She’s a hapa, not a cumskin
@shii410 thoughts?
none of the assertions she makes in the video are wrong at all tbh
this type of relationship (white guy uses his american citizenship to get a third world noodlefoid to marry him) is obviously predatory, without a doubt. all of these guys know that on an even playing field, without abusing any kind of material power dynamic, their asian wives would never even look in their direction and would reject them just as brutally as western women
it's basically the textbook definition of "exploitation", but they usually opt to think of it as "getting a steal of a deal" instead. even though these relationships are clearly a hostile negotiation, the man still tells himself "it's true love" "she chose to marry me" "I'm giving her a great life" etc. because at the end of the day, nobody likes to see themselves as a bad guy
the thing is, you can't just
choose to play "the game" and then
pretend that there's no game being played. engaging in predatory behavior and then deluding yourself about it doesn't make you a "nice guy",
it just makes you a very shitty and ineffective predator.
so that's why guys like her dad end up being the ones getting fucked over and exploited in the end. they're at a massive disadvantage because their wives are under
no delusions that the relationship is anything more than a hostile negotiation and are willing to be as ruthless and cutthroat as it takes to turn the tables.