her free therapist and beyond that, she’s not interested in you, not even in the slightest.

So what do you gain from this? Sincerely, how is this profitable in any way? Does it help you cope, knowing you’re talking to the opposite sex while your better looking peers are fucking them?

Most girls don’t even want normal looking men to talk to them, let alone ugly men. You’re wasting your time but of course, even after being ghosted for the 500th time after 50 years of chatting with her, you won’t learn your lesson. You might act all tough and anti-simp on here, but deep down, you’re just like every other man in this shitty fucking world, desperate for female attention and validation. Pathetic.

While you as a good man ask her how her day was Chad asks her If she shaved her pussy it's over
 
While you as a good man ask her how her day was Chad asks her If she shaved her pussy it's over
Literally why I see no point in giving them any attention they are seeking. If they want your D, they will make it obvious.
 
I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.

I see normies messaging girls all the time. Asking how their day has been, what their food is, and other trivial nonsense, you know how much normies love insufferable small talk. It’s just so cringe and unnatural to me especially when both parties are well aware of the fact that the man is only doing it PURELY because he wants to get in her pants.

You have to understand, she’s not going to date you, she is never going to fuck you, you’re just being another emotional tampon for her just so she can freely empty all her feelings and problems on you and use you as her free therapist and beyond that, she’s not interested in you, not even in the slightest.

So what do you gain from this? Sincerely, how is this profitable in any way? Does it help you cope, knowing you’re talking to the opposite sex while your better looking peers are fucking them?

Most girls don’t even want normal looking men to talk to them, let alone ugly men. You’re wasting your time but of course, even after being ghosted for the 500th time after 50 years of chatting with her, you won’t learn your lesson. You might act all tough and anti-simp on here, but deep down, you’re just like every other man in this shitty fucking world, desperate for female attention and validation. Pathetic.
This whole thread is describing whores, online women, women who use reddit and dating apps, WHORES, ATTENTION WHORES.

Whether or not all women are like this deep down, you can still find far better women in real life who will behave normally towards you.
 
I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.

I see normies messaging girls all the time. Asking how their day has been, what their food is, and other trivial nonsense, you know how much normies love insufferable small talk. It’s just so cringe and unnatural to me especially when both parties are well aware of the fact that the man is only doing it PURELY because he wants to get in her pants.

You have to understand, she’s not going to date you, she is never going to fuck you, you’re just being another emotional tampon for her just so she can freely empty all her feelings and problems on you and use you as her free therapist and beyond that, she’s not interested in you, not even in the slightest.

So what do you gain from this? Sincerely, how is this profitable in any way? Does it help you cope, knowing you’re talking to the opposite sex while your better looking peers are fucking them?

Most girls don’t even want normal looking men to talk to them, let alone ugly men. You’re wasting your time but of course, even after being ghosted for the 500th time after 50 years of chatting with her, you won’t learn your lesson. You might act all tough and anti-simp on here, but deep down, you’re just like every other man in this shitty fucking world, desperate for female attention and validation. Pathetic.
Unlike them I kill em all. It saves me and the universes time of pure perfection going incorrectly
 
This is why I made a vow to never talk to foids online unless it's to troll them. By talking to them they get what they crave the most (attention) while I get nothing.
 
they do it because they think it will favour their odds
 
I have never messaged a single woman in my life, not on Discord, not on Tinder, not on anywhere and I refuse to do it.
I agree with @Defetivecuckachu on this one. With your attitude even high-tier normies can be incel. After trying and failing your attitude is of course justified. And obviously you don't have to bend over backwards and simp whilst trying, but just because it's statistically over for most men doesn't necessarily mean it's over for you personally. Every statistic has exceptions; you have to verify that you're not one of them.
 

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