It's not my fault that no woman is attracted to me, it is not because of my personality that in my 22 years of life I have not been able to find a single woman interested in me, simply my physical appearance is not enough for them. Many will insist that it is because of my personality, that it is because I have a nasty personality, first of all, you do not know me and do not know what my personality is like, so do not speak without knowing.
I used to have female friends who loved my personality when I was in college, I have had female friends who trusted me, that shows that my personality was never the problem, they liked my personality, but not my physique. I have had female friends invite me to parties, at those parties, no woman wanted to hit on me, but they did hit on more stereotypically attractive and masculine men, the problem is NOT that ONE woman rejects me, the problem is that they all do. The conclusion from all these life experiences is clear: my personality is nice, but my physique is not.
I find it funny that there are so many people who say that having a girlfriend is very easy and to have a girlfriend you just have to treat women like human beings, those people who say that obviously speak from their position of privilege, they are showing that they are so privileged that behaving in a normal way is enough to automatically get sex, they assume that what worked for them can work for everyone, it's like when millionaires say that the poor are poor because they want to. Women who make fun of incels are lucky because many of them would be incels if they were men, they are NOT better than us, they just got luckier.
To be rejected by everyone you don't need to have a nasty personality, the world is full of men like me, decent and nice men who are nice to women, but still no woman feels attraction for them. The incels may be wrong about a lot of things, but society has to start admitting that they are right that the sexual market is unfair and that there are many men who even though they are decent people and have a nice personality are doomed to be undesirable because of their physique, and honestly I don't even blame the incels for reacting with anger and frustration to this scary and unfair situation, it's very understandable to feel hatred for this hierarchy in which ugly men are below and are condemned to die without experiencing the delicious things in life, that's why I identify with the incels.
I used to have female friends who loved my personality when I was in college, I have had female friends who trusted me, that shows that my personality was never the problem, they liked my personality, but not my physique. I have had female friends invite me to parties, at those parties, no woman wanted to hit on me, but they did hit on more stereotypically attractive and masculine men, the problem is NOT that ONE woman rejects me, the problem is that they all do. The conclusion from all these life experiences is clear: my personality is nice, but my physique is not.
I find it funny that there are so many people who say that having a girlfriend is very easy and to have a girlfriend you just have to treat women like human beings, those people who say that obviously speak from their position of privilege, they are showing that they are so privileged that behaving in a normal way is enough to automatically get sex, they assume that what worked for them can work for everyone, it's like when millionaires say that the poor are poor because they want to. Women who make fun of incels are lucky because many of them would be incels if they were men, they are NOT better than us, they just got luckier.
To be rejected by everyone you don't need to have a nasty personality, the world is full of men like me, decent and nice men who are nice to women, but still no woman feels attraction for them. The incels may be wrong about a lot of things, but society has to start admitting that they are right that the sexual market is unfair and that there are many men who even though they are decent people and have a nice personality are doomed to be undesirable because of their physique, and honestly I don't even blame the incels for reacting with anger and frustration to this scary and unfair situation, it's very understandable to feel hatred for this hierarchy in which ugly men are below and are condemned to die without experiencing the delicious things in life, that's why I identify with the incels.
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